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doitb4ugo Grand Master

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Sorry for this seemingly indelicate subject but there is nothing like discussion to help people in need of information.

 

  1. As I tend to bottom when with an escort, I have to admit that my prep does not always produce the desired level of cleanliness. It is very embarassing to me and never pleasant for the partner who needs to attempt to be diplomatic. I am getting better at this thanks to great advice from an escort a short time ago. But my confidence is never at a high level.
  2. How does the timing affect your results...i.e. cleanse in the morning, what do you do when the session is in the evening...In my case it is very hard to rinse and repeat during the day at work..
  3. How do you know going into a session that all will be well? As escorts, many need to prep on a regular basis, how do they get comfortable that all is ok.
  4. I have read many warnings about the process of cleansing in term of how often it is okay to douche. While I don't hire daily yet, how does the timing of it affect you as an escort or frequent bottom.

If anyone is interested in the advice I was given, I'm sure I can post it here without offendng anyone.

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Doit. Good question. I have a pretty good track record with this but it's still a point of complete paranoia for me. To the point where I can't enjoy ass play and sometimes avoid it altogether if I think there may be a problem. Fort Troff has a portable showershot (what Kevin mentioned and, Mr. Slater, I think it's great that you offer this for your clients. Very thoughtful). http://www.forttroff.com/pigmart/ On the left pane menu select "shower shot." They claim it's superior to the regular metal hose but I have no idea if that's true. I prefer it only because you don't have to mess with plumbing and since it's portable you can take it down right away when you're done. The benefit of this is that nosy neighbors and drop-by friends won't look in your shower with mix of shock, awe, repulsion and/or delight. The nozzle comes in a few different sizes depending how deeply you want to clean. There's even a video on the FT site of a hot guy setting it up and playing with it, though he doesn't actually use it. (Sidebar: does anyone else just LOVE the videos on the FT site?)

 

Also, diet makes a huge difference. High fiber every day makes everything easier. Leafy greens, vegetables, and consider switching to a high-fiber cereal (two bowls of that a day can work like a godsend). Of course, all that fiber has many other benefits that have nothing at do with sex. I find that avoiding large amounts of dairy helps as well. And stay away from creamy stuff like peanut butter, chocolate, ice cream, etc.

 

I have no morning routine. About two-three hours before sex and then maybe a short refresher 15 or so minutes before, but that's more for peace of mind than anything. If you are going to have a big gap betwen when you clean and when you have sex (like a day at the office) then consider takng an immodium to, ah, slow things down. But generally I try not to do that. I've had a number of docs tell me that too much of that stuff can really fuck up your bowels.

 

Then of course, there are those tops that seem to get off on cleaning their bottom out before things start (but now we're moving to a post that belongs in the fetish forum...). Anyway, that's not my thing. This is something that needs to be done in private. I'd be mortified and humiliated to do this in front of someone else, though perhaps that's exactly what some tops are going for.

 

Also, if you're with an escort, I would reckon that they've experienced this countless times so they are well equipped to deal with it politely and in a way that won't mortify you.

 

edit: I just re-read this and have to apologize for giving WAY more information than anyone wants to hear.

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...snip...snip[/size][/font] ...you can take it down right away when you're done. The benefit of this is that nosy neighbors and drop-by friends won't look in your shower with mix of shock, awe, repulsion and/or delight.
Me, I'd be saying, "Let's play!"

 

The nozzle comes in a few different sizes depending how deeply you want to clean.
Um, shouldn't that be Lengths? Queens are all about size, but here we're talking depth!

 

There's even a video on the FT site of a hot guy setting it up and playing with it, though he doesn't actually use it. (Sidebar: does anyone else just LOVE the videos on the FT site?)
I was really confused about the 'Back to Product' arrows because I thought I was looking at the product, the beautiful guy with his back to the camera!

 

And stay away from creamy stuff like peanut butter, chocolate, ice cream, etc.
NO creamy stuff? None? None at all? Dang!

 

Then of course, there are those tops that seem to get off on cleaning their bottom out before things start. ... This is something that needs to be done in private. I'd be mortified and humiliated to do this in front of someone else, though perhaps that's exactly what some tops are going for.
I dunno, I see it as participating in the preparation. Bottoms have more to do, and sharing in the activity can be really hot. It adds to my passion when I help.

 

Also, if you're with an escort, I would reckon that they've experienced this countless times so they are well equipped to deal with it politely and in a way that won't mortify you.

LOL! Wow, Spanky, I am highly amused and turned-on! Helping to get my man ready is HOT, roMANtic, and passion-building. Hey, if I'm gonna be a fudge-packer, I'm gonna get fudge on me. It happens!

 

But your post is hilarious! and sexy!

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Hey Sexy~!

Well... I do the hygiene thing before every Client even though I predominantly Top. I use a red bag and have a specific method that works for me. People have hired me to give them instruction on rinsing for play. You are welcome to contact me with questions.

It's a series of rinses that goes like this:

1). I fill the bag with cold water. Cold water cleanses you but also prevents water from going too far up the colon like warm water can do. Warm water can cause the colon to relax too much and water can go too far up causing a "drop" unexpectedly afterwords at any given time.

