REALLY a First Timer:

[healthguy]

Hi Guys,

I am finally stepping out and going to book an escort. I have been spending a lot of time in the last few months reviewing Rentboy escorts, and reviews on Daddy's Review as well. I have a truck load of question, and hope over the the next few weeks I can use you expertise as well. A little about myself. I'm 61, and take good care of myself.

I walk, bike, and recently added lap swimming as well for a little more cardio, and toning. I am trim/slim, and 5' 6."I like good health food and wine. Enjoy the arts, current events, history, and can tolerate sports if I need to!!! I love to laugh, have fun, and believe we do not laugh at the human condition nearly as much, especially ourselves. NOW!!! I am really anxious about this.

Normally, I am a take charge person in my career. But, this is different. AS I said, I am totally inexperienced, so I THINK I am looking for a vanilla, kissing, oral, anal, experience? I have what are some great sounding escorts. Not only great guys, but experienced as well. Here they are, so if you could give me a "heads up" (ha, ha) on some, that would be great! 1) Romann-Chicago. 2) BryanKinght-NY. 3) Adrian-NY. 4) Edinson-NY. 5) Nick-DC, and 6) Kevin Slater-NY. It seems everyone is looking for huge, but like I said, I'm really new to this. So I think I may need gentile. Any help you can give, would be really appreciated. Thanks, Healthguy.

[+ newatthis]

Healthguy -- welcome! You've come to the right place for some good advice. For mine, look for a private message.

[Bosguy]

Hi Guys,

I am finally stepping out and going to book an escort. I have been spending a lot of time in the last few months reviewing Rentboy escorts, and reviews on Daddy's Review as well. I have a truck load of question, and hope over the the next few weeks I can use you expertise as well. A little about myself. I'm 61, and take good care of myself.

I walk, bike, and recently added lap swimming as well for a little more cardio, and toning. I am trim/slim, and 5' 6."I like good health food and wine. Enjoy the arts, current events, history, and can tolerate sports if I need to!!! I love to laugh, have fun, and believe we do not laugh at the human condition nearly as much, especially ourselves. NOW!!! I am really anxious about this.

Normally, I am a take charge person in my career. But, this is different. AS I said, I am totally inexperienced, so I THINK I am looking for a vanilla, kissing, oral, anal, experience? I have what are some great sounding escorts. Not only great guys, but experienced as well. Here they are, so if you could give me a "heads up" (ha, ha) on some, that would be great! 1) Romann-Chicago. 2) BryanKinght-NY. 3) Adrian-NY. 4) Edinson-NY. 5) Nick-DC, and 6) Kevin Slater-NY. It seems everyone is looking for huge, but like I said, I'm really new to this. So I think I may need gentile. Any help you can give, would be really appreciated. Thanks, Healthguy.

 

Romann is a perfect fit for you sexually and personally. I have had the privilege of being with Romann twice in the last 6 months--first for 2hours and next for an overnite plus a social function (not as escort/client) and it was amazing the first time and he just keeps getting better. He is intelligent, funny, and truly skilled in every way possible in the bedroom. I have reviewed him twice--once as bigkahuna and once as bosguy. HE WAS THE FIRST PROFESSIONAL ESCORT I hired and t was one of the best choices I ever made. He is also very easy to contact and he does everything in his power to arrange an appointment.

 

You can't go wrong with Romann!

 

Bill K.

[Guest Rich.]

Hello HealthGuy!

 

I'm not in a position (!) to advise you on any of the gentlemen you're considering, but I am hoping you'll be willing to post any questions here on the public forum. It'll probably be tempting to PM, but please consider that your questions and any answers you might receive may well help the next guy. It's easy for someone like me to forget (I'm an old hand at hiring) that Daddy's isn't just about reviews, various Members teasing each other, and us discussing the pros-and-cons of individual escorts, it's also a unique repository of experiences about hiring.

 

I recently had a conversation with someone who was considering his first man-on-man adventure. It stunned me to learn his major concern wasn't about any sex that might happen but about paying, ie. should he flash the cash the minute the door opens or pay afterwards. I was happy to advise him that as a new client, yes his Escort-of-Choice would require up-front payment, but not necessarily within the first minute, and that when he was a regular, he could discuss role-playing the payment, from throwing the cash on the floor and saying "drop 'em" to sneaking it into a back pocket on parting!

 

Now, I'm not going to take my own advice. I'm going to PM you. I think for a very good reason!

 

Richard

[+ purplekow]

Every man here was a first timer at some point. Most of us were nervous, or drunk or both. Most of us are here to tell the tale and have come to enjoy an active sex life. The important thing to realize, even at 61, is that you are not alone. Whatever thoughts, concerns, anxieties you have, have been dealt with successfully and laughed about later. I would say the best advise is to take a deep breath and relax. As I have said before, it is only sex and if you screw it up, you get to do it again.

As to your choices, I have been with Romann and he can be very gentle and considerate. The untamed side is kept under control until you want that kind of experience and then be prepared for some intense fun.

