SilverDaddies

[twinkboylover28]

Are SilverDaddies.com and SeekingArrangement.com legit websites for older guys looking for "companionship?"

[bcohen7719]

I never even heard of them...

 

BC

[MscleLovr]

I know 2 older guys and 1 young man who use SilverDaddies. They report that it's very fruitful.

 

I was once contacted by a hot young guy who referred me to his profile on SeekingArrangement, but I've not known personally anyone who used the site.

[jeanclaude44]

I have found SilverDaddies to be an excellent site. There seem to be many stable, serious people on this site looking for older/younger meetings/ relationships.

[+ Cash4Trash]

I've met some really nice guys on SilverDaddies, hope to be dating one when he gets back from Florida this spring.

We met before he left and really hit it off.

[Poolboy21409]

Silver Daddies has been a bust for me. "Gnarly Old Queens". I am a daddy...but not silver yet!

[+ Charlie]

A friend of mine in his 70s has found two partners through SilverDaddies. The first was a dud, who absconded with the silver when he moved out. The second is a stud, who seems to be working out well.

[Greathands]

Twinkboylover ... what do you mean by "companionship"? When I first read your post, I made the assumption you were looking for an escort. I guess I was wrong, in light of the other poster's responses.

 

I have had a few great dates and met some new friends thru Silverdaddies, but never ran across any escorts there.

[josephga]

I got the impression he was looking for someone, A younger guy to have a regular exclusive arrangement with. Maybe wine dine, spoil and yes some type of compensation. Not Like an escort but more of a sugar baby.

[Greathands]

Thanks Joseph for your thought. My use of the word "escort" may have been a bit of exaggeration ... but I was also thinking he was referring to some type of relationship with compensation.

 

Unless I've totally missed out on something, I've considered Silver Daddies more of a dating site than guys looking for an "arrangement". Then again, maybe I'm oblivious to that since I certainly don't have the $ for a sugar baby or boy toy. Thank God this big ole bear found himself a "sugar son" on a similar site. (Though I'm joking, cause he would definately laugh at that comment.)

[josephga]

I just went over and looked at sliver daddies. I had to register in order to see the profiles. Looking at the profiles there I got the impression its A site for older guys looking for guys like themselves for dating or for hookups

[twinkboylover28]

I got the impression he was looking for someone, A younger guy to have a regular exclusive arrangement with. Maybe wine dine, spoil and yes some type of compensation. Not Like an escort but more of a sugar baby.

 

You hit the nail on the head.

[twinkboylover28]

Then again, maybe I'm oblivious to that since I certainly don't have the $ for a sugar baby or boy toy.

 

You would be surprised how little $ it takes. It's just like regular dating with some strategicaly placed thoughtful gifts/actions.

[Guest MasculineCute]

Seekingarrangement.com is very popular in NYC/Miami/Dallas.

 

It's for Successful men who are not ready for a relationship .... but don't want to hire by the hour.

[jackhammer91406]

Are SilverDaddies.com and SeekingArrangement.com legit websites for older guys looking for "companionship?"

 

Not familiar with the SeekingArrangement site. In fact have never heard of it before now. However, I have met many very hot young men through the Silver Daddies site, some of whom I still see on occasion.

[Greathands]

Jackhammer ... just curious about these guys you see from that site. Are these hookups or hires?

[jackhammer91406]

All of mine were hook-ups. I had a profile posted for a number of years (on the advice of a friend) and was frankly surprised at the number of hot young men who were interested. I still have contact with many who check in with me and ask about availability even though my profile no longer exists.[/color][/size][/font]

[josephga]

You would be surprised how little $ it takes. It's just like regular dating with some strategicaly placed thoughtful gifts/actions.

