A Taste Of Rubber

[GuntherCory]

So my friend Nick, who is an expert in everything (just ask him; he'll eagerly confirm it!) has told me that nowadays, escorts uniformly use condoms even for giving and receiving oral.

 

Perhaps I am naive, or have just been out of the game too long, but are rubbers mandatory now for blowjobs? Of course they are to be expected for anal sex, but for...oral?

 

What's the consensus on this?

 

Condoms for 69 are not my ultimate fantasy, alas.

 

Is this what everybody does now?

[seeker630]

So my friend Nick, who is an expert in everything (just ask him; he'll eagerly confirm it!) has told me that nowadays, escorts uniformly use condoms even for giving and receiving oral.

 

Perhaps I am naive, or have just been out of the game too long, but are rubbers mandatory now for blowjobs? Of course they are to be expected for anal sex, but for...oral?

 

What's the consensus on this?

 

Condoms for 69 are not my ultimate fantasy, alas.

 

Is this what everybody does now?

 

I only hire 4-5 guys a year, but none of them has suggested condoms for oral (and frankly, it would be a deal-breaker for me).

[inheat75]

No, it's not mandatory. Depends with the escort I guess. And yes, condoms for oral would be an absolute deal-breaker for me.

[OneFinger]

Ditto on the deal-breaker.

 

Have never hired an escort that required a condom for oral.

[bigvalboy]

Ya know AM I have heard guys talk about escorts doing that. I agree with OneFinger, it is diff a deal breaker for me. I can only take so much and that is my limit...

[maxwellissmart]

So my friend Nick, who is an expert in everything (just ask him; he'll eagerly confirm it!) has told me that nowadays, escorts uniformly use condoms even for giving and receiving oral.

 

Perhaps I am naive, or have just been out of the game too long, but are rubbers mandatory now for blowjobs? Of course they are to be expected for anal sex, but for...oral?

 

What's the consensus on this?

 

Condoms for 69 are not my ultimate fantasy, alas.

 

Is this what everybody does now?

 

Alex, they don't have a Roman numeral for the number of blow-jobs I've given. And none were with a rubber.

 

By the way—a friend of mine who doesn't know I'm an escort has breathlessly informed me on several occasions when he's seen an escort out and about, because all escorts wear the same uniform which consists of a black button-up shirt (which I don't own) and dress slacks (which I've never worn on an appointment).

 

Smack the shit out of your friend and then write a detailed review of how it felt—you can think of this as practice for when you finally hire someone.

[BostonPhil]

Alex, they don't have a Roman numeral for the number of blow-jobs I've given. And none were with a rubber.

 

This made me laugh and I couldn't agree more. I wouldn't even want to, they taste gross and even the flavored ones are nasty. I would expect a client to smack me on the head if I asked. I think this more common with female escorts than male.

[GuntherCory]

Ditto on the deal-breaker.

 

Have never hired an escort that required a condom for oral.

 

Thanks, OneFinger, and everybody else, for your comments.

 

All I have to say is...thank God. If it really were standard practice nowadays to use condoms for oral, I might be driven to celibacy for another seven years!

[bigvalboy]

they taste gross and even the flavored ones are nasty.

 

Flavored condoms, uh that would be a NO!....Flavored lube on the other hands, well now gentlemen, an escort had me try that the other day, never had, WOW what fun that was, we went on forever almost!!!

[GuntherCory]

Alex, they don't have a Roman numeral for the number of blow-jobs I've given. And none were with a rubber.

 

By the way—a friend of mine who doesn't know I'm an escort has breathlessly informed me on several occasions when he's seen an escort out and about, because all escorts wear the same uniform which consists of a black button-up shirt (which I don't own) and dress slacks (which I've never worn on an appointment).

 

Max, are you saying that some folks actually pontificate on subjects they know nothing about?!?

 

You know, there are guys who don't want you to come in their mouths. I can understand an escort wanting to wear a condom in that case, if an oral cumshot is essential to the client, but even still...like most guys have already said, rubber for oral would be a deal breaker for me too.

[GuntherCory]

This made me laugh and I couldn't agree more. I wouldn't even want to, they taste gross and even the flavored ones are nasty. I would expect a client to smack me on the head if I asked. I think this more common with female escorts than male.

 

Actually, my friend Nick is (more or less) straight, so perhaps that's where he got the idea. Maybe ladies use them for oral more than guys would. Remind me never to hire a female escort!

[Juan Vancouver]

The only thing I can think is that perhaps your friend may precum a lot. Sometimes people precum so much that giving oral without a condom may be potentially risky. Perhaps he has encountered this enough to assume that everyone wants condoms, but as far as I know, most gay escorts don't require them. I think that most escorts will not allow you to ejaculate in their mouths, and most will avoid fluid exchange, but unless you are an endless precum tap I can't imagine you will have to condom up.

 

Perhaps your know it all friend is straight? The majority of female escorts will require a condom. If he is straight that is all he has experienced, then.

 

Rest assured, I see in your future the delicious feel of a warm mouth generously wrapped around your cock.

 

Thus Spoke The Slut. =)

[Juan Vancouver]

Actually, my friend Nick is (more or less) straight, so perhaps that's where he got the idea. Maybe ladies use them for oral more than guys would. Remind me never to hire a female escort!

 

I just read this response. Yes, that is the reason he believes that.

 

By the way, don't forget: never hire a female escort.

[BostonPhil]

The only thing I can think is that perhaps your friend may precum a lot.

 

Guilty of this one, not on topic at all but I always get asked if I came already. I just blush and grin and say "Nope, I'm just juicy."

