I'm sorry

[gcursor]

I would like to take this time to apologize to any people that I may have unintentionally hurt in the past. I'm very sorry.

 

David

[jjkrkwood]

I would like to take this time to apologize to any people that I may have unintentionally hurt in the past. I'm very sorry.

 

David

 

Wow, someone had an Epihany..... Although you havent hurt me YET GC, I accept your apology.

[+ azdr0710]

gee, do people really take any of this that seriously?....

[jimboivyo]

gee, do people really take any of this that seriously?....

 

sadly they do. have you seen those who have thousands of posts in short amounts of time around here? folks need hobbies. quit just talking about escorts and try hiring one for a change.

[josephga]

gee, do people really take any of this that seriously?....

 

Not just here but allot of places on line. there's people who have committed suicide over stuff said on the internet. years ago around 1997 when I first got on line id know people that got upset over things said to them on line. At the time I didn't understand I said hell its just the internet fuck what they say it's just the internet it's not even real. But over the years things have changed and not always in a good way. Thanks to twitter, facebook and 1000's of on line forums and with access in most homes the internet has become very real. And things said good or bad can be taken to heart in some people.

[leigh.bess.toad]

sadly they do. have you seen those who have thousands of posts in short amounts of time around here? folks need hobbies. quit just talking about escorts and try hiring one for a change.

 

I take a bit of offense to that. As someone with over 3500 posts in about a year, I've done my fair share of hiring too. Since my first hire less than 11 months ago, I've hired 13 different escorts for well over 2 dozen hires. My most frequent hire has been 7 times alone. Not bad for someone who lives somewhere where there are no local escorts to hire.

 

I've also meet over 30 different forum members during that time too. Hell, I even drove 3.5 hours each way to meet one friend because he was "close".

 

Of course, I could stop posting all the galleries that many seem to enjoy and find other hobbies. Maybe find a boyfriend. Or volunteering at the gay community center.

 

Oh wait. Did those too.

[Bosguy]

David,

 

I've never had the privilege of meeting you personally, but we have become Forum Friends plus pm's about issues we both share. As far as I am concerned, you are a classy, true gentleman who never meant to or did hurt anyone on the Forum.

We have enough negativity and improper attitudes around here and you are certainly NOT in that group. Stay with us, enjoy life with all its ups and downs, and remember, there are so many wonderful people on this Forum that are there for you (Believe me, I know)

 

Friend,

 

Boston Bill

[leigh.bess.toad]

David,

 

I've never had the privilege of meeting you personally, but we have become Forum Friends plus pm's about issues we both share. As far as I am concerned, you are a classy, true gentleman who never meant to or did hurt anyone on the Forum.

We have enough negativity and improper attitudes around here and you are certainly NOT in that group. Stay with us, enjoy life with all its ups and downs, and remember, there are so many wonderful people on this Forum that are there for you (Believe me, I know)

 

Friend,

 

Boston Bill

 

David --

 

Let me also concur with everything Bill said. You have been nothing but a kind man who it has been my privilege to get to know both on the forum and through various PMs with you. You have done nothing whatsoever that would require or even suggest an apology.

 

I'm always glad to see you around.

[josephga]

ive never heard him say anything ugly either

[JT Brooklyn]

gee, do people really take any of this that seriously?....

 

I said the same thing Year's Ago on HOOBOY!

 

Unless someone has a "Bucket List"

[Guest Bauer]

Sorry for the the what?

[JoeyBryant]

sadly they do. have you seen those who have thousands of posts in short amounts of time around here? folks need hobbies. quit just talking about escorts and try hiring one for a change.

 

Mmmm...

[Rick Munroe]

Not bad for someone who lives somewhere where there are no local escorts to hire.

 

Or volunteering at the gay community center.

 

What city would have a gay community center but no local escorts?

[leigh.bess.toad]

That would be Richmond. There are a couple of escorts. But on the whole, I'd rather be celibate. Not even guys I'd consider hooking up with for free on A4A or grindr. Fortunately, DC is only 2 hours away.

