Is Glutes Back Yet?

[+ Lucky]

Recently several posters were put on "time-out" status. That's something I don't mind when tempers need to cool, and these guys were away for just a short time. But glutes? Where is he? He didn't come back with them.

 

I've been posting here for 12 1/2 years, and most of that time glutes has been posting as well. So I think of him as a buddy of sorts, and the site isn't the same without him. He has a lot to offer, and no one can find an old thread quicker than he can. I call him the archivist of the message board. I'd like to see him back here posting away.

 

I need to qualify that because I do know that glutes has annoyed certain people. Jimboivyo would be the primary one. Yet jimboiyvo can take care of himself as he is no spring flower. Not to say that he isn't a nice guy and a good contributor here. Some might think he is a bit focused on Benjamin Nicholas, but that doesn't bother me. Yet it bothers a few that glutes can't seem to leave jimboiyvo alone.

 

So, why not let glutes back, but condition it on the idea that he ignores jimboiyvo altogether. No mention of his name in any post he makes. No subterfuge on that one either. Glutes would have to agree to abide by the rule, and, if he did not, even I would agree to show him the door on a one way trip.

 

I think that is fair. So I call on the powers that be, Daddy himself, to give it a try. Why cut off a long-time poster if he agrees to that one specific requirement?

[bigvalboy]

Thank you for posting this Lucky. I think the terms you propose for his return are reasonable, and moreover, something that all parties concerned could accept. I liked Glutes, he always told the truth. As Winston Churchill once said, "The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is."

[jjkrkwood]

There is TRUTH, and then there is Truth in one's OWN mind......

[+ Charlie]

Glutes also constantly harassed KMEM, who seems to have disapeared as well. Maybe they have taken a long flight together.

[+ WilliamM]

 

I need to qualify that because I do know that glutes has annoyed certain people. Jimboivyo would be the primary one. Yet jimboiyvo can take care of himself as he is no spring flower. Not to say that he isn't a nice guy and a good contributor here. Some might think he is a bit focused on Benjamin Nicholas, but that doesn't bother me. Yet it bothers a few that glutes can't seem to leave jimboiyvo alone.

 

So, why not let glutes back, but condition it on the idea that he ignores jimboiyvo altogether. No mention of his name in any post he makes. No subterfuge on that one either. Glutes would have to agree to abide by the rule, and, if he did not, even I would agree to show him the door on a one way trip.

 

I think that is fair. So I call on the powers that be, Daddy himself, to give it a try. Why cut off a long-time poster if he agrees to that one specific requirement?

 

I did a search of Jimboivyo's post here in 2012. In general, he is a real asset to this forum. But, I have just read too many posts defending Benjamin Nicholas. If I was much more personally invested in the good/bad stuff about Mr. Nicholas, I would be annoyed at Jimboivyo myself. To discuss Jimboivyo's Benjamin Nicholas posts specifically might start yet another battle. At this pont, one would have thought there was nothing more to write about Benjamin. I would like to see Glutes return, with the conditions stated in your post. But, I would plead with Jimboivyo to move on as well when to comes to Mr. Nicholas, at least on this site.

[Boner]

I don't think any poster here would be happy, or comfortable, being saddled with unique and targeted restrictions upon them which would censor their personal expressions differently from others. To suggest so, would imo, turn the board into an undefined and unruly bowdlerization of unmanageable censorship.

[+ WilliamM]

Other message boards have successfully put restrictions on people who post very much like Lucky has suggested above. The one that comes to mind first is Talkin Broadway: All That Chat. All That Chat has a very alert moderator, who is a volunteer.

 

The moderator is very open about calling people out right on the message board when they break the agreement, so people who post regularly are aware of the restrictions. I do agree that if the number of people on restrictions exceeded just a few, it would be impossible to monitor.

[LookingAround]

I'd love to see Glutes back, ASAP. He was a very valuable contributor here and I'd welcome his return with enthusiasm.

[jimboivyo]

I did a search of Jimboivyo's post here in 2012. In general, he is a real asset to this forum. But, I have just read too many posts defending Benjamin Nicholas. If I was much more personally invested in the good/bad stuff about Mr. Nicholas, I would be annoyed at Jimboivyo myself. To discuss Jimboivyo's Benjamin Nicholas posts specifically might start yet another battle. At this pont, one would have thought there was nothing more to write about Benjamin. I would like to see Glutes return, with the conditions stated in your post. But, I would plead with Jimboivyo to move on as well when to comes to Mr. Nicholas, at least on this site.

 

funny that folks think whatever glutes says is the truth. he speaks his mind, but it ain't always the truth. he would need to know actual personal details on things he speaks about for that to be true. again, ain't the case. mostly pot shots in the dark from what this cowboy can tell.

