Today's review response from Xander

[jjkrkwood]

That's where he dropped the ball. On a side note, can you imagine how he must feel today? Jesus, talk about embarrassing moments.

 

I dont think he should be embarrased, he's a Newbie and still learning so a few faux pas are to be expected.... Now if he was a seasoned escort, that would be way different, and totally unacceptable.. He should just take in everything that has been said, and use it in his future work. Growth is power....

[citylaw1]

I must be the Kathy Griffin of THIS site, saying the things people are thinking but wont say themselves.?... 20 posts of accolades for Xanders response, and noone spoke out on the clients behalf before I put it out there, and now people start to speak a bit more honestly without all the "air kissing"....... I just dont get it ?

 

Although I did call him out a little, in hindsight, I was pretty easy on him. I too am surprised that more people didn't bash the cigarette and crotch smell, myself included.

[citylaw1]

I dont think he should be embarrased, he's a Newbie and still learning so a few faux pas are to be expected.... Now if he was a seasoned escort, that would be way different, and totally unacceptable.. He should just take in everything that has been said, and use it in his future work. Growth is power....

 

Anyone over 10 shouldn't have to be reminded to clean his pussy.

[BostonPhil]

I chose to commend Xander because it is a well tempered response to a critical review, a rarity. Didn't see the necessity for me to cheer the reviewer or pass judgement on Xander. I tend to give every one benefit of the doubt, escort and client alike. If he showed up and his cock smelled like some one else's mouth and his has had crusty lube on it, that is another story.

[Guest Connoisseur]

I must be the Kathy Griffin of THIS site, saying the things people are thinking but wont say themselves.?... 20 posts of accolades for Xanders response, and noone spoke out on the clients behalf before I put it out there, and now people start to speak a bit more honestly without all the "air kissing"....... I just dont get it ?

 

What can we say about you JJ except you are "wonderful" and we're all better off for having you as a member of this site.

[seeker630]

Anyone over 10 shouldn't have to be reminded to clean his pussy.

 

I thought the subject was male escorts.

 

I think this remark was totally uncalled for.

[Guest Connoisseur]

Anyone over 10 shouldn't have to be reminded to clean his pussy.

 

Next time you go shopping see if you can buy some class. Trash is supposed to be thrown out, not spoken. You should jump in the barrel and wait by the curb for the big truck with hydraulic lift arms.

[Steven_Draker]

I would also prefer some one dissatisfied with my performance either stop and give me feedback on the spot or even contact me later to let me know how I could do better.

 

You make a valid point, Phil. To this I'd quote Xander's response "I remember our time together and I thought we both had a great time together. I don't remember you displaying any disappointment".

 

I wish the reviewer had balls to either say something on the spot/make amendments/stop the session instead of going home frustrated.

[Decatur Guy]

This is Daddys Reviews at its finest. An accurate review which articulated facts, and avoided insulting judgments heaped on the provider followed by an apologetic, sincere response that did not resort to name-calling or fiction to blame the client.

 

In total agreement

[jjkrkwood]

What can we say about you JJ except you are "wonderful" and we're all better off for having you as a member of this site.

 

That certainly wasnt MY point Conn, so your sarcasm is unnecessary. I expect MORE out of a Connoisseur !

[BostonPhil]

You make a valid point, Phil. To this I'd quote Xander's response "I remember our time together and I thought we both had a great time together. I don't remember you displaying any disappointment".

 

I wish the reviewer had balls to either say something on the spot/make amendments/stop the session instead of going home frustrated.

 

I don't think any of us want a client to leave disappointed or frustrated. Most of us, especially those posting here, take pride in our work and would rather see a client satisfied than just leave the appointment with the fee.

[LouieD]

Heavens!, all these accolades being heaped on Xander for his "class act" response to the negative review are about to make me sick.

 

He admits to all of the reviewer's points. He lied in his ad. He was groggy on the phone, nearly missing the appointment. He's pudgy, he smokes and he arrives unshowered and unprepared. He should have offered a full refund; now that would have been a "class act".

 

I certainly would never hire him after reading the review and the response.

[josephga]

the bad news I don't think anyone that reads the review will ever hire him regardless of what his response had been. the good news: alot of people have never heard of this site so he will still get business

[bobchitown]

Ah - I didn't realize they got a chance to preview.

[josephga]

according the the review that appointment was 5/12 that was almost 6 weeks ago so he could have stopped smoking within that time.

[+ Travis69]

Atlanta does have a rather hot humid climate. Even if he had showered before he left home I wonder how fresh he would have been upon arrival. Perhaps the client is overly sensitive to smells. If Xander had requested to jump in the shower would the client have complained? Who knows? As others have pointed out why didn't the client just remedy the situation at hand?

[+ Shoreboy]

Only once did I have an escort (and it was during a major heat wave) arrive and he was a tad smelly in what JJ cals his nether regions....and I simply said "please go and shower"...which he did and then the fun followed with everyone happy.

