Sometimes I question if its even worth staying...

[JoeyBryant]

I'm getting to the point that I do not even enjoy my time posting (or reading) the things on here anymore. I appreciate the fact that its a review site and all...and am glad that its here, but I come to see that this place breeds nothing but a bunch of prententious, fake 'users' thats a borderline White Supremacy site. And by looking at the review section of places like D.C. and Atlanta, that only validates my statement

 

Even if non of that is true (which it is), its even more plastic that members here, namely other working guys email me about something...and then don't even have the courtesy to write back when I reply. Its like, I understand you need to feel special and wanted, but Im sorry I get enough of that on my own. I dont need to talk down to someone, or extend an offer for advice only to withhold it just to make it seem like, "I do it perfectly, and im going to tell you how...one of these day"

 

I can understand the nature of what we do lends itself to behave a certain way, but thats not license to be phony. Its all about touting and puffery and its so obvious. And equally annoying. This environment just barely lends itself to learning...that is, if you (like myself) are atleast an intermediate/advanced stage of escorting and know the ins and outs. Otherwise, to me it feels more like a virtual boiler room. The only difference being that one actually has access to reviews

[Boston Guy]

Joey,

 

Please pardon me for not understanding but I really don't understand what problem you are describing. Your post is so full of generalities that I simply don't understand what it is that you are finding to be a problem.

 

Also, I don't understand if you are unhappy with the reviews on Daddy's reviews or if you are unhappy with what is going on here on the Message Center. Are you unhappy with threads here or with individual posters? If so, perhaps you can be more specific because I, at least, haven't a clue as to what you are seeing.

 

If it's a thread or a post, please point to it or link to it. Or be more specific so we can try to either respond or commiserate or at least agree or disagree.

 

Thanks,

BG

[Guest greatness]

hmm

 

I don't get your point either.. I hope whatever that is bothering you gets resolved.. I think it is always good to try to communicate rather than bury something inside. So let it out Joey~~ Kisses and hugs~~~ I think you are hot

 

I'm getting to the point that I do not even enjoy my time posting (or reading) the things on here anymore. I appreciate the fact that its a review site and all...and am glad that its here, but I come to see that this place breeds nothing but a bunch of prententious, fake 'users' thats a borderline White Supremacy site. And by looking at the review section of places like D.C. and Atlanta, that only validates my statement

 

Even if non of that is true (which it is), its even more plastic that members here, namely other working guys email me about something...and then don't even have the courtesy to write back when I reply. Its like, I understand you need to feel special and wanted, but Im sorry I get enough of that on my own. I dont need to talk down to someone, or extend an offer for advice only to withhold it just to make it seem like, "I do it perfectly, and im going to tell you how...one of these day"

 

I can understand the nature of what we do lends itself to behave a certain way, but thats not license to be phony. Its all about touting and puffery and its so obvious. And equally annoying. This environment just barely lends itself to learning...that is, if you (like myself) are atleast an intermediate/advanced stage of escorting and know the ins and outs. Otherwise, to me it feels more like a virtual boiler room. The only difference being that one actually has access to reviews

[+ deej]

White Supremacy? Really? REALLY?!?!?!?!?!?!

 

We won't stand for it. Please write privately to Daddy or me and tell us where this comes from. We'd rather shut down the message center than harbor any white supremacy activity.

 

Really!

 

Gentlemen (and the rest of you), this may actually take us down for a time.

[+ Lucky]

I know that merlin doesn't like immigrants, but I don't think he is a white supremacist. Moosie, maybe. But I agree with deej, it shouldn't be tolerated.

[Guest ryan2552]

WTF You think you're the only black man on this site ... review or message center? How can you tell who is of what ethnic background in the message center or those reviewing escorts? Sounds so much like other posts you hae made here. No central point, much rambling and you just love to use those hot button words. Yet it reads like a lot of personal issues .. "namely other working guys email me about something...and then don't even have the courtesy to write back when I reply" ... Get over yourself.

[seeker630]

Racism?

 

but I come to see that this place breeds nothing but a bunch of prententious, fake 'users' thats a borderline White Supremacy site. And by looking at the review section of places like D.C. and Atlanta, that only validates my statement

 

 

I just scanned through the reviews for DC & Atlanta (tho I did not go into the 'Older reviews'.) I saw no indicators of racism, unless you refer to the smaller number of black escorts reviewed?

 

Can you point to some examples?

[Guest ryan2552]

White Supremacy? Really? REALLY?!?!?!?!?!?!

 

 

 

Gentlemen (and the rest of you), this may actually take us down for a time.

Really? Based on a post without any specifics? A post by someone who just loves to incite here?

 

If there is racism here then it should be dealt with. However, the author of the thread hasn't shown any of us that there is. Maybe he will email daddy specifics.