 

I've laid low on BN lately. could glutes do the same? Can he control his obsessive compulsion to bash someone he doesn't even know?

 

writing about benjamin: There's always more than can be written of someone who's a great escort. that's what this whole website is about. you don't have to agree or like what I say, but as long as I speak the truth, I'm entitled to my opinion.

[migueldeltoro]

I liked Glutes, he always told the truth.[/i]

 

Well, I'm not sure how truthful his "truth" was, but he does know how to keep the forum talking and no one could spin facts like he does. Despite my own issues in the past with Glutes, I wouldn't mind seeing him back. Before Glutes started talking smack about me my career was a bit slow moving. Afterwards, my business exploded and I met a lot of great clients. Most of whom happen to be members of this forum. I guess you might say I'm "en-dentured" to him. I might of also learned a thing or two about escorting from his gazillion posts. Thanks Glutes!

[seeker630]

en-dentured[/url]" to him. I might of also learned a thing or two about escorting from his gazillion posts. Thanks Glutes!

 

Good one, Miguel. I debated bringing up that bizarre episode but decided not to fan any flames. I think glutes certainly can a valuable contributor here, but I'm not sure he can control his obsessions.

[Boner]

en-dentured[/url]" to him. I might of also learned a thing or two about escorting from his gazillion posts. Thanks Glutes!

 

I was not posting here during the period you reference - but I was reading. And since I was reading, I took a pass on you based upon your linked thread here because I just didn't need or want any disappointments at the time. Who-ever really does?

 

In hindsight, it was an unfair and damaging reflection upon you. And, an opportunity which I rejected, based solely upon someone else's assurances. Assurances, which turned out to be short of anything other than first hand experience.

 

I don't think that Glutes blatantly lied about anything. I think that he simply mislead those who had no better information than he personally had.

 

And therein lies the rub for me. And should be - for everyone else. As far as I am concerned.

[imrthr]

There are several interesting comments offered concerning the missing “glutes.”

 

However, there is one possibility for his continued absence but it is not mentioned and should be.

 

That possibility is perhaps “glutes” has not returned by his own choice.

 

Over many years, glutes has helped make this site interesting, for the most part. To “ban” him, like a child, could have been the deciding factor that caused him to stay away from this forum.

 

While it is true this forum offers a lot of useful information, there is often unjustified bickering, name calling and caustic remarks made and directed at various posters. No one knows why this occurs, but it does.

 

My looking back at many of the offending posts did not produce, in my opinion, sufficient basis for the nasty remarks made to various posters. Forum members are not the only source of the nasty and/or inappropriate remarks made to members.

 

Over the years, I have seen many posters come and go. Most that left were not “banned” but they are gone, nonetheless.

 

We should enjoy interesting posters while they are here. Another day could mean we have seen the last of them.

[bigvalboy]

 

there is often unjustified bickering, name calling and caustic remarks made and directed at various posters. No one knows why this occurs, but it does.

 

 

 

 

My looking back at many of the offending posts did not produce, in my opinion, sufficient basis for the nasty remarks made to various posters. Forum members are not the only source of the nasty and/or inappropriate remarks made to members.

 

Sadly...I could not agree more with your comments..... As to Glutes, I can only say that he is alive and well.

[+ Lucky]

Glutes wants to return to the message board and has informed me of that personally. I hope now that Daddy and the moderators will take this opportunity to be kind and gracious and offer him an early return along the lines I discussed above. I believe that glutes can keep his promises. No one would be more disappointed than I if that were not the case, but I would not have made this effort with this thread if I did not believe in glutes' integrity.

[bigvalboy]

Glutes wants to return to the message board and has informed me of that personally. I hope now that Daddy and the moderators will take this opportunity to be kind and gracious and offer him an early return along the lines I discussed above. I believe that glutes can keep his promises. No one would be more disappointed than I if that were not the case, but I would not have made this effort with this thread if I did not believe in glutes' integrity.

 

I have spoken to Glutes also, and I to believe that the conditions that you set forth in your original post can be followed by all parties concerned. I think that they are reasonable and fair. We shall see how all of this plays out. I for one will be greatly disappointed if he does not return.

[Boner]

Glutes wants to return to the message board and has informed me of that personally. I hope now that Daddy and the moderators will take this opportunity to be kind and gracious and offer him an early return along the lines I discussed above. .

 

If Anybody was to fuck Glutes up the ass for an early return - I would suggest to you Lucky that you just did that.

