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As indicated by the title of this posting- I can understand where Daddy is coming from by locking the thread and keeping the flames from getting any bigger...but at the same time, I never got a chance to respond to any of the digs taken at me. I'll bite my tongue and attempt to be the bigger man, and save Daddy some bandwith on all the needless postings that would go back and forth.

 

As far as waiting 10 months to respond to the accusations- different escorts spend their time in different places. I knew this forum existed, but I was fairly busy and didn't have all the time in the world to be a 'forum troll' and respond to every place names are mentioned. When I have some down time to 'unplug' and unwind, yes...I like to keep the visible presence out there.

 

For those of you who are turned off by the vehement nature in which I defended myself- I'm sorry that you feel that way, and sorry that you never intend to see me. Some things just aren't meant to be. For the clients who've vouched for me, defended me, or seen me in the past- then they do know the true story...and if you knew ANYTHING about me or saw ANY behind the scenes clips from any studio- you'd see that I'm the most down to Earth guy in the world...not an ego blowhard.

 

For all of you whose time was wasted by this- you have my sincerest apologies. The saying is..."Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear." I'm not saying every other actor is naive...because I'm just as naive as the next guy...but prior to escorting, look up where that tattoo on the right arm comes from. With that comes attention to detail . In the details, the truth comes out- and I'm telling you- there are warning flags. But we're dropping that issue. They're gonna do their thing, I'm gonna do mine...and we're all gonna live peacefully on Daddy's board.

 

<3 Y'all.

 

TB

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I'm not sure you got the point here. In Internet terms, 10 months is an eternity and memories are short. You resurrected a dead and buried issue.

 

And your latest post: I knew this forum existed, but I was fairly busy and didn't have all the time in the world to be a 'forum troll' and respond to every place names are mentioned. When I have some down time to 'unplug' and unwind, yes...I like to keep the visible presence out there

 

Indirectly, you are calling any of us who do post more than one spectacular burst every 10 months or so "forum trolls." So you kind of damaged your cause a little bit more with that comment.

 

I have nothing against you. I have no dog in your fight. But each post you put on here, from my POV as a disinterested observer, further damages a reputation you say you're trying to rebuild.

 

My unasked-for suggestion: Post in some things that aren't about yourself. Get involved in some discussions that aren't about this dispute to show another side of yourself. Enter one of our discussions about favorite teen sex idols, favorite fuck position, cute pictures of babies and dogs, etc.

 

Taking the bright spotlight off yourself for a bit might actually put you in a better light.

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I'm not sure you got the point here. In Internet terms, 10 months is an eternity and memories are short. You resurrected a dead and buried issue.

 

I beg to differ. It wasn't dead and buried. The issue was resurrected TWO weeks ago when Okliehomo (after months and months of not naming names....finally named names) in post #15 of this thread:

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?80943-Hey-guys-its-DONNIE-from-Los-Angeles-here....&p=721474#post721474

 

Who's right or wrong in the situation is not for me to determine. But I think it only fair to keep the time line straight. Tristan only responded after being specifically identified a mere two weeks ago....he didn't "dredge" it up out of the blue after ten months.

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I beg to differ. It wasn't dead and buried. The issue was resurrected TWO weeks ago when Okliehomo (after months and months of not naming names....finally named names) in post #15 of this thread:

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?80943-Hey-guys-its-DONNIE-from-Los-Angeles-here....&p=721474#post721474

 

Who's right or wrong in the situation is not for me to determine. But I think it only fair to keep the time line straight. Tristan only responded after being specifically identified a mere two weeks ago....he didn't "dredge" it up out of the blue after ten months.

 

Thanks for the timeline correction. In the blizzard of posts about this, that was completely lost on me -- and I guess that actually goes back to my point. That confusing onslaught of posts (there were several old posts brought back about this) didn't serve his interests. And neither did the latest one.

 

The best way to repair any (perceived) damage to his reputation on here is to stop mentioning this controversy, post in other topics and let people get to know some little something about him other than he's the escort who didn't show up to board a plane any number of times after a client brought the ticket and he's now in an ongoing heated dispute online about it and why those actions were justified.

 

Until he drops the subject and starts posting about other things, that's all that will stick with me about him -- the fact that he feels justified in not showing up to appointments and that it's OK that someone spent all that money on airline tickets for nothing. And he's solely responsible for leaving that impression with me. I came to that conclusion from HIS posts, not from the client's. The post today didn't do anything to dissuade me, except that I had already halfway forgotten about it until he brought it up -- again.

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The issue was resurrected TWO weeks ago when Okliehomo (after months and months of not naming names....finally named names) in post #15 of this thread:

 

But I think it only fair to keep the time line straight.

 

Good reasoning and analysis, Scorpio. The correct link would be http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?80943-Hey-guys-its-DONNIE-from-Los-Angeles-here....&p=721474#post721474

 

Two names (no, actually three) got flushed out in that thread ... but what was his purpose and what was he thinking ...?

 

No show.

 

Are you going to write a review? .. or even better: write a review in the Message Center?

 

 

Put Up or Shut Up.

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... spoken as someone who is not afraid of posting my thoughts under my only identity here, Mister Orbital Curmudgeon Sander.

 

I was going to send you a private message, but that function is disabled on your account (no surprise there).

 

Again...well I do not need to say it, your juvenile words seem to always speak for you

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"Forum Trolls"..You know who you are! You have Thin Skin & Live under Keyboards! LOL

 

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Paging gtx! Paging gtx! We have a fellow in the deli aisle who could use some marketing help. If this provider is trying to downsize the pool of interested/prospective clients, he is succeeding.........<shrug>

 

Let me strap on my SWAT gear! OK, I'm ready for the rescue operation.

 

Frankly, I see so many marketing faux pas in his forum and in the listings I could do an advanced degree text for Harvard from the examples.

 

GTX

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The HUNK

 

T.B. has done very well for himself for many Years without "Exposure" on Daddys. Where he has Exposed himself they apparently have gone away Smiling.

 

I never had the opportunity to contact him when he was in NYC..Hopefully someday that will happen. ;)

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Tristan Baldwin, aka Aryx Quinn, has been an incredible quality guy to deal with in my interactions... We first met when I flew him in for an incredible overnight in Dallas and then again when he was in Houston. We couldn't make a connection on a recent trip to NY but he has made up for it the next time we met. I'm sorry he didn't meet the requirements of someone along the way, but he's now a friend of mine and I will defend him any time I see an attack on him. that. is. all.

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My apologies. I didn't want to offend EVERYONE out there when I thew out the description "forum troll". It was directed at specific individuals attacking me; not the masses. I didn't put NAMES in there, because I wanted this to be a more generalized discussion/response...pointing fingers only gets the tempers flaring worse.

 

Steven- thank you for always offering me advice that I should be taking to heart, in regards to repairing the negative PR out there. It'll sink in, eventually, I promise you.

 

To those of you who have seen me before and taken the time to defend me...I appreciate it...and it's not forgotten. To those of you who are undecided on things...and straddle that fence...let your own eyes judge me when you see me or interact with me...the reviews don't lie. I try to go through life with genuine care for others- I'm not a Bambi in this world by any means...but I've seen enough hate, enough bloodshed, enough negativity- that I live by this concept:

 

You're grocery shopping in the pouring rain, and someone is with you. When you empty your groceries from your carriage into your car, the person with you wants to simply leave the carriage and walk away...rather than take the 1 minute in the rain, to do the right thing and put it in the corral. What do you do? In my opinion...it is what EACH of us does...here and now...the small things, that make the difference. It's not what others do...it's what YOU do, that does.

 

Anyhow. I'll get off my soapbox.

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