I might also suggest Dane Scott in Chicago, who has unfortunately left the Big Apple. I have heard nothing but good things from people who have engaged Mr. Slater. And should you want to dive in with a three way experience, the deep end of the pool for the novice, I would recommend Munroe and Ross who can make you feel doubly special.

I know you will be getting lots of personal advice from the guys here, so I will leave it to you to send me a personal message if you need any other help.

As Frankie said Relax http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lyl5DlrsU90

[Guest Connoisseur]

Maybe I read a sentence wrong? "I was happy to advise him that as a new client, yes his Escort-of-Choice would require up-front payment, but not necessarily within the first minute". I believe I've read numerous times that being asked to be paid up front is a warning sign and struggle to think of a time when even escorts on this site have said they require that, even of first timers.

[Guest Rich.]

You may be right Connoisseur, it might just be that I look well dodgy! Or it's possible that is geographical, ie. a British thing, or how agencies operated with new clients. However, it has been my experience in the UK that on a first encounter, most (not all) ask for payment upfront. However, I was using that scenario as an example of the kind of question long-time hirers might not of thought of in years, and in this case the guy's Escort-of-Choice usually did ask for payment upfront from first timers.

 

Richard

[leigh.bess.toad]

Welcome aboard Healthguy. Always glad to welcome a new member to the forum. As the others have said you have definitely come to the right place. The people here will give you great advice and, for the most part, be patient about asking any question you have, from logisstics to the actual encounter.

 

But a couple of questions for you to help us help you: where are you located? If the escort isn't local are you planning on bringing him to you or do you plan to travel to see someone. I guess the sexual questions are something that will come up, but somethig you need to think about. When you say you are inexperienced, do you mean with men or do you mean simply inexperienced at the hiring process? I guess I'm trying to get at do you consider yourself a top, a bottom, or versatile or have you thought about what you are looking for. I'm asking because the guys you list do present quite different qualities and I was trying to narrow it down a bit for you.

 

If you would like some off-board message advice, feel free to send me a private message..

 

But I think pk gives the best advice: RELAX. And for god's sake enjoy it. We HAVE all been where you are. It can be a wonderful and amazing time. It will be a wonderful and amazing time. I remember my first time hiring very well -- it was wonderful and awful and nerve-wracking and terrifying and exciting and amazing and thrilling and it was the best thing I've done in a long time. It seems like it was just yesterday rather than October, but at my age October I think was yesterday.

 

Ask away, we are here to help.

 

And welcome aboard.

[jeepman]

Welcome Healthguy_

I encourage you to determine the "type" of guy which you are interested in for your first encounter. While there are many nice gentlemen out there who will provide you with that "mind blowing" experience, it is difficult to give any recommendations without knowing the "type" that you fantasize about (younger vs. older; top vs. bottom; hairy vs. smooth, etc.). Without determining exactly what "type" you are looking for, I would be concerned that even the very best may not live up to your expectations or give you the "mind blowing" experience that you are really looking for. In my case, I knew the "type" of gentlemen I was interested in for my first "experience" and hit a home rum with Dane Scott. Romann-Chicago is equally as awesome in his own right, as are Tyger, Steven Kesslar, Jack Thornton and others. Check out the reviews for the gentlemen you are interested in and focus not only on the details of the review but of the reviewer himself. I think this will help to nail down your selection. Good lick and enjoy !!!

[Decatur Guy]

Welcome Healthguy_

Check out the reviews for the gentlemen you are interested in and focus not only on the details of the review but of the reviewer himself. I think this will help to nail down your selection. Good lick and enjoy !!!

 

Typo or intentional or subliminal? Whatever the case, I liked it!

[healthguy]

Thanks everyone for responding so far on the site and PM as well. There are are some common questions you have which you have and I do as well. First of all, I live in Wisconsin, and make to to Chicago a number of times for work. So I am closer to Chi. I have started to make it to the east coast a few times a year as well. Now some of the questions you AND I have: Maybe the questions will help as well.

1) What kind of guy to I like? Well, I like lean/swimmers type. Can be with hair or not. But again, who doesn't like to look at a buffed guy once in a while.

2) Type of things I like to do? This is difficult. First of all, I know I will really like kissing. There was a guy a number of years ago the I say everyday. All I could think of was trying to extract his tonsils with my tongue!!! But for a number of complicated reason, nothing developed. Now position. How do I know what I like when I never tried anything??? I am really willing to try anything. So am I automatically pigeon holed into "versatile"? When I look at size alone. Should I not be concerned? I do want a certain amount of comfort b4 someone wants to tickle my throat from behind!

3) And what about oral? A really think I will like that as well. Both as the recipient and provider. Again, never have done that, so watch the teeth, right.

4) Now, in the adds. When the guys say anal, and they say versatile, does this mean they gave anal intercourse as will as receive it? When they say anal, does it mean rimming along with the anal experience? I think I would like to receive an give as well.

There are more questions, but I think this is enough for now. If this doesn't get back to the main site, let me know.