 

You are right about that. When I was 34 I met a 18 year old, He asked me out after seeing me on line. well he asked at 17 and i joking said too young sweet heart call me when you turn 18. I figured young short attention span he would move on. nope he contacted me 3 months later 2 days after turning 18. We dated about 4 months when i caught him cheating and tossed him back into the dating pond. However I never spent a dime on anything other than cooking up a nice dinner a few days a week 1 concert and the movies out once. There's younger guys that just want a older guy, some say guys their own age don't give them the attention they want. Then at 37 I dated a 23 year old for almost a year, ended in same results, Other than cooking dinner, movies out, i paid his electric bill and bought him grocery's 3 times. again he asked me out. So there are lots of younger guys out there wanting a older guy and you have to spend very little. however don't fall for that line about how much different they are than guys their own age. because I found out they are exactly like the guys their own age in the end. Now I'll be 43 next tuesday and now days I wouldn't give a guy under say 32 the time of day. Iv reached a point in life I want the guy i need not the guy i want.

[twinkboylover28]

josephga that was genius.

that was beautiful.

i couldnt have said it any better myself.

 

when iwas 34 i started dating a guy who just turned 16 (the legal age of consent in michigan).

to make a long story short, he was bipolar and an unmedicated h.s. drop out.

we lasted almost 2 years on-and-off, for a total of about 5 months together.

you'd be surprised what a $5 pack of cigarettes can get you lol

 

i never thought i would ever consider dating a 32 year old, but there is this gay guy who works at a jewlery store in our local mall who is tall ,skinny, boyish, and twink like...at 32!!

 

i neevr knew that existed. And he's a "mature" twink.

 

id much rather be single and celibate than date someone im not attracted to.. or "falling in love" with. Unfortunately , as you also experienced, most gay relationships i know of usually end when the other is cheating behind their back. Makes you wish you never met them in the first place sometimes. Very sad commentary.

 

i will be turning 37 at the end of next month, and although i still will always adore skinny white twinks, for the first time in my life im enjoying older "twinks" almost my age. Go figure.

 

Happy Birthday next week you geezer j/k

[instudiocity]

I've reached a point in life I want the guy i need not the guy i want.

I've reached the point in my life where the guy that wants me, is the guy I need. I'm always laid in my head, before I'm ever laid in bed.

[twinkboylover28]

I'm always laid in my head, before I'm ever laid in bed.

 

I'm gonna use this as my facebook status lol

[josephga]

I always got hurt dating guys that were very young, I had a rep as someone that babies people trying to rescue the damaged. that 18 year old i dated suffered from bipolar. I had this silly shit in my head like i normally did was that all i have too do is love them treat them well and all their pain would go away. in the end the person hurt was me you can't rescue people or change them. I tend to get into a relationship and put it first and everything else fell behind that. never had a guy who put me first second or 3rd.

A friend of mine told me a few montths ago that i should make sure the next guy i date loves me more than i love him. lol

[twinkboylover28]

josephga...you sound like my identical twin in many many many aspects, only 300 pounds lighter!

. im sure we could swap horror stories...

 

lets just say its hard to keep a smile on your face when the person u love just said something that crushed you on the inside..constantly.

 

in the end, i concluded he truly was a bipolar sociopath.

the more i loved him , the more i spoiled him, and the more i treated him like a rockstar, the worse he became.

it got to the point where i use to have fun for a pack of cigs, to the point where he wouldnt spend the nite for $2000.

crazy stuff.

 

and trust me, after serious analyzing of the relationship, i realized that i had NOT changed one single bit in our two years....i just got better and better, nicer and nicer, richer and richer.

 

it was HE that changed, and turned into a horrifc monster.

But unmedicated bipolar type-1 can do that.

 

i'll have to send u my lenghty email i wrote him when i had the last straw.

im sure a lot of the circumstances u can relate to.

[instudiocity]

I'm always laid in my head, before I'm ever laid in bed.

 

I'm gonna use this as my facebook status lol

 

Feel Free to do that. I've been using that line for nearly 40 years.

 

It's more true now than ever. I make a date with an escort and just having the date scheduled is good for a week's worth of boners and j/o sessions.

[josephga]

I always lost allot of massage clients too when ever I was in a relationship. those seeking a release were refused and normally wouldn't book when ever they knew i was dating. i felt it would be hypocritical to say i wont put up with cheating then turn around a jerk some guy off. so i normally lost those clients that couldn't respect that choice