who initiates?

[12is12]

Hi Guys,

 

On extended sessions (overnight or more), do escorts start new rounds of fun, or do they wait for the client to do so (either because he's supposed to decide when he wants what, or because they prefer to conserve themselves / lazy around)?

 

Thanks

[bigvalboy]

Hi Guys,

 

On extended sessions (overnight or more), do escorts start new rounds of fun, or do they wait for the client to do so (either because he's supposed to decide when he wants what, or because they prefer to conserve themselves / lazy around)?

 

Thanks

 

For me on overnights, I initiate. There isn't that much time to play games as it were. I usually invite the escort to dinner, afterwords at the hotel is the first round. Somewhere in the middle of the night I will play a little and then one quick round before he leaves in the morning, and no, they don't get a lot of sleep, but I always make sure that the escort does not have to go to another job first thing in the AM...

 

On an extended hire, like a weekend or so or longer, as long as my sexual needs are being met ie: I am getting enough...LOL then I let the escort initiate. That allows the escort some down time and allows him to kind of go at his own pace. They are usually eager to please, so getting enough sex for me is not a problem, but then again, I am not a high demand kind of client. I have done a few, meet-the-escort-on-vacation, and hire him for the week, sort of thing, and I have never really had to inititate, because I felt that the escort was slacking.

[unsub2O17]

I'm amazed at you guys. One time a day is plenty for me. Late one night and then the next morning!? Ain't gonna happen.

[bigvalboy]

I'm amazed at you guys. One time a day is plenty for me. Late one night and then the next morning!? Ain't gonna happen.

 

But unsub...what about "morning wood" if your are with an escort, don't you want him to help you take care of that?

[Xander]

I usually communicate quite a bit with a client if its an overnight, and I usually feel like I can trust them more, so I initiate.

 

The majority of the time, I initiate being incredibly seductive and flirtatious while chatting them up and giving obnoxiously sexual hints so they put their hands on me first. Mostly as a legal precaution (and because its fun, and I know they like to be seduced/teased a bit hehe)

[bigvalboy]

I usually communicate quite a bit with a client if its an overnight, and I usually feel like I can trust them more, so I initiate.

 

The majority of the time, I initiate being incredibly seductive and flirtatious while chatting them up and giving obnoxiously sexual hints so they put their hands on me first. Mostly as a legal precaution (and because its fun, and I know they like to be seduced/teased a bit hehe)

 

I knew I liked you...

[Bosguy]

Who initiates it? BOTH OF US!!!!!

 

Vast majority of my sessions have been overnights with working guys who love sex morning, noon, amd night and all times in between. I'm a very lucky man. Generally, we have our first "session" early evening, out to dinner, back for "dessert", sleep, and huge morning "buffet".

 

Thanks guys.

 

Boston Bill

[bigvalboy]

Who initiates it? BOTH OF US!!!!!

 

Vast majority of my sessions have been overnights with working guys who love sex morning, noon, amd night and all times in between. I'm a very lucky man. Generally, we have our first "session" early evening, out to dinner, back for "dessert", sleep, and huge morning "buffet".

 

Thanks guys.

 

Boston Bill

 

Good to know BB...

[gcursor]

I always wait for the escort to make the first move. It's had varying success.

[unsub2O17]

But unsub...what about "morning wood" if your are with an escort, don't you want him to help you take care of that?

 

After a late night with him, me and my Viagra, WHAT "morning wood"??

[bigvalboy]

After a late night with him, me and my Viagra, WHAT "morning wood"??

 

Too bad... "Morning Wood" is the best of the best...sometimes even when I am all by my lonesome I will.....uhhh never mind.

[maxwellissmart]

Too bad... "Morning Wood" is the best of the best...sometimes even when I am all by my lonesome I will.....uhhh never mind.

 

I agree—I always have a sex drive in the morning, and I like kissing and making out after sleepytime. I DO NOT, however—want to have my ass awakened at 3:37am because I happened to roll over.

[down_to_business]

Who initiates __________________ ?

 

If you mean sex often the client.

 

If you mean leaving, getting paid, sleeping, eating, drinking, watching TV, showering, taking a break, and conversation etc, its usually the escort.

[adriano46]

Who initiates __________________ ?

 

If you mean sex often the client.

 

If you mean leaving, getting paid, sleeping, eating, drinking, watching TV, showering, taking a break, and conversation etc, its usually the escort.

 

LOL!!! I like to initiate but slowly. I often wish some of the guys I hire were more "aggressive" in taking the ball (so to speak) and moving quickly from the "Hi, how are you?" stage to the "Let's get these clothes off!" stage. If I hav set up the date ahead of time, I do make a point of telling the guy my klikes and dislikes up front, and also how I would like the time to progress. Others have been great with picking up on this.

