Married guys cheating on their wives with gay escorts

[nate_sf]

What i missed in this thread so far was the fact that there are also bisexual people. Most of them are in a relation but need the opposite sex from time to time. I believe there is no problem with that. My partner knows that I'm bisexual. We agreed that I can have sex with a man. But I never tell when it happens. On the other hand my partner can make sexual fantasies come true with another person which I can't fullfill. Our relation is based on love and that's more than just sex. Our outdoor activities are just focused on sex. Most of the gay people and certainly escorts must recognize and understand this way of life.

 

I don't ask a lot of questions of my clients unless they offer the info, but I assume at least a few of them are bisexual and getting together with a male escort is an outlet. However in one case the guy did give me details of his relationship with his wife, and said she knew he was bisexual and there was an understanding that he could get together with a guy when she was out of town. I don't know to what extend this may or may not have been totally true, but it seemed believable enough to me.

[Guest greatness]

I hope you can find the best solution for you and your wife. Life is hard and there are many choices we have to make. Whatever you choose to do we will support and love you. Love triumphs everything.

 

Because I don't believe in god or a human soul....the question for me could never be a moralistic one....For me it is a question of interpersonal significance. I am not proud of cheating on my wife...but the pain of telling her and separating at this time in our lives is far greater than the act of cheating....

Why don;t I stop cheating is probably the most legitimate question I live with...After repressing my sexuality for 40 years of living a faithful straight life, I needed to explore this more than anything I ever was tempted by....Happy No! but unable to stop....

[ChiTown]

Hand me that oar!

 

I am not proud of cheating on my wife...but the pain of telling her and separating at this time in our lives is far greater than the act of cheating....

Why don't I stop cheating is probably the most legitimate question I live with...After repressing my sexuality for 40 years of living a faithful straight life, I needed to explore this more than anything I ever was tempted by....Happy No! but unable to stop....

 

Rich,

 

I feel that I am in the same boat, not sure where it may take me and how furiously I want to row. I could take the safe tack and maintain the status quo, or I could be true to myself and fair to my wife and family.

 

Best of luck in your continuing journey, my friend!