 

But the Gay Community Center of Richmond is a large building that sits right next to I-95 so anyone driving through town sees the rainbow colors on the building as they drive by.

[Phil_musc]

Lee, you are my new idol. I don't know how you manage to find the time to do all that you mention. Please consider starting an online course in building organizational skills. It must pay off pretty well for you too 'cause 20 or so hires is not exactly chicken feed in the moola department. I hope we can meet sometime - you sound like an amazing guy to me. Congrats on the boyfriend, too by the way. Isn't it great to be in love?

 

David, thanks for the apology although I don't think you ever offended me. Maybe we could count it for "all the wrongs that I will commit in the coming year" - sounds like Rosh Hashana is upon us.

[bigvalboy]

AS DO I, normally I would go on and on about how I am personally offended, all the people I have hired, there history, name names and give dates, well you get the idea. lol, but I promised Mikey, that I would be less confrontational....how am I doin? ya know, this isn't as much fun ;-)

[jawjateck]

Yeah....I should apologize too.....for being too nice for too long. I'll try to do worse in the future.

[Bosguy]

Yeah....I should apologize too.....for being too nice for too long. I'll try to do worse in the future.

 

Don't you dare change. You are the epitome of a southern gentleman who is so enjoyable to be around.

 

For those of you that have not had the privilege of meeting him, he's HOT too

 

Boston Bill

[jawjateck]

Aww shucks Bill! You are too kind, but according to one of our fellow Hoovillains, deceived as well. Perhaps I should put you in contact with one of our fellow citizens who has concluded that I am evil personified. I want to be sure you have a balanced perspective.

[Bosguy]

Aww shucks Bill! You are too kind, but according to one of our fellow Hoovillains, deceived as well. Perhaps I should put you in contact with one of our fellow citizens who has concluded that I am evil personified. I want to be sure you have a balanced perspective.

 

Doubt there is anyone who feels differently, plus I pride myself on how I perceive people that I have contact with, so, while others certainly have a right to their opinion, I go by my feelings.

 

Talked to Oliver this morning. He's doing great. Hope to see you in PS this coming spring!!

 

Bill

[RexAll]

Maybe Mr. Cursor started this thread because Yom Kippur is coming up. Sins to G-d can be forgiven by G-d. However sins to your fellow man--can only be forgiven by asking for their forgiveness. Now I was always taught that if you ask for forgiveness with sincerity, the person wasn't allowed to withhold their forgiveness from you. Possibly we'd be better off as a society and a world at large if this custom were practiced more often.

 

Rex

[BaronArtz]

I would like to take this time to apologize to any people that I may have unintentionally hurt in the past. I'm very sorry.

 

David

 

With all due respect and sympathy, is this 'making amends to people' part of a 12-step program that you are on? David, it's fun to have you around and you have never insulted me. No apology needed. Be well.

[gcursor]

It's the 1/4 step

 

As I mentioned on "another" website, it's not part of a 12-step program. I don't currently smoke, drink or do drugs....at all

 

however

 

*tongue in cheek* I am thinking of taking all of those up if somebody else asks if it's part of a 12-step program that I'm on

 

When I worked at the last job I was at, my manager would always want to know why mistakes were made. People are human. Now and then they make mistakes. I always liked watching her focus so intently on one stupid little issue while the rest of the processes went out the window. You can't see the forest for the trees...kind of thing.

 

Over the past few years, I've become acutely aware if nobody can just accept things for being how they are..it seems as though everything has to have a reason ferreted out and a person or person(s) hung up to blame. I don't like doing that any longer because it solves none of the underlying issues except making somebody feel bad and somebody feel closer to being a God than they should ever be allowed to feel.

 

Nobody's to blame and there's no root cause to ferret out. The post just is

 

gcursor

 

p.s. seriously though it is very nice all the responses and the kindness that everybody has shared. it is quite nice to see.

 

With all due respect and sympathy, is this 'making amends to people' part of a 12-step program that you are on? David, it's fun to have you around and you have never insulted me. No apology needed. Be well.