P.S. It's hard for me to use the words: Cum, cock, bla bla bla. I'm so used to using anatomical descriptions, it's going to take a while. Thanks again for everyone responding. I am not going to be in Chicago and New York until the end summer. So I have plenty of time to make a choice and back out??? Healthguy

[Guest rodeo]

When I first saw the title, I thought the poster was an escort who was auctioning off his virginity.

[healthguy]

I think I could get a good price!

 

When I first saw the title, I thought the poster was an escort who was auctioning off his virginity.

 

You may have found me a new day job? What, maybe $25-50an hr. That's with Sunday brunch included!

[Guest Rich.]

Hey Healthguy,

 

My 2¢ worth(less)!

 

1. I wouldn't necessarily be overly concerned about types and photographic looks, it's been my experience that often a guy's style, the way he moves, his voice, an attitude can make him stand out far more than if his face or body qualifies for the cover of L'Uomo Vogue.

 

2. I'm not sure how much your budget is but, even if you can afford an overnight, it might be a bit optimistic to try and cram everything you've ever fantasised about into a single session. I'd concentrate on two-or-three of the most important things, such as kissing rather than try and rush through a Kama Sutra type encounter. If you are seriously considering receiving anal sex for the first time, you might want to acquire some toys. a douche, etc. and get in a bit of practice first.

 

3. As for giving oral, this takes practice and some guys never successfully manage to suppress their gag reflex. That doesn't mean you and the man you're with won't enjoy the experience, just don't expect to be able to deep-throat a guy porn-movie-style your first time. If the gentleman you're with can deep-throat you, expect to need to be scraped off the ceiling afterwards!

 

4. 'Versatile' should mean willing to both give and receive anal sex. However, it's something you need to discuss with your Man-of-Choice, as some are more open (!) to bottoming than others even if they use the word versatile. In most ads on Rentboy, if an someone is willing to rim or be rimmed, it will usually say so, expect ultra high standards of hygiene to be necessary on both sides and ensure your hep vaccinations are up-to-date.

 

I'm sure other Members will be able to add (or disagree) to some (or all!) of the above. However, hopefully it gives you a little food-for-thought.

 

Best.

 

Richard

[Guest shynbiinnh2011]

Healthguy,

 

This sound advice from Rich. I am new to this myself and the board! I had my first encounter about a month ago! It was a spur of the moment decision and It worked out well. I posted a review and will direct you to it if you PM me.

 

I made my selection based on the physical attraction from his performances, and the connection I made with him during our initial contact. I was honest and open from the begining and he was as well. It is all about expectations..

 

Enjoy!!

 

Hey Healthguy,

 

My 2¢ worth(less)!

 

1. I wouldn't necessarily be overly concerned about types and photographic looks, it's been my experience that often a guy's style, the way he moves, his voice, an attitude can make him stand out far more than if his face or body qualifies for the cover of L'Uomo Vogue.

 

2. I'm not sure how much your budget is but, even if you can afford an overnight, it might be a bit optimistic to try and cram everything you've ever fantasised about into a single session. I'd concentrate on two-or-three of the most important things, such as kissing rather than try and rush through a Kama Sutra type encounter. If you are seriously considering receiving anal sex for the first time, you might want to acquire some toys. a douche, etc. and get in a bit of practice first.

 

3. As for giving oral, this takes practice and some guys never successfully manage to suppress their gag reflex. That doesn't mean you and the man you're with won't enjoy the experience, just don't expect to be able to deep-throat a guy porn-movie-style your first time. If the gentleman you're with can deep-throat you, expect to need to be scraped off the ceiling afterwards!

 

4. 'Versatile' should mean willing to both give and receive anal sex. However, it's something you need to discuss with your Man-of-Choice, as some are more open (!) to bottoming than others even if they use the word versatile. In most ads on Rentboy, if an someone is willing to rim or be rimmed, it will usually say so, expect ultra high standards of hygiene to be necessary on both sides and ensure your hep vaccinations are up-to-date.

 

I'm sure other Members will be able to add (or disagree) to some (or all!) of the above. However, hopefully it gives you a little food-for-thought.

 

Best.

 

Richard

[+ purplekow]

If you are planning on a Chicago adventure, I would once again mention Dane Scott and Romann. They are both patient and experienced and I think you will be walking on air when you leave the encounter. I would encourage you not to plan out what you want to do and then try and get it all done in one session. Take your time. Do whatever feels right at the time. Its your first time so everything will be new and exciting and so just go and do and when you reflect back and decide that you wanted to this or that, then it is time to go back and do this and that. Don't overthink this whole process. if you hire a professional with a well respected body (of work) he will insure that you have a great time. Put yourself firmly in his hands and he will put himself firmly in your hands (or in whichever orifice you would like)

[scottspearsxxx]

Even though you did not list me on your list. Check me out at http://www.men4rentnow.com/ds/search.asp?cmd=view&id=178554&Login=ScottXXXSpears and let me know. I can be agressive, gentle, or passive. Even though I have a big dick, I enjoy bottoming too... My reviews on Daddy's reviews are at: http://www.daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/georgia/scott_spears_atlanta

 

Anyway, thought I would put it out there! Scott Spears