Body Changes - Hesitant to Hire

[OneFinger]

I've recently gone through some major body changes. For the past 10 years I've described myself as "old, fat, and balding". But, I've now lost over 100 lbs. in about 5 months and I'm no longer fat (which is a plus). However, I have some serious skin sagging going on.

 

Gym workouts are helping with the sag but it will likely take several months to get everything shaped up.

 

How do escorts feel about hiring someone who is old, bald, and has sagging skin? Am I being overly self-conscious?

 

If the skin doesn't tighten up (due to my age), I may consider skin reduction surgery. That's leaves major scaring. How would those scars affect escorts?

[Kevin Slater]

I don't think most guys in the business are holding out for a classic beauty. They are happy to be with a client who is pleasant, respectful, and appreciative of what they have to offer. You're the one who gets to choose on looks; he simply gets to provide you with an encounter that hopefully makes you feel sexy, and, along with his stated fee, that ought to provide his satisfaction. If you're truly concerned and think that this may inhibit your experience, by all means clarify with him before you meet up, but I sincerely doubt that is necessary.

 

Kevin Slater

[+ Travis69]

Most escorts are afraid you'll be disappointed with them. Perhaps a gray hair appeared, their cock doesn't quite look the 8 inches they advertise, their butt or abs aren't quiet as firm as they missed a few gym sessions. Talk to them before the appt. if that makes you feel more at ease but never refrain from doing something that is going to give you pleasure just by what your body looks like.

[+ Shoreboy]

I don't feel a client should ever have to worry about pleasing an escort with his looks or worrying about whether or nor he appeals, look-wise, to the escort.

 

As a client I have the luxury of looking over various sites to decide who I want to hire. Some appeal to me and some do not....but the bottom line is that I am the one paying for playing.

 

I am sure there are some clients that worry about what the escort will think of how they look. My best advice to any of those who worry is to relax, take a deep breath and have some fun.

[gcursor]

way to go

 

Hey OneFinger:

I wanted to congratulate you on losing over 100 pounds. You should feel very proud of yourself,

gcursor

 

 

I've recently gone through some major body changes. For the past 10 years I've described myself as "old, fat, and balding". But, I've now lost over 100 lbs. in about 5 months and I'm no longer fat (which is a plus). However, I have some serious skin sagging going on.

 

Gym workouts are helping with the sag but it will likely take several months to get everything shaped up.

 

How do escorts feel about hiring someone who is old, bald, and has sagging skin? Am I being overly self-conscious?

 

If the skin doesn't tighten up (due to my age), I may consider skin reduction surgery. That's leaves major scaring. How would those scars affect escorts?

[Diverdan]

I add my congratulations to you on losing the weight. You will live longer, enjoy life more and be in better health as a result. I wouldn't worry to much about the escorts... but if it makes you more comfortable, share it with them in advance. For most of the guys who post here, it wouldn't make one bit of difference, and they will help celebrate your success! Keep up with the workouts in the gym, and if you have any questions, consult a good plastic surgeon or dermatologist to find out what your options might be. But most important, don't worry about it and just celebrate your achievements!

DD

[Racketjock]

Congratulations, OneFinger, on the hard work and truly positive change for your health and body. That is certainly respected. I agree with Diverdan, living a longer, fuller life is where it is at. I have had the pleasure of meeting a couple of true professionals through this site, that regardless of what sags, bulges, or jiggles, make me smile by the joy and talent they provide in service. I don't believe you have anything to worry about other than buyin a sexier, slimmer pair of jeans!

[seeker630]

Hey OneFinger:

I wanted to congratulate you on losing over 100 pounds. You should feel very proud of yourself,

gcursor

 

I echo these sentiments. I'm sure it took incredible will-power & sacrifice! I've just started my own journey (with a more realistic goal). 10 lbs down, 40 to go!

[BaronArtz]

Indeed! Congratulations! I trust it contributes to your overall health and well-being. Just a comment about the surgery though: a good plastic surgeon should be able to remove the excess skin WITHOUT excessive scarring. Really! I would shop around for a good plastic surgeon, if that is indeed something you want to do.