 

I would hire Xander since I find him cute....but would do some sniffing around beforehand

[citylaw1]

I thought the subject was male escorts.

 

I think this remark was totally uncalled for.

 

Grow up! This is a thread about the odor of a prostitutes crotch. Do you not see the absurdity in your remark?

 

I'm sorry; allow me to rephrase: "I do believe, that after the age of 10 years, each escort and client alike must be held accountable for the odor emitted from their respective crotches, regardless of climate."

[jjkrkwood]

Atlanta does have a rather hot humid climate. Even if he had showered before he left home I wonder how fresh he would have been upon arrival. Perhaps the client is overly sensitive to smells. If Xander had requested to jump in the shower would the client have complained? Who knows? As others have pointed out why didn't the client just remedy the situation at hand?

 

Travis, on this issue I dont believe its the clients responsibility. He is paying for a "service" and proper hygiene is part of that service. It was the escorts place to suggest a shower, and if the client didnt want to pay for that time, he forgoes it, although the shower should have been on the escorts clock, not the clients, since the escort arrived in "not ready to perform condition"... A truly professional escort is atuned to clients sensibilities and shouldnt put them in a position of going down on a sweaty crotch. (unless they enjoy that sort of thing, in which case, its fine). :o

[BostonPhil]

Travis, on this issue I dont believe its the clients responsibility. He is paying for a "service" and proper hygiene is part of that service. It was the escorts place to suggest a shower, and if the client didnt want to pay for that time, he forgoes it, although the shower should have been on the escorts clock, not the clients, since the escort arrived in "not ready to perform condition"... A truly professional escort is atuned to clients sensibilities and shouldnt put them in a position of going down on a sweaty crotch. (unless they enjoy that sort of thing, in which case, its fine). :o

 

Of course it should be off the clock.

[citylaw1]

Next time you go shopping see if you can buy some class. Trash is supposed to be thrown out, not spoken. You should jump in the barrel and wait by the curb for the big truck with hydraulic lift arms.

 

Class???? Really??? You are judging me on a sarcastic remark made in a forum of middle aged men discussing the crotch odor of a stranger. Jesus Christ!

 

This remark was made in response to being accused of being too easy on Xander where the negatives are concerned. After 50 responses I agreed with JJ. This is crazy and he was wrong. Hygiene is the first thing that needs to be attended to ... period.

 

Why don't you take your "trash" nonsense to your grown children tonight for a vote:

 

"Pappy was discussing a male escort online today with a bunch of anonymous posters. It seems as though the escort was very nice, and extremely poetic in his response to a negative review that he received."

 

"A review for what Pappy?"

 

"Well, some gentleman hired the young man for sex, and when he began to fellate him, an unsettling odor emerged from his crotch. This upset the reviewer, and it was relayed to us as a negative experience. Furthermore, this gentleman recommended that Pappy and others avoid this escort at all cost. Just as I was about to turn off my laptop, some prick named Citylaw1 commented on the escort's man crotch, calling it a pussy. Isn't Citylaw1 the lowest level of trash?"

 

"ummm." (insert door closing and car starting.)

 

Be careful when you talk about class.

[tyro]

This was a good laugh, CL1!

T

[BostonPhil]

I feel like I'm at a Russian air show in anticipation of a plane crashing into the crowd...

 

*breaks out the pop corn*

 

*crunch*

 

*crunch*

 

*crunch*

[+ Travis69]

Travis, on this issue I dont believe its the clients responsibility. He is paying for a "service" and proper hygiene is part of that service. It was the escorts place to suggest a shower, and if the client didnt want to pay for that time, he forgoes it, although the shower should have been on the escorts clock, not the clients, since the escort arrived in "not ready to perform condition"... A truly professional escort is atuned to clients sensibilities and shouldnt put them in a position of going down on a sweaty crotch. (unless they enjoy that sort of thing, in which case, its fine). :o

 

I think it is shared responsibility. Even if the escort showered right before he came over he could have gotten smelly in route. He would assume he's up to the client's standards but he's not. Perhaps all escorts and clients should start off each encounter with "let me know if you think I need a shower. No problem for me to jump in and rinse off real quick". The great thing about bathhouses is guys shower every few minutes just to check out the guys standing next to them. Win/win for all!!!!

[citylaw1]

Only once did I have an escort (and it was during a major heat wave) arrive and he was a tad smelly in what JJ cals his nether regions....and I simply said "please go and shower"...which he did and then the fun followed with everyone happy.

 

I would hire Xander since I find him cute....but would do some sniffing around beforehand

 

This shouldn't happen at all. When it's 90 outside I don't take the subway to an important meeting, let alone a sexual encounter. Take a taxi, or sit next to JJ on the bus. This goes for the client as well. I think JJ is really right here. Why is everyone cutting such slack? I refer to "man pussy" and I'm raked over the coals like we're in Church (well those guys like man pussy, so bad example) here, as the same guys advocate teaching a grown ass man how to wash before letting a stranger tongue his ass. Jesus! At $250 plus an hour?