Escorts Are The Meat - Clients Are Their Means

[Boner]

bigvalguy stated in another thread that:

I have had numerous conversations with members here and personal friends who hire, and many really have the attitude that escorts are just a low life prostitute peddling there body's on some street corner.

 

Since bigvalguy has brought other members here, into this conversation, which he considers to be friends - it got me to thinking.

 

Just how many members here are actually silently, and privately, suggesting to each other that the escorts they hire and review here, are really just low life prostitutes to one another - all the while, publicly adoring or supporting them?

 

Do most men who hire and participate here, really believe this is more the norm, when clients are talking amongst other clients, about how they really view the escorts they hire?

 

It's from some people's belief here, that escorts gossip amongst other escorts, about clients - but I never felt such degradation toward escorts here, until I read this.

 

I'm simply curious. I never felt that this was the case here, as it has never been a view that I have ever entertained for myself.

 

Am I now finding myself in the minority here, as to how I view, and respect escorts?

[seeker630]

bigvalguy stated in another thread that:

 

 

Since bigvalguy has brought other members here, into this conversation, which he considers to be friends - it got me to thinking.

 

Just how many members here are actually silently, and privately, suggesting to each other that the escorts they hire and review here, are really just low life prostitutes to one another - all the while, publicly adoring or supporting them?

 

Do most men who hire and participate here, really believe this is more the norm, when clients are talking amongst other clients, about how they really view the escorts they hire?

 

It's from some people's belief here, that escorts gossip amongst other escorts, about clients - but I never felt such degradation toward escorts here, until I read this.

 

I'm simply curious. I never felt that this was the case here, as it has never been a view that I have ever entertained for myself.

 

Am I now finding myself in the minority here, as to how I view, and respect escorts?

 

I'm not sure you're really looking for an answer, and I doubt that people who do feel this way are likely to step up & say so.

 

I can really only speak for myself, since I don't discuss the hiring of escorts outside this board. I respect escorting as a job and I respect those who take it seriously and do it well.

[robberbaron4u]

I do not choose to "core" a man's character based on his choice of occupation; physical beauty, personal charm, and, indeed, sexual prowess can be viewed as assets to be exploited for profit, and, indeed, I have come across men whose only marketable asset was their body. I surmise, however, that having respect for a man who peddles his flesh for money can prove a difficult thing for some.

[Boner]

I'm not sure you're really looking for an answer, and I doubt that people who do feel this way are likely to step up & say so.

 

I'm not looking for an answer to change my opinion about how I feel. I'm just trying to better understand my company here.

[tyro]

I have very little experience hiring compared to most on this board. However, all of the escorts have been very bright, interesting, and beautiful. Do I pay them for their time and talents? HELLZ YEAH! Frankly, my favorites undercharge. To me, they are not and never will be "low-life prostitutes." Others, both on this forum and off, may believe that if they so choose. I doubt I ever will.

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[Walker1]

I look at hiring an escort as similar to going to a movie in the theaters. For a short time, my dull drab self gets to have sex with a bright, handsome man and the occasional woman. They make me feel like they want me(even though I know they would probably ignore me at a bar or the street.) But hey its a fantasy to take us away from the daily grind of life.

 

The movie is gone and so is the escort when the clock runs out. Beyond that I have no opinion. We are all human, well, except for scum like that guy in Colorado who shot up a bunch of people in a movie theater.

[+ Travis69]

Some employers respect their employees and some don't. It happens in every profession. Also some employees respect their employers and some don't.

[Diverdan]

I have the greatest respect and admiration for the companions I have been with. Some have become "friends" beyond the encounters, although I never put them in the same category as other friends I have. Most guys that I have met have been outstanding people and it just happens that they have talents that are highly desirable by others. I treat them like I would like to be treated if the roles were reversed, and only on some rare occasions have I been disappointed. I have met other guys in other professions whom I would not walk across the street for and they are way down on the totem pole on almost every measure imaginable.

[bigvalboy]

Some employers respect their employees and some don't. It happens in every profession. Also some employees respect their employers and some don't.

 

True enough, but having disdain for escorts is just something that bothers me when friends talk or treat them so badly. it can't be helped I guess, you can't control what everyones thinks.

[maxwellissmart]

...a low life prostitute peddling there body's on some street corner.

 

Speaking of, I'm going to make a nice little tri-fold to hand out the next time I see an example of this, that says: "Use the Internet, sweetheart. It's where all the action is." I've been very tempted before.

[bigvalboy]

I treat them like I would like to be treated if the roles were reversed, and only on some rare occasions have I been disappointed.

 

Well said. For me at least when the session is over, and if it didn't go well, and some times it doesn't, chemistry, feelings, sexual compatibility, whatever, I know that I did everything in my power to make it work. I know that I treated them with respect and I can at least move on. I don't understand how friends of mine can be so dismissive of escorts and think that somehow it is ok...

 

I used to think that perhaps it was the profession that caused them to say those things, but sitting here thinking about it, many of these people, who are really not friends anymore, treated their Gardner, maid, waiter etc. the same way. I guess it is how one views themselves in the world...

[+ Travis69]

True enough, but having disdain for escorts is just something that bothers me when friends talk or treat them so badly. it can't be helped I guess, you can't control everyones thinks.

 

I agree. I was raised to treat everyone with respect. Sadly many weren't but trying to change them is impossible. Was behind a woman in the teller line yesterday. She got mad at the teller and said "you're only a teller. Get me someone important." Very rude.

[bigvalboy]

Was behind a woman in the teller line yesterday. She got mad at the teller and said "you're only a teller. Get me someone important."

 

Perfect example of what I am talking about. How they treat escorts is how they treat everyone....

