On the Use of The Dildo:Size or Length?

[+ Lucky]

Much of my sex life in old age consists of recollecting past points of pleasure or in hearing others talk about their better moments. So, there is something I would like to know. Pick a time in your life when your sex life was sailing along. It could be a period of years, or it could be a period of several months.

Are you there now?

if you used dildos, was size or length more important? Perhaps you might explain. Your answer. Further, if you used dildos, did you use them alone or with others, and, if both,which usage did you prefer? Again, feel free to explain. When others used didlos on you, did they satisfy you as much as you could yourself, or did they do even better than you? There are no correct answers.

 

It's a harmless little survey where we can compare what we did in our lives with what others did in theirs, but truth is important. Also, if you are one of those folks who is always first to respond to a thread, why not wait a day to see others have to say before you answer. Just a thought.

 

Typed on my IPad when I could not sleep. iPads are hard to edit when posting at Daddy's. So sorry for the errors.

[jjkrkwood]

Much of my sex life in old age consists of recollecting past points of pleasure or in hearing others talk about their better moments. So, there is something I would like to know. Pick a time in your life when your sex life was sailing along. It could be a period of years, or it could be a period of several months.

Are you there now?

if you used dildos, was size or length more important? Perhaps you might explain. Your answer. Further, if you used dildos, did you use them alone or with others, and, if both,which usage did you prefer? Again, feel free to explain. When others used didlos on you, did they satisfy you as much as you could yourself, or did they do even better than you? There are no correct answers.

 

It's a harmless little survey where we can compare what we did in our lives with what others did in theirs, but truth is important. Also, if you are one of those folks who is always first to respond to a thread, why not wait a day to see others have to say before you answer. Just a thought.

 

Typed on my IPad when I could not sleep. iPads are hard to edit when posting at Daddy's. So sorry for the errors.

 

OK Lucky, when I was deciding to come out many, many eons ago, I believed that to be truly happy and GAY, i would NEED to engage in Anal sex. So to practice

I bought dildos to learn what it would feel like and how to adjust. Well as they say "my eyes were bigger than my stomach" and I chose a size much to big for a beginner, and gave it a valiant effort. But I had to relinquish myself to a smaller size in circumfernece. It was never the lenght that was a problem. but with all the practice, I never enjoyed the "sensation" but figured once it was a REAL person, I would be loving it... Not true... I hated it, and continued to hate it thru my first 2 lovers, for whom I played a "bottom role"... Once I woke up from my notion that I HAD to indulge in anal to be a happy gay, the remainder of my gave life has breezed by, having had a lover that was also ORAL like me and never demanded anal, and navigating myself thru anonymous sexual experiences that were Totally ORAL, I seemed to have found my passion and niche in life. Yes, with my ORAL partner we continued to use dildos, but in a diff sense. We used them for Oral role play, petending that we had a 3rd party with us and were sucking him off. Weird maybe, but Hot ! Today, I have a collection sitting on a shelf, my favorite being the one with "movable foreskin", but they are never used. Maybe you will see them up on EBAY ????

[buzz]

That's like the question an FF top asked me -- "Do you prefer width or depth?" And my answer was "YES!" I like dildoes that are fat and long...that really stretch my hole.

[BostonPhil]

Varying sizes can be fun. I prefer the real thing though. I am always willing to play with them but often the other person gets a little too carried away and rough. When some one is fucking you they are always holding back trying to make it last as long as possible. With a big 'ol dildo they seem to act like they are up to bat or they pump as though they are trying to fill an inflatable mattress. K thanks, you just hit my kidney and pumped my ass full of air.

[maxwellissmart]

Varying sizes can be fun. I prefer the real thing though. I am always willing to play with them but often the other person gets a little too carried away and rough. When some one is fucking you they are always holding back trying to make it last as long as possible. With a big 'ol dildo they seem to act like they are up to bat or they pump as though they are trying to fill an inflatable mattress. K thanks, you just hit my kidney and pumped my ass full of air.

 

I agree—and the texture of most is horrible. The best are the ones made of the clear silicone that has some give to it, not that really hard rubber that hurts like hell.

[BostonPhil]

I agree—and the texture of most is horrible. The best are the ones made of the clear silicone that has some give to it, not that really hard rubber that hurts like hell.