 

Lucky, this is not your board. And as much as you believe that it revolves and exists around you - it does not. Just like the MER board didnt' when you were politely - yet not banned for your arrogance - but still told to STFU.

 

Most people wait out their time-outs with dignity. Why is it so important for you, who was timed-out for a year to now campaign for someone else under than dignity?

 

It's documented, Lucky, that when you were once banned from here that you then bashed the management here - Over there - to just be a cunty little prick.

 

Obviously, the management here did not take offense to your comments then, so why then press them here and now just to return yourself to being a cunty litle prick - now - for someone else?

 

#justwondering

[Walker1]

Glutes is an interesting poster and so was Fin Fang Foom. Whatever happened to Fin Fang Foom??

[+ Lucky]

Those of us trying to politely call upon Daddy to return glutes to the fold should take heed: Boner wants to stop us.

He wants to turn this thread into a free for all by hurling insults . I say: Don't let him. Keep focused on the goal and let Boner talk to himself.

We want glutes back posting more than we want to engage negativity.

[Lookin]

. . . let Boner talk to himself.

 

Gosh, you've just described my Saturday night to a tee. http://www.maleescortreview.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

 

I agree that Brother Glutes should be here amongst his pals, but I think a special set of guidelines for each poster might be difficult. In my opinion, the rules should be the same for everyone.

 

 

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[imrthr]

 

Those of us trying to politely call upon Daddy to return glutes to the fold should take heed: Boner wants to stop us.

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Funny, I did not get that impression at all. Boner simply expressed his opinion of your prior and current behavior. He said nothing about stopping any efforts on behalf of glutes. His opinions were isolated to you.

 

 

 

He wants to turn this thread into a free for all by hurling insults . I say: Don't let him. Keep focused on the goal and let Boner talk to himself.

 

 

Boner merely expressed his opinion of your involvement/behavior in this forum and the MER forum. This does not equate to a "free for all" by any means.

 

Chill out and let the chips fall where they may.

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[jgoo]

While the support from other members for Glutes to come back early from his time-out may have some influence (who knows, other than Daddy, how much if at all), I personally think the most effective option is for Glutes to communicate directly with Daddy. If something can be worked out, great and if not then let it be. I would imagine that Daddy is a reasonable person however he has to balance many factors, including special treatment, making participation conditional (more so than it is now), the integrity of the rules governing the site, etc.

[jjkrkwood]

Many of the members here shrieking for glutes to return have also previously shrieked that the Mods control the site and its Best interests and we should respect and support their decisions, and let the exiled members DO THEIR TIME.... However this is in respect to Banned members they DO NOT LIKE.

 

When it comes to a person they LIKE, they want DIFFERENT RULES, and they forget about the people who have fallen victim to the ousted persons machinizations, obsession and paranoia. Lest we forget this is NOT the first time the offender has been on time-out. He has been so many, times and "allowed" to return after his mandated time. How many passes should a person get ?

 

This site should not be a popularity contest. You can have your favorites, but EVERYONE should be subject to the same rules, regulations and decisions of the Owner and Moderators. If you want different rules, then go start your own site.

[+ Lucky]

When one person takes up a plan to see if another poster can return, I guess those opposed to it have to attack that person. Now I am "shrieking" for the return of glutes. On top of that, I must think that this is "my" message center. Well, damn, if it was then I wouldn't have to ask anyone to support glutes return!

 

Management consists of Daddy, deej, and Cooper, and they will be the ones deciding this issue. It may have already been decided. But there is nothing wrong with the members asking things of the management. It happens all over the world. There is a lot of support for the return of glutes, so we will see if he is given a chance to return. But, if not, there can be no debate that at least his supporters made the effort.

[bigvalboy]

When one person takes up a plan to see if another poster can return, I guess those opposed to it have to attack that person. Now I am "shrieking" for the return of glutes. On top of that, I must think that this is "my" message center. Well, damn, if it was then I wouldn't have to ask anyone to support glutes return!

 

Management consists of Daddy, deej, and Cooper, and they will be the ones deciding this issue. It may have already been decided. But there is nothing wrong with the members asking things of the management. It happens all over the world. There is a lot of support for the return of glutes, so we will see if he is given a chance to return. But, if not, there can be no debate that at least his supporters made the effort.

 

My everyone got up early, and on a Sunday no less. I think Lucky that it is apparent that many do not want Glutes to return. I certainly understand that and I am sure Glutes does also. I spoke with Glutes the other night, and he is well aware of the politics involved. We shall have to wait to see how all of this plays out. I will agree that attacking you serves no purpose as you have not attacked anyone else. Do not let name calling rule the day, and do not let others change the conversation. Our focus should be on your original post. Have a great Sunday....