[+ deej]

If there is racism here then it should be dealt with. However, the author of the thread hasn't shown any of us that there is. Maybe he will email daddy specifics.

 

If it needs to be dealt with, I suspect you know we don't sit on our hands.

 

I really hope Joey tells us about it and doesn't require us to look at the private message database, which we normally ignore.

 

It's there to query. If there's white supremacy shyte in there we should probably go looking, but it's kinda like looking in somebody's underwear. It sounds good at first but then you see shit.

[JT Brooklyn]

Racism in 2010

 

WTF You think you're the only black man on this site ... review or message center? How can you tell who is of what ethnic background in the message center or those reviewing escorts? Sounds so much like other posts you hae made here. No central point, much rambling and you just love to use those hot button words. Yet it reads like a lot of personal issues .. "namely other working guys email me about something...and then don't even have the courtesy to write back when I reply" ... Get over yourself.

 

It has been my take going back to the Old Hooboy Days for those of us who remember..IF a Poster was RACIST he definitely did not hold back on his comments!

 

One or two have come and gone...are there any around now? I DOUBT IT!

[+ nycman]

....thats a borderline White Supremacy site.

 

Please site an example.

 

And DJ...loosen the Underoos....the kid likes to push buttons.

He's all drama. He acts in obnoxious ways...and then starts

throwing hand grenades when no one wants to play in his sandbox.

 

Seriously, I appreciate your concern...but you're feeding a troll

and only adding to the childish drama.

[+ deej]

And DJ...loosen the Underoos....

 

You know, I'd like to.

 

But we've been accused of running a white supremacist site.

 

I don't think we are, but I'm willing to listen, learn, and improve.

 

Hailing frequencies are open.

[BewareofNick]

I'm getting to the point that I do not even enjoy my time posting (or reading) the things on here anymore. I appreciate the fact that its a review site and all...and am glad that its here, but I come to see that this place breeds nothing but a bunch of prententious, fake 'users' thats a borderline White Supremacy site. And by looking at the review section of places like D.C. and Atlanta, that only validates my statement

 

Even if non of that is true (which it is), its even more plastic that members here, namely other working guys email me about something...and then don't even have the courtesy to write back when I reply. Its like, I understand you need to feel special and wanted, but Im sorry I get enough of that on my own. I dont need to talk down to someone, or extend an offer for advice only to withhold it just to make it seem like, "I do it perfectly, and im going to tell you how...one of these day"

 

I can understand the nature of what we do lends itself to behave a certain way, but thats not license to be phony. Its all about touting and puffery and its so obvious. And equally annoying. This environment just barely lends itself to learning...that is, if you (like myself) are atleast an intermediate/advanced stage of escorting and know the ins and outs. Otherwise, to me it feels more like a virtual boiler room. The only difference being that one actually has access to reviews

 

Joey, if this were a white supremacist site, I wouldn't be here. Certainly Merlin and Minnie appear to harbor racist points of view, but they are clearly not representative of this site. I'd be intetested to know what specifically makes you think that.

[BewareofNick]

You know, I'd like to.

 

But we've been accused of running a white supremacist site.

 

I don't think we are, but I'm willing to listen, learn, and improve.

 

Hailing frequencies are open.

 

Wow, first Nichelle Nichols, then Zoe Saldana, now deej. I hope you get to kiss Zachary Quinto in Star Trek 12

[imrthr]

You know, I'd like to.

 

But we've been accused of running a white supremacist site.

 

I don't think we are, but I'm willing to listen, learn, and improve.

 

Hailing frequencies are open.

 

 

....thats a borderline White Supremacy site.

 

 

 

 

I believe the poster wrote "borderline" white supremacist site. He did not say it was such a site. Therefore, there was no real accusation made.

 

He was just spouting off in generalities like he does every now and again.

 

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[Juan Vancouver]

Joey,

 

I am as dark as it gets, and everybody knows it. I, aside from the fact that I am not black, am as opposite to white as you may be. To this day, I have never -ever- been relegated to a different status, called names or mistreated because of the color of my skin.

 

We have all read here and there couple of posters that are generous with their belittling epithets, calling people horrible things because they don't think the same way they do, wanting to become the carriers of truth, but exactly the same way it happens in the "real" world, the others come fast and defend what they think it is fair.

 

I understand if you have lost interest in the site, and if that is the case don't be shy to take a break. I have, many regular posters here have and when they come back the site is still here, as interesting and fun as always.

 

As for:

 

I can understand the nature of what we do lends itself to behave a certain way, but thats not license to be phony.

 

I really don't understand what you mean. What is the "certain way" in which we behave because of our profession?

 

I hope you will do whatever you need to do to feel better.