 

I add my congratulations to you on losing the weight. You will live longer, enjoy life more and be in better health as a result. I wouldn't worry to much about the escorts... but if it makes you more comfortable, share it with them in advance. For most of the guys who post here, it wouldn't make one bit of difference, and they will help celebrate your success! Keep up with the workouts in the gym, and if you have any questions, consult a good plastic surgeon or dermatologist to find out what your options might be. But most important, don't worry about it and just celebrate your achievements!

DD

[instudiocity]

I've recently gone through some major body changes. For the past 10 years I've described myself as "old, fat, and balding". But, I've now lost over 100 lbs. in about 5 months and I'm no longer fat (which is a plus). However, I have some serious skin sagging going on.

 

Gym workouts are helping with the sag but it will likely take several months to get everything shaped up.

 

How do escorts feel about hiring someone who is old, bald, and has sagging skin? Am I being overly self-conscious?

 

If the skin doesn't tighten up (due to my age), I may consider skin reduction surgery. That's leaves major scaring. How would those scars affect escorts?

1F, I lost 35 pounds between dates with my favorite guy. My celebratory visit with him, we got up to get a glass of water, walking back towards me from the kitchen, seeing me for the first time from a distance, nude, he raised his eyebrows and exclaimed, "YOU'VE LOST WEIGHT! I can even see your abs are starting to show!" He didn't say anything about wrinkles, sags or my bowling ball figure which was still over 200 pounds." He was just excited about my progress and made the rest of the date even more wonderful..

[hunkymuscles]

I don't think most guys in the business are holding out for a classic beauty. They are happy to be with a client who is pleasant, respectful, and appreciative of what they have to offer. You're the one who gets to choose on looks; he simply gets to provide you with an encounter that hopefully makes you feel sexy, and, along with his stated fee, that ought to provide his satisfaction. If you're truly concerned and think that this may inhibit your experience, by all means clarify with him before you meet up, but I sincerely doubt that is necessary.

 

 

I agree with Kevin. The client is the one who gets to choose on looks. That's not our role. Our role is to provide an experience that the client is paying for. When I'm with a client, my focus isn't on his looks. My focus is to sexually please him the best that I can. I want my client to feel as though he is happy he hired me and that I'm providing him with an experience that hopefully goes beyond what he is expecting of me

Rex (San Francisco)

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[+ honcho]

Congratulations on the weight loss!

 

+1 to what Kevin & Hunky Muscles said (even though I'm not a 'scort myself).

[OneFinger]

Thanks so much to everyone for the encouragement and support. It's very reassuring and you offer some sound advice.

 

On the subject of skin reduction surgery, I've started researching from some of the best surgeons. And, the before and after pictures they show display some amazing work. But, what I'll probably need to have done is a lower body lift. They basically slice you all the way around and then pull up the excess skin. Scar wouldn't be noticeable in swim suit but in the nude it would probably look like a zipper.

 

FYI, this weight loss is being done under strict supervision by a doctor. Not something I'd recommend doing without excellent medical care (including a nutritionist). And, the difference in the way I feel and function is amazing. I truly feel 10 years younger and am off most of my medications. Instead of high blood pressure I have to be careful that it doesn't drop too low. (Great problem to have.)

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

On the subject of skin reduction surgery, I've started researching from some of the best surgeons. And, the before and after pictures they show display some amazing work. But, what I'll probably need to have done is a lower body lift. They basically slice you all the way around and then pull up the excess skin. Scar wouldn't be noticeable in swim suit but in the nude it would probably look like a zipper.

 

My sister had this procedure done 5 years ago after a similar weight loss. She loves the results.

[OneFinger]

My sister had this procedure done 5 years ago after a similar weight loss. She loves the results.

Great to hear she's happy with the procedure. I've only spoken with doctors concerning it and really appreciate knowing clients are satisfied. I hear it's painful but the results...

[Muscle Lover 2]

Well stated Mr. Slater. On behalf of all clients, thank you.