[BgMstr4u]

I have had some wonderful encounters with escorts who were good at what they did, good to me, good for me, just plain good. I have also had escorts who treated me like shit (and that is not what I wanted!), and even a few who threatened me, one who would have cracked my skull open if I had not run for my life. Not recently. In circumstances I am careful not to repeat (a street hustler in West Hollywood 30 years ago or so).

 

So I am careful, maybe too careful, and don't have as much fun as I could, I guess.

 

I think that until some sort of rapport is established, and both parties come to trust each other, there is a necessary carefulness. It is best facilitated, I have learned, by politeness and consideration. When those qualities are returned, along with the hoped-for benefits, then something good can grow, sometimes something wonderful. But assuming an escort is somehow unworthy is a pretty good way to open the door to it being true.

[Epigonos]

I have NEVER heard any of my friends or my acquaintances from this board condemn escorts as low life prostitutes. Have we discussed escorts? – Certainly. I see no difference in discussing an escort with board friends and acquaintances than I do in writing reviews.

If I consider escorts wh--es then what exactly does that make me? Honestly it makes me a wh--emonger which is certainly no better or worse than a wh--e. Someone who considers escorts wh--es tell us more about himself than he does about the guys he call disparaging names.

[bigvalboy]

I have NEVER heard any of my friends or my acquaintances from this board condemn escorts as low life prostitutes. Have we discussed escorts? – Certainly. I see no difference in discussing an escort with board friends and acquaintances than I do in writing reviews.

If I consider escorts wh--es then what exactly does that make me? Honestly it makes me a wh--emonger which is certainly no better or worse than a wh--e. Someone who considers escorts wh--es tell us more about himself than he does about the guys he call disparaging names.

 

I have unfortunately been in conversations with members here through emails or private messages, that have talked terribly about escorts, and over the years with friends as well. I should clarify Epig, most have thankfully vanished from my life. But when people say to me things like, "What the fuck do you care what he thinks, dude he is a fucking prostitute"..yes those sentiments were said to me, then you just have to stop for a second and rethink friendships.

 

It is interesting, because I was so cautious about going to PS the first time. I had just joined really, and I didn't know anyone. Frankly I was shocked at how nice and kind everyone was. My friends back in LA, up until that time just didn't treat escorts the way many of the members in PS did. Like LBT who displayed a genuine love and caring for the guys that he had brought along. Everything in life changes, and you often meet people and have to reassess those that you surround yourself with...

[gallahadesquire]

Some employers respect their employees and some don't. It happens in every profession. Also some employees respect their employers and some don't.

 

Bravo! Well spoken.

[rvwnsd]

 

I surmise that having a respect for anyone, regardless of profession, can prove to be a difficult thing for some. Just read some of the comments posted on this message board.

[JT Brooklyn]

True enough, but having disdain for escorts is just something that bothers me when friends talk or treat them so badly. it can't be helped I guess, you can't control what everyones thinks.

 

I'm wondering how the subject comes up among your Friends? Do you start it with "I'm a Client of Rentboys"?

 

Your friends obviously must be jealous of the Goodlooking "Working Guys" making very goodlooking $$!

 

Tell them to spend a buck and get a thrill like you do or do you?

[orbital sander]

I'm wondering how the subject comes up among your Friends? Do you start it with "I'm a Client of Rentboys"?

 

Your friends obviously must be jealous of the Goodlooking "Working Guys" making very goodlooking $$!

 

Tell them to spend a buck and get a thrill like you do or do you?

 

I had the same thought...I would imaging it as good conversation in the garden during afternoon tea.

[+ purplekow]

When I read the first post here, I thought, here is a jackass just trying to cause trouble. After reading the thread, I was surprised by the quality of the responses. So, I would like to apologize to Boner for assuming he was just being a jackass.

As for my opinion of escorts, yup dirty, sleazy, low life, rotten, flesh peddling, self absorbed, narcissistic wh-res. Oh wait, that is my opinion of lawyers, Escorts are fine.

[bigvalboy]

I'm wondering how the subject comes up among your Friends? Do you start it with "I'm a Client of Rentboys"?

 

Your friends obviously must be jealous of the Goodlooking "Working Guys" making very goodlooking $$!

 

Tell them to spend a buck and get a thrill like you do or do you?

 

I have some friends that are all clients. Among those friends, the talk of escorts will often be the topic of conversation. Of my other friends who don't hire, although they know that I do, we don't discuss escorts. They just don't understand why anyone would pay for sex, but then again, I don't understand afternoon tea in the garden. SO....each to his own.

[SteveEscort]

I have some friends that are all clients. Among those friends, the talk of escorts will often be the topic of conversation. Of my other friends who don't hire, although they know that I do, we don't discuss escorts. They just don't understand why anyone would pay for sex, but then again, I don't understand afternoon tea in the garden. SO....each to his own.

 

As a general rule, most clients are lovely, some have a real chip on their shoulder and sometimes I find arrogance to be a real turn on, it depends on the mood and the circumstances. Some clients have a bad attitude when you point out their errors in the past (like no showing or cancelling all the time). However........... I find many escorts to be just the same, who think it's a fast buck with no commitment.

 

I would be horrified if any client left my home truly satisfied but there have been occasions when he's been a dick with me, yet I will plod though the appointment giving him the best service I can in the circumstances. The horror stories I have heard from clients who have been to see other escorts is shocking at times, dirty filthy places, other people milling around the apartment/house when they're there, drugs on show. These are the escorts who truly don't deserve any clients.

[Guy Fawkes]

People that believe: "Escorts are just a low life prostitute peddling there body's on some street corner" shouldn't be coming to my site. That's not what the site is about.

[Guest countryboywny]

Respect, you get what you give. It's has been my pleasure to spend time with some wonderful, exciting men. What's to disrespect?