 

Fuck yeah! I have an 8 inch silicone one, it is black, but I bounce up on down on that all day no problem. I also have one of those gargantuan one that will never go any where near my ass. You know, the 5lb ones...

[josephga]

This is the only sex toy I have ever liked. I bought it on amazon for allot cheaper than their main site or sex toy shops sell it for. I've used it on 2 guys and both loved it

 

http://www.amazon.com/Aneros-Progasm-Prostate-Stimulator-Blue/dp/B002JVWYXO/ref=sr_1_11?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1338133624&sr=1-11

[unsub2O17]

This is the only sex toy I have ever liked. I bought it on amazon for allot cheaper than their main site or sex toy shops sell it for. I've used it on 2 guys and both loved it

 

http://www.amazon.com/Aneros-Progasm-Prostate-Stimulator-Blue/dp/B002JVWYXO/ref=sr_1_11?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1338133624&sr=1-11

 

There are some of these that vibrate too and are calibrated to the height of the person. But they're not as thick as dildos. So, a lot of fun, but not the same thing.

[maxwellissmart]

This is the only sex toy I have ever liked. I bought it on amazon for allot cheaper than their main site or sex toy shops sell it for. I've used it on 2 guys and both loved it

 

http://www.amazon.com/Aneros-Progasm-Prostate-Stimulator-Blue/dp/B002JVWYXO/ref=sr_1_11?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1338133624&sr=1-11

 

"Progasm." I like it.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Dildos were never my toy of choice, but did ocassionally use one as a means of stretching myself a bit when I had not an anal activity for a period of time. There is one time that for some reason the use of a dido was hot, hot, hot. I was with an escort in Chicago and he brought along a two ended dildo, which we used by both being on our back, legs in the air and each took half of the dildo. Thus placing us ass to ass, which resulted in both of us cumming at the same time.

[JT Brooklyn]

Does Size or Length Matter? Maybe!

 

Dildos were never my Toy Choice either. BUT there was a couple of times where the Hunky Columbian David/NYC used a Mammoth one on me!

 

This Toy turned him on also! So I'm guessing IF it's the right Hunk Spontaneously.."Up it will go! ;)

[doitb4ugo]

I agree—and the texture of most is horrible. The best are the ones made of the clear silicone that has some give to it, not that really hard rubber that hurts like hell.

 

My experience exactly.....have not had much experience but do not like the texture of the ones I have experienced...Being married, I cannot have any around the house for my own play but someday maybe.

 

I have a couple of guys who hurt when fucking me...I want a dildo their size so I can get used to it...width is not as much problem for me as length....

[BostonPhil]

The ones made by FleshJack are pretty nice.

[bigvalboy]

The ones made by FleshJack are pretty nice.

 

Actually I think they are the best ones...had quite the experience the other night when I asked an escort about FleshJack and he introduced it into the scene...

[Decatur Guy]

Much of my sex life in old age consists of recollecting past points of pleasure or in hearing others talk about their better moments. So, there is something I would like to know. Pick a time in your life when your sex life was sailing along. It could be a period of years, or it could be a period of several months.

Are you there now?

if you used dildos, was size or length more important? Perhaps you might explain. Your answer. Further, if you used dildos, did you use them alone or with others, and, if both,which usage did you prefer? Again, feel free to explain. When others used didlos on you, did they satisfy you as much as you could yourself, or did they do even better than you? There are no correct answers.

 

It's a harmless little survey where we can compare what we did in our lives with what others did in theirs, but truth is important. Also, if you are one of those folks who is always first to respond to a thread, why not wait a day to see others have to say before you answer. Just a thought.

 

Typed on my IPad when I could not sleep. iPads are hard to edit when posting at Daddy's. So sorry for the errors.

 

 

That's how I felt about my question about oral duration.

[BostonPhil]

Actually I think they are the best ones...had quite the experience the other night when I asked an escort about FleshJack and he introduced it into the scene...

 

Did introduce you to a dildo or a FleshJack?

[bigvalboy]

Did introduce you to a dildo or a FleshJack?

 

Sorry, didn't mean to confuse. It was a FleshJack! I had seen them in some porn movies, but had no idea that they felt so incredible. That and some Nipple play, and we were "off to the races"