[adriano46]

IMHO - original poster has an unfortunate tendency to post such threads like an open granade, sit back and enjoy the fracus that ensues as peple try to interpret and re-interpret what he means.

 

His original comments make no real sense, are more innuendo and secret codes known only to himself. And now we are all trying to parse it? Moving on....

[+ ArVaGuy]

Joey, I've read many of your posts and you strike me as immature and projecting your insecurities on others. You speak of racism on this site and I can't help but chuckle a bit at that when I read what you wrote in a thread where one escort asks about visiting San Antonio or Austin. You stated the following:

 

"I feel as if I moved to Mexico, which technically...Texas is Mexico. I dont care what the locals here say. I'm from another state and I can see that."

 

Also in that thread you disparage your client base basically calling them fat and ugly. Then you wonder why you may have lousy business? Blatantly insulting clients is not exactly the best way to improve your lot.

 

Reading the quote above it’s my conclusion that you must have an issue with Latinos. To state that "Texas is Mexico" reveals a latent racist attitude toward Latinos in my mind. It's already clear you dislike your client base from what you have written. So...do you have an issue with Latinos?

 

Don't like Texas? Then move but the issues you have appear to be much deeper and your problems are likely going to follow you. Until you mature and gain some life experience you are going to find that your problem stares back at you from the mirror.

[wayout]

Hi Joey,

 

What I try to say : don't assume too soon that others are discriminating. Especially when they aren't, the thought alone makes your life needlessly unpleasant.

 

I don't know what you're referring to, and maybe I'm totally missing your point with the examples I just gave, but I do hope that the examples I gave give a different perspective on the reason why you started your post.

 

Warmest regards, Anton/Amsterdam.

 

 

Anton, I was trying to think of how to say what you wrote so very well. You make an excellent point. Sometimes it is pretty obvious when there is discrimination and/or prejudice but other times it is an interpretation of something that may or may not be that way at all. It is always worthwhile to try to see things from different perspectives and I find that often times it is helpful in dealing with situations that have gotten me agitated.

 

Joey, Clearly there is something in the forum that has gotten you agitated. I honestly can say that I have grown somewhat frustrated of late with many threads and postings but for different reasons than what I believe you are trying to articulate. If you allow, I think many here will be more than willing to help you work through whatever has you so upset. It will require more specific details on your part and a willingness to be open to considering different ideas and perspectives on what you may have already concluded as fact.

[happyguy2]

This is a very disturbing matter - but aren't we lucky to have such thoughtful posters as Anton and Juan, to name but two! Good luck to Daddy and Deej.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Gentlemen Consider the source, look back at his previous posts and then decide how much credence you want to place in this accusation.

All of us, including myself,should learn to simply ignore this type of thread, rather than play directly into the hands of the original poster!

[wayout]

Gentlemen Consider the source, look back at his previous posts and then decide how much credence you want to place in this accusation.

All of us, including myself,should learn to simply ignore this type of thread, rather than play directly into the hands of the original poster!

 

Even with what might be considered the lack of credibility of the source, it is of such an inflammatory nature that it needs to see the full light of day. The challenge to the source to substantiate his assertion is important so I disagree and feel that this type of thread should not be ignored.

 

I don't pretend to know what Daddy or the administrators would do if it is found to be lacking of any substance, but I would hope that there would be some consequences such that others would think twice about posting unsubstantiated inflammatory remarks. And if there is any evidence to support what was stated, I would equally expect there would be some actions taken to elminate the problem.

[Boomer]

I am very sensitive to issues of racism, whether overt or covert. I'm not aware of any overt racist remarks. There have been some remarks that I question, but that could also be my bias. Joey, if you want this community to address this issue appropriately I would suggest that you be more specific.

[JT Brooklyn]

Goodbye/Hello AGAIN!

 

IMHO - original poster has an unfortunate tendency to post such threads like an open granade, sit back and enjoy the fracus that ensues as peple try to interpret and re-interpret what he means.

 

His original comments make no real sense, are more innuendo and secret codes known only to himself. And now we are all trying to parse it? Moving on....

 

I do agree with adriano! Isn't this the guy who said "Goodbye" a while back?

[Guest ryan2552]

If it needs to be dealt with, I suspect you know we don't sit on our hands.

 

 

It's there to query. If there's white supremacy shyte in there we should probably go looking,

 

You get no argument from me. I as pretty much everybody here knows that its like to be in the minority and to feel the hate of others who do not agree with who we have sex with. Add to that racism and it makes me want to vomit.

 

Personally if I was in the original authors situation though I would not start a post ... I would have emailed you or daddy with the specifics.

 

Anyway, again we are on the same page we just might look at the reason behind this thread differently.