[jjkrkwood]

I am 1000% oral in life and with Escorts, and although i dont hire as often as most guys on this site, my guys have NEVER required condom use for Oral.... but then again I have mentioned it up front so they knew it was NOT part of the deal I was paying for.

[unsub2O17]

Nothing to add except my vote. I've never been asked to use a condom for oral, nor has any escort asked to use a condom when I give him oral. But I do avoid contact of semen with any mucous membranes.

[jjkrkwood]

Nothing to add except my vote. I've never been asked to use a condom for oral, nor has any escort asked to use a condom when I give him oral. But I do avoid contact of semen with any mucous membranes.

 

unsub, not to be glib here, but HOW do you actually achieve that. ? Guys pre-cum or leak all the time, even if its a drop you Cant detect, especially while you are in the passionate throes of the moment. Although oral sex CAN carry various risks, its it the lowest of the risks you can take, supposedly....

[rguer]

unsub, not to be glib here, but HOW do you actually achieve that. ? Guys pre-cum or leak all the time, even if its a drop you Cant detect, especially while you are in the passionate throes of the moment. Although oral sex CAN carry various risks, its it the lowest of the risks you can take, supposedly....

 

Interesting conundrum: Several escorts here have said they want their clients to have freshly brushed teeth, but brushing your teeth can create tiny abrasions that increase the risk of oral sex (to both parties, presumably).

[seeker630]

Interesting conundrum: Several escorts here have said they want their clients to have freshly brushed teeth, but brushing your teeth can create tiny abrasions that increase the risk of oral sex (to both parties, presumably).

 

I try to brush my teeth an hour or so before an appointment and then use mouthwash or breath-freshening gum immediately before the session.

[Juan Vancouver]

Interesting conundrum: Several escorts here have said they want their clients to have freshly brushed teeth, but brushing your teeth can create tiny abrasions that increase the risk of oral sex (to both parties, presumably).

 

I have discussed this with several dentists and epidemiologists and all seem to agree that the gums are the fastest healing tissue in the human body. (Closely followed by the tissue in your ass! Only God knows what he had in mind when he designed us the way he did.) The tiny abrasions that you mention are healed really fast and present no or little risk during oral sex for the giver and absolutely no risk for the receiver. Given that you don't brush your teeth with a steel brush or that neither of you have actual bleeding cuts or suppurating wounds, they seem to agree that it is perfectly safe to give a healthy and vigorous blow job relatively soon after brushing your teeth.

 

And if you have bleeding gums or suppurating wounds... wouldn't you agree that a blow job should be the least thing in your mind?

 

One the other hand it has been scientifically demonstrated in careful clinical trials that not brushing your teeth before copulation brings with it a very serious risk: your partner may not want to engage in any kind of activity with you. Perfunctorily swishing your mouth with Listerine will not prepare you for kissing, exactly the same way toilet paper will not prepare you for a vigorous ass ponding from a ten incher.

 

We have to always make the necessary choices that better suit our comfort levels and we have to live with the result of those choices. I would never in a million years force you to brush your teeth right before the act if you are uncomfortable with it, but we should all be prepared to have a lover refuse kissing if breath is an issue.

 

I think this is one of the most interesting things in this profession. We are dealing with human beings, with their bodies, with their comfort levels, belief systems and expectations, having to translate it all through our own bodies, comfort levels and knowledge.

 

In other words: It goes both ways. =)

[rguer]

I think this is one of the most interesting things in this profession. We are dealing with human beings, with their bodies, with their comfort levels, belief systems and expectations, having to translate it all through our own bodies, comfort levels and knowledge.

 

You're not exactly what I think of as my physical type, but if I were going to be in Vancouver with free time and money I would hire you in a second. I bet I could learn a lot about myself, and have a good time doing it.

[jawjateck]

Been hiring for 12 years, and a condom for oral has never been used, not even hinted as desirable or necessary.

[unsub2O17]

unsub, not to be glib here, but HOW do you actually achieve that. ? Guys pre-cum or leak all the time, even if its a drop you Cant detect, especially while you are in the passionate throes of the moment. Although oral sex CAN carry various risks, its it the lowest of the risks you can take, supposedly....

 

Absolutely right. I guess I should have added "as much as is humanly possible".

[down_to_business]

It wouldn't be my preferred method but I don't think I could fault someone for playing safe. Low-risk and no risk aren't the same thing.

[GuntherCory]

The only thing I can think is that perhaps your friend may precum a lot. Sometimes people precum so much that giving oral without a condom may be potentially risky. Perhaps he has encountered this enough to assume that everyone wants condoms, but as far as I know, most gay escorts don't require them. I think that most escorts will not allow you to ejaculate in their mouths, and most will avoid fluid exchange, but unless you are an endless precum tap I can't imagine you will have to condom up.

 

Perhaps your know it all friend is straight? The majority of female escorts will require a condom. If he is straight that is all he has experienced, then.

 

Rest assured, I see in your future the delicious feel of a warm mouth generously wrapped around your cock.

 

Thus Spoke The Slut. =)

 

I like sluts. The male variety, at least.

 

Well, along with Nick's proclamation that escorts require condoms for oral, he also insists that they will not kiss (that's supposedly reserved for their boyfriends).

 

Frankly, I think he gets his information from PRETTY WOMAN. When I asked for clarification (i.e., was he talking about female or male escorts?), he replied, "ALL of them."

 

Hmmm.

 

I think I need to introduce him to this forum.

 

It might open his eyes...or give him a heart attack.