2). Hang the bad above your head if possible. Insert nozzle one inch, turning the torso slightly to the right to control how far the water goes up and open the valve. Let flow just until you feel some pressure. Generally a count of three. Go sit down right away.

3). Insert nozzle again. Insert, turn slightly to right and open valve. Count to five and until you feel some pressure. That feeling will come after a longer fill time because you have already evacuated some of what is in your rectum. Go sit down and relax... don't ever force or bare down... relax as much as possible and just let gravity and natural pressure do it's job.

4). If you don't rinse clear you can do one or two more of the above rinses listed in #2. (No pun intended though it could be the butt of a good joke~).

5). Do one more cold water rinse for a count of three. Go sit down and relax.

Of course... this is for a general clean fucking session and it;s good to do it just prior to about one hour in advance. More then three hours in advance and you are potentially looking for a time out to re-prep. Have your bag handy just in case you need to freshen~ If you rae planning on deep toy play or heavy ass play or fisting... the prep is different. I can advise you if you write to me privately at my email address below.

Another important consideration is planning to eat for play. I call it the Escort diet. I eat to play... I avoid, if possible eating foods that just whoosh right through you or make cleaning difficult: peanut butter, salads, prunes, very oily foods. You know... things that make your poop soft. It;s easier to rinse clean when your stools are a bit on the bulky side. I'll eat cheese, meat, high protein foods and sometimes drink tea or coffee to make my poop more solid. Bread can work... Drinking a ton of anything just before playing can sort of push things along and be problematic. So, I generally drink something after play. If I'm planning on some ass play on my part, I try not to eat just prior to playing. I eat afterwards or between 10 and 16 hours before playing. I eat oats and get my fiber but avoid bran containing foods prior to play. You know... Bran... can give you gas and make you extra regular. So, avoid carbonated beverages, foods that give you soft stools and make you have to go more.

P.S. Love your Beatles quotes~!

You know this one?

"..Close your eyes, Have no fear, The monsters gone, He's on the run and your daddy's here, Beautiful, Beautiful, beautiful, Beautiful Boy..."

It's a John Lennon song.

Tyger~!

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The answer is simple: 3-4 full bottle squirts, 20 min. - 1 hr. waiting time (depending on your weight; shorter wait for thin guys, longer wait for heavier guys)...but not longer than 2 hrs. Although the sterilized cleaners are great....I personally prefer using a disposable item such as the one below (on the off chance I end up bottoming).

 

I posted this at the start of summer, and now that summer is ending...you can make it the beginning of summer everytime with:

 

http://img.walgreens.com/dbimagecache/04160808747_450x450_a.jpg

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Tygerscent Grand Master

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Hmmm...Summers Eve, When the Proctologist sits on his porch thinking about his next house in Brazil and 4th Bentley. The Povidone-Iodine solution up the butt ongoing sounds kind of like the Proctologists mid summers night dream. yer butt innards are made to absorb things fast... not sure you really want Iodine up there~ maybe best to stick to cold water?

Tyger~!

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Hmmm...Summers Eve, When the Proctologist sits on his porch thinking about his next house in Brazil and 4th Bentley. The Povidone-Iodine solution up the butt ongoing sounds kind of like the Proctologists mid summers night dream. yer butt innards are made to absorb things fast... not sure you really want Iodine up there~ maybe best to stick to cold water?

Tyger~!

http://www.tygerscent.biz

tygerkink@yahoo.com

503.719.9274

 

I agree, and have read articles that highly recommend not using these products, as they can do you harm (especially with repeated use).

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I saw a documentary once about porn. It was called making porn. They showed on a porn set how they do it. they took fleet enemas or summers eve and emptied the solution out and refilled them with tap water. they kept doing it until the water ran clear 3 to 4 times. I always wondered how escorts that were always bottoms handle it. I thought douching everyday was suppose to be unhealthy

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Tygerscent Grand Master

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Not necessarily bad for you. Can even be beneficial. It's all in how you ride the nozzle so to speak. I've done rinses using a yogurt solution and sometimes ginger and lemon juice. Eating yogurt is a good colon thing as well.

I don't use commercial couching solutions though. I prefer the bag method since you just buy the bag once and then have it for a pretty long time. Individual douches are not that expensive but adds up over time, perhaps. So, cost effectiveness might come into play.

I knew this guy who relied on the disposable douches and his recycling bin was ridiculous~ Wish I owned stock~

Tyger~!

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503.719.9274

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There's lots of info out there on this topic, (healthy or not). A staring point would be: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enema This next link provides some general guidelines for the beginner: http://www.enemabag.com/using_enemas_safely.html

This next link is for more advanced enema um... play and fitness. It has some recipes in there that I would not personally endorse or recommend except for the more/most knowledgable practitioner or playmate. Best not to just go wild and explore on your own without guidance or some preliminary foundations in enemas. The link is: http://www.health-information-fitness.com/enemarecipes.html

Tyger~!

tygerkink@yahoo.com

http://www.tygerscenbt.biz

503.719.9274

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