[JackTwist]

Congrats!

 

WOW! You should be so proud of yourself OneFinger!! Losine 100 lbs. is a major achievement. I say hire your favorite stud-muffin and start celebrating with him tonight! I'm betting that any professional escort would be thrilled to jump in the sack with you. Got get 'em!

[+ Tygerscent]

What I look for in a Client is a willingness to explore mutually and go as deep as we can in the experience together. Given we are all people and not a one of us is sterling perfection... who is anyone to judge? It's about sharing something amazing together... Go for it~! Lifes too short. If you are concerned, kevin offers a good option of mentioning to your chosen Escort Companion and see if he has any issues with it. If he does, then move right along and don't look back. There are lot's of guys out there who want to have some fun with you and aren't looking to make judgements of sorts. If someone has an issue, that's their problem and not yours. Celebrate~! Life's too short not to~

 

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I've recently gone through some major body changes. For the past 10 years I've described myself as "old, fat, and balding". But, I've now lost over 100 lbs. in about 5 months and I'm no longer fat (which is a plus). However, I have some serious skin sagging going on.

 

Gym workouts are helping with the sag but it will likely take several months to get everything shaped up.

 

How do escorts feel about hiring someone who is old, bald, and has sagging skin? Am I being overly self-conscious?

 

If the skin doesn't tighten up (due to my age), I may consider skin reduction surgery. That's leaves major scaring. How would those scars affect escorts?

[jawjateck]

Congrats OF! You are a man who is turning back time....way to go! Keep on celebrating these life victories with the Hooboy(s) of your choice.

[OneFinger]

Wow, the support and encourage on this site is amazing. I really appreciate the comments from both escorts and other clients. It's a big help and I realize the need to change my thinking as well as my body.

 

And, in response to jawjateck comment, I really do feel like I'm turning back time. I feel like I'm 10 years younger and I'm doing things now that I haven't been able to do for years. It's like new doors are opening for me.

[JT Brooklyn]

Congratz OneFinger! Keep up the Exercising since as you know no one can do it for you!

 

Most Working Guys with EXPERIENCE who are or consider themselves "Professionals" will have no problems with the effects of your Major Weight loss!

 

Enjoy your future Adventures in "The Wonderful World of The Working Guys"

[Lookin]

First time I noticed the phenomenon you're describing was with a guy I brought home from a bar several years ago. He looked height-weight proportional to me and, after a few preliminaries, I found myself behind him doing it doggy-style. I put my arms around his waist to hold on a bit tighter, and discovered the skin from his stomach was hanging down several inches toward the floor.

 

My first thought was 'That's strange! Never saw that before.', followed by, 'He must have lost a lot of weight recently.', and finally, 'Well good for him!'. Next I found myself holding him closer and playing with his skin in addition to everything else I was playing with. It was very sensual, which seemed to turn him on more, which turned me on more and, what with one thing and another, we spent a very pleasant evening together. He told me later that he had lost a hundred pounds or so and, like yours, his skin had not yet contracted.

 

So, I guess to add to all the good wishes and insights you've already received in this thread, I'd encourage you to allow for the possibility that you may meet a guy who finds lots of sensual skin-to-skin contact very erotic, and may enjoy the way you look and feel right now, just as you are. Of course, a lot will have to do with how you make him feel, and I hope you'll find that sweet spot where both of you are focused on making the other person feel good.

 

And thanks for reminding me of that very sensual experience from many years ago. I'd boink him again in a heartbeat!

[OneFinger]

What a wonderful memory. lookin!! Thanks for sharing it and helping me figure out I need to change my thinking.

[+ Oliver]

... I feel like I'm 10 years younger and I'm doing things now that I haven't been able to do for years.

 

And what would those things be???

WOW! 100 pounds and 10 years younger! Who is that person?

[OneFinger]

And what would those things be???

 

WOW! 100 pounds and 10 years younger! Who is that person?

Hey, are you coming thru Utah again on your way back home? Would love to see you again this year and let you see the half of me that's still here.