Enabling an addict

[+ purplekow]

Read today's review of Santos 1/16/12 The reviewer admits that the escort appeared disoriented and seemed to be able to function sexually only when high. The client readily admits to encouraging, albeit indirectly, the escort to do whatever it took to finish the act, likely more drugs, mostly because the escort had a hot ass the client wanted to fuck. In order to tap that ass, the client seems willing do anything except physically dropping rooffies in the escort's drink.

I was torn by this whole scene. The escort, Damien aka Santos, has been disparaged in the past and so I started reading the review expecting to find an unhappy client. In the end, the client winds up sexually satisfied but vaguely dissatisfied with himself.

In the end, the escort seems pathetic and desperate and the client seems to be callous and desperate. The whole review left me feeling that the unwashed escort, the unflinching client and the unsuspecting reader all probably needed a shower at the end.

[justaguy]

The review reminded me of the short film '360' in the greed for sex taking over every aspect of the encounter and leaving little else in its wake.

[+ Shoreboy]

I agree...if I was meeting this escort for the first time and knew he had to use drugs to get into whatever my sexual desires needed....I would have ended the session right then and there.

 

I think mutual respect is a two way street between an escort and a client...I would rather end a session and use my left hand than force an escort to drug up just to please me.

[Phil_musc]

It's the first review I've read here that is almost confessional in tone. When I finished it, I was left with a feeling that all parties got what they wanted/needed but nobody was a winner. In Damien's case, I guess you do what you need to do to get the job done, and the reviewer was (at the very least) a passive aider and abettor whose lust won out over perhaps his better judgement. I wonder how he would respond should a similar situation arise in the future with another guy.

[+ azdr0710]

It's the first review I've read here that is almost confessional in tone.

 

yes, like no other review I'd ever read....a mix of sad melodrama and tantalizing "what happens next?".....don't know what I'd do as I haven't yet been in that situation....

[Decatur Guy]

I'm not sure what I'd do in that situation either, although I don't think I'd have the patience for it. And here's the great thing about that review and this particular escort -- I'll never have to find out what I'll do because I'll never hire him.

[J-Man]

I thought it was interesting that several of his reviews mention his smoking habit (one said he "reeked of smoke"), yet his Rentboy ad (as linked in the most recent review) indicates he's a "Non-Smoker." So much for truth in advertising.

[josephga]

I don't get why the reviewer checked yes beside lived up too

[Phil_musc]

In the escort's defense, apparently he did come through with everything that the client had requested. The client, however, felt uncomfortable with what appeared to be the escort's going into the bathroom and getting high to go ahead with the session. So technically, he did live up to what was promised.