 

On the overnights... I stopped thse some time back because I never got any sleep (and not because of all-night sex!"). I would enjoy the sex often as we began the evening, then a late dinner, then some dessert in the bedroom before lights out (or WITH lights out), but found the idea of sleeping next to this sleek, muscular naked guy too much for my panting heart, and I could not sleep, often sneaking a hand closer to his bum or his chest. Most of the guys were asleep or great pretenders, and it created more tension than pleasure. As for morning wood action, I am better in the AM than in the PM, and often would awaken, wash and freshen up, mouthrinse etc... and hop back in bed ready to go, and he would be too groggy or sleepy to respond... that ended to morning wood. And there is always the issue of Morning Breath!!! I learned that the best antedote for this was very open comunication with the escort that "I like morning sex!" and the smart ones, hearing me awake jump up as soon as I emerge from the bathroom, run in to clean up and freshen up, and join me a few minutes later for some very hot morning sex.

 

On this, though -- since I really dislike overnights these days, I hire two different guys and save money. One comes in the evening fo 2 hours; another comes in the morning for from 1 to 2 hours. It is generally much much cheaper than a guy for an overnight and the upshot is I get a night of sleep.

[jawjateck]

I am usually the aggressor, since I'm now a settled hiring pro and especially because I hire more than a few newbies. Heck, if I didn't take the initiative, some guys would just sit there on the sofa and never touch me in a two hour appointment.

 

And I agree with adriano's thoughts on the overnights. While I have done many in the past, I'm doing fewer of them because I'm an early riser, and most escorts are not. So, I wake up, hit the bathroom, freshen up, return to bed, to the sight and feel of an awesome bod, who is nonresponsive perhaps for another hour or two. I usually pounce at the slightest movement.

[bigvalboy]

I DO NOT, however—want to have my ass awakened at 3:37am because I happened to roll over.

 

No? Well I will have to remember that then.

[bigvalboy]

Jawjateck..do you realize that we almost have the same avatar...very cool!

[unsub2O17]

I agree—I always have a sex drive in the morning, and I like kissing and making out after sleepytime. I DO NOT, however—want to have my ass awakened at 3:37am because I happened to roll over.

 

Well, as far as the morning this is concerned, Max. I am always willing to "learn".

[BostonPhil]

I agree—I always have a sex drive in the morning, and I like kissing and making out after sleepytime. I DO NOT, however—want to have my ass awakened at 3:37am because I happened to roll over.

 

God I know, and 3:42 is the worst.

[jawjateck]

Jawjateck..do you realize that we almost have the same avatar...very cool!

 

Uh huh...I have decided to swap mine occasionally depicting scenes from my travels. This is sunset on my favorite secluded beach in Central America.

[MFLV]

I lI've the late late night fuck. I can see why the escort doesn't because it probably happens a lot for them but the client its a once in a while situation so they want more bang for the fuck er I mean buck.

[oz_carter]

I normally do initiate but on my last overnight two weeks ago the escort initiated the fun at 3am.

[unsub2O17]

I've read all the postings about wasted time and money on overnights, and I must admit, that they're starting to make sense to me. I've only done one overnight, but, yes indeed, the escort did sleep soundly and unresponsively all through the morning hours. So, even if I had wanted to play again, it would have been an awkward situation. I could have had the same experience with just a long evening appointment. Hmmm.

[bigvalboy]

I've read all the postings about wasted time and money on overnights, and I must admit, that they're starting to make sense to me. I've only done one overnight, but, yes indeed, the escort did sleep soundly and unresponsively all through the morning hours. So, even if I had wanted to play again, it would have been an awkward situation. I could have had the same experience with just a long evening appointment. Hmmm.

 

Unsub...totally understand what you went through on the overnight. Just my opinion of course, but when I do an overnight, which is less and less these days, I spell out exactly what it is that I expect to happen. IE: Dinner, home for play, sleep, morning time play, and everything in between is spelled out, so that there is no misunderstanding. I definitely need playtime in the morning to take care of "Morning Wood" I also make sure that the escort does not have to run off to a morning job. I don't want an escort to worry about not getting enough sleep.

[maxwellissmart]

I don't want an escort to worry about not getting enough sleep.

 

This sounds good in theory and almost never works in practice—at least not for me, anyway.

 

Client: "I want to hire you for an overnight."

Me: "Let's get together for a couple of hours first and check how well we work together."

Client: "NO I WANT AN OVERNIGHT I WANT AN OVERNIGHT I WANT AN OVERNIGHT..."

Me: "Fine. Let's schedule an overnight..." Client: "Yay!"

Me: "So, do you snore?"

(a pause)

Client: "Snore? Why... NO, NO I DON'T SNORE, WHAT'S THAT? I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS "TO SNORE," WHY, WHAT A FUNNY WORD—IS THAT FRENCH, WHY I NEVER HEARD OF SUCH A THING..."

 

Me (at 3am—as snoring Client sounds like a cross between an avalanche, a dying pig and a freight train): "I will never do this again, I will never do this again..."

 

Client: "WAKE UP! WHY WON'T YOU WAKE UP AND SERVICE ME? IT'S 6:45 AND THE SUN IS ALMOST UP AND YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE GIVING ME MY MONEY'S WORTH! THIS IS THE WORST EXPERIENCE EVER!" (pouts, as I try to force open my eyes and contemplate murder-suicide)

 

Keep in mind this isn't that far from the truth. Every single client I've ever had an overnight with has lied about snoring. They do it, they know they do it, and they think this time will somehow be different. This, along with trying to get clean to bottom in some strange bathroom, are the two reasons why I do not travel with clients. Ever.