A Taste Of Rubber

[GuntherCory]

I am 1000% oral in life and with Escorts, and although i dont hire as often as most guys on this site, my guys have NEVER required condom use for Oral.... but then again I have mentioned it up front so they knew it was NOT part of the deal I was paying for.

 

It's probably best to bring it up beforehand, yes, and verify with the escort that you do NOT want to wear a condom for oral. If he insists, of course that's his right, and no client should criticize him for his choices, but with the knowledge that the rentboy will only suck with rubbers, at least the client can then decide if he wants to proceed with the date or not.

[GuntherCory]

I have discussed this with several dentists and epidemiologists and all seem to agree that the gums are the fastest healing tissue in the human body. (Closely followed by the tissue in your ass! Only God knows what he had in mind when he designed us the way he did.) The tiny abrasions that you mention are healed really fast and present no or little risk during oral sex for the giver and absolutely no risk for the receiver. Given that you don't brush your teeth with a steel brush or that neither of you have actual bleeding cuts or suppurating wounds, they seem to agree that it is perfectly safe to give a healthy and vigorous blow job relatively soon after brushing your teeth.

 

And if you have bleeding gums or suppurating wounds... wouldn't you agree that a blow job should be the least thing in your mind?

 

One the other hand it has been scientifically demonstrated in careful clinical trials that not brushing your teeth before copulation brings with it a very serious risk: your partner may not want to engage in any kind of activity with you. Perfunctorily swishing your mouth with Listerine will not prepare you for kissing, exactly the same way toilet paper will not prepare you for a vigorous ass ponding from a ten incher.

 

We have to always make the necessary choices that better suit our comfort levels and we have to live with the result of those choices. I would never in a million years force you to brush your teeth right before the act if you are uncomfortable with it, but we should all be prepared to have a lover refuse kissing if breath is an issue.

 

I think this is one of the most interesting things in this profession. We are dealing with human beings, with their bodies, with their comfort levels, belief systems and expectations, having to translate it all through our own bodies, comfort levels and knowledge.

 

In other words: It goes both ways. =)

 

I have also been told by my medical professionals that brushing your teeth shortly before oral sex is not a problem.

 

Wanting my mouth and breath to be minty fresh, I'd both brush and rinse with mouthwash beforehand. Kissing is even more important to me than oral.

 

Without kissing, forget it.

[gallahadesquire]

I have also been told by my medical professionals that brushing your teeth shortly before oral sex is not a problem.

 

Wanting my mouth and breath to be minty fresh, I'd both brush and rinse with mouthwash beforehand. Kissing is even more important to me than oral.

 

Without kissing, forget it.

 

A man true to my own heart.

[uwsman2]

I've been hiring for more than thirty years and only encountered an escort who required condoms for oral sex a handful of times - mainly back in the late 1980s to early 1990s when lots of people were very panicked about getting HIV from oral sex. That seems to have died down, and I haven't had an escort who insisted on condoms for oral sex in this century.

[zeyfur]

As the title says I don't want to taste rubber, I want to taste cock!

[jgoo]

The only time I got a bj from an escort that used a condom on me was many years ago. I was surprised by it even though he was very adept at putting it on me, so much so that I almost did not realize he had done it. However, in all honesty, I have to say it was not the same as the "typical" bj I've gotten so it wasn't as pleasurable to me. I honestly did not think it would make a difference but something (psychologically or maybe even physically) was different that took away some of the enjoyment for me. This guy was French so I thought at the time maybe European escorts have different ideas in that regard but since then I've hired a number of other European escorts and no one used a condom for a bj.

[Michael Wayne]

condoms for anal-always! condoms for oral-never! total and complete turnoff giving and recieving

[Phil_musc]

One of my hires (a one-shot deal, needless to say) whipped out a condom for me before he would go down on me. I looked at him in disbelief and then demanded that he put one on himself also. He did without too much reluctance. He didn't go in for kissing either. I know, I know - communicate before the meeting - I've learned. I believe, also, that he has left the industry.

[EZEtoGRU]

I have found an increase in the request from escorts for rubber during oral in the last 12 months. True, I usually hire str8 or bi guys and that may have something to do with it. Let's also remember that in June or July last year, the first reports of a new antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea were coming out. Mostly in Asia at that point but expected to spread. That may have triggered some guys to demand condom use for oral.

 

It's conceivable that in 5 years time this particular gonorrhea could become a major problem and very wide-spread. Might make all of us think twice about whether we use rubber for oral sex.

 

I agree that condoms for oral sex is a big turnoff. Having said that, it may eventually become a necessity.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Alex -- I haven't been hiring for as long as some of these guys, but I've crammed a lot hires into a short period of time (maybe 40 in the last 18 months). With 13 different escorts (okay and a couple of client friends too ). And I have never had anyone consider using a condom during oral sex. Either giving or receiving. Like others, that would be a deal breaker for me. Especially the inveterate cum pig that I am.

 

As far as kissing, that would be an even bigger deal breaker if no kissing was involved. I expect a lot of kissing -- deep, long, french kissing, where we are basically inspecting each others tonsils (or where the tonsils would be if they were removed). Again, with all my guys that has never been an issue.

 

But you will need to talk to your escort of choice about these issues before you hire. You don't want any surprises, especially on that first hire.

[GuntherCory]

condoms for anal-always! condoms for oral-never! total and complete turnoff giving and recieving

 

That's really how I feel, too. Yuck. If getting blown with a rubber were my only option, I'd probably PREFER to stay home alone and pork out on chocolate!

[GuntherCory]

Alex -- I haven't been hiring for as long as some of these guys, but I've crammed a lot hires into a short period of time (maybe 40 in the last 18 months). With 13 different escorts (okay and a couple of client friends too ). And I have never had anyone consider using a condom during oral sex. Either giving or receiving. Like others, that would be a deal breaker for me. Especially the inveterate cum pig that I am.

 

As far as kissing, that would be an even bigger deal breaker if no kissing was involved. I expect a lot of kissing -- deep, long, french kissing, where we are basically inspecting each others tonsils (or where the tonsils would be if they were removed). Again, with all my guys that has never been an issue.

 

But you will need to talk to your escort of choice about these issues before you hire. You don't want any surprises, especially on that first hire.

 

Right. I'd want to make everything quite clear, and get all the important information up front, to avoid any nasty surprises. The worst thing I can imagine is for an escort to show up and announce, "Sorry, I don't kiss. I don't suck without a condom. I don't bottom. But you can stand across the room from me and jerk off while I flex." In that case, I might as well save the money and watch porn!

[gp0560]

On my very first hire, I asked the escort to put on a flavored condom. We agreed on this in pre-meeting emails. He put it on, I give him just one in-and-out, tore off the damned thing, and went to town on flesh.

[unsub2O17]

I thought that I would try this. Just before I was to be f....d, I asked to put the condom on him with my mouth. Honestly, guys, it wasn't that bad. I don't think it would be great for an entire BJ, but short-term, quite doable. My 2 cents.

[SteveEscort]

 

Is this what everybody does now?

 

It's a definite no here, what a horrid thought, however I wish sometimes guys who take pride in their personal hygiene when they expect me to put it in my mouth.

 

If a guy phones me and asks for "oral with" I decline the appointment, I don't find latex to be the most fun thing to have in my mouth