Dear fellow escorts; come get it for free...

[JoeyBryant]

I had a 'client' contact me from rentboy the other day asking to hookup. Okay? Well thing was he was an escort as well with an ad online and the number matched up too.

 

Can you believe this guy wanted to have a session with me but "wasn't into paying for it". Being that he was also an escort, he wanted to 'swap'. I was like, "okay...you call my ad asking for a service but don't want to break bread? Where the hell do you come off?"

 

Some people, I tell you...

[seaboy4hire]

There are times when working guys play with each other. Think of it as a way to network. If you two meshed well together it could lead to you two working together. It is all about networking.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ Ace]

I TOTALLY agree Greg!!

Playing with other escorts has led me to 3 ways, referrals & a LOT of fun!

By the way, are you in Seattle Thanksgiving weekend?..Let's FINALLY meet up!

[seaboy4hire]

I TOTALLY agree Greg!!

Playing with other escorts has led me to 3 ways, referrals & a LOT of fun!

By the way, are you in Seattle Thanksgiving weekend?..Let's FINALLY meet up!

 

Yes as a matter of fact I am home for Thanksgiving this year. I have the whole week off from the day job. I also want to ad to the op from Joey that many of the working guys are so darn hot! I've been honored that I've gotten to play with some of the hot working guys out there in the real world. I say honored because I feel often times they are so far above me in looks and what not.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Mark Gordon]

Escorts Connecting

 

It's very common for escorts to hook-up with each other via their online ads.

I've met several great guys including my last boyfriend this way.

[Txpaytoplay]

Give it a try....

 

From a clients perspective....it seems to me it would make good business sense. The experience I have has been much better when the two escorts new each other and had a commerartery. They had been together before and not with another client. It was a great experience. My advice would be to do some "market research" and try it. The worst that could happen is you don't like the guy and them your out only time. This could also help expand your nitsche in the market. Okay....Marketing 101 is now over.

 

Just my two cents worth.

[Lookin]

I think doctors refer to it as "professional courtesy".

[Guest zipperzone]

By hooking up with another escort (without payment) should be looked upon as a learning experience. You might just learn a move or two to ad to your own repertoire and therefore make your performance with your clients more memorable.

 

That is unless you think you are so damn hot that nobody can teach you anything. I very much doubt that would be the case here.

[+ nycman]

Some people, I tell you...

 

You could have taken it as a compliment and just said "no thank you".

 

Unfortunately, your post makes you sound like a prima dona instead.

[KMEM]

JB-

 

Well, you read all the pros and cons for your view point, mostly cons it seems. However, it is not only a personal decision but a business one as well to have sex with another escort. Professional courtesy is fine, if it strikes your fancy. There is no written or unwritten law that says you must try out other escorts or let them try you out.

 

However, as one poster pointed out, courtesy in your reply IS required. A simple you are hot but no thanks should be sufficient.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[jasoncarter_dfw]

I guess it's different for me since I'm in a relationship, but I do not have uncompensated sessions with anyone unless its my significant other. I've gotten those emails before too and I politely decline.

[josephga]

I guess it's different for me since I'm in a relationship, but I do not have uncompensated sessions with anyone unless its my significant other. I've gotten those emails before too and I politely decline.

 

I agree with you 100%. I use too get guys who would call or email me asking if id trade massages instead of a financial compensation. Most had no training what so ever. I always lived by the rule That I would only get massages from certified and state licensed masseurs and most of these guys offering trade had neither. I just politely told them that I wasn't interested in doing massage unless it was for my normal compensation.

[Txpaytoplay]

Good Business

 

Jason and Joseph....

 

And the key word in both of your responses was you "politely" declined. Which is why your are both respected and popular. In business....the way you deliver a message is just as important as what you are delivering. Too bad that there are some people who just don't get it and probably never will.

[josephga]

I was just thinking there was 2 times i gave a free massage a guy contacted me said he had lost his job and was in a great deal of pain. He also suffered from cerebral palsy. I gave him a free massage. another time a friend asked me to give a co worker of his a massage due to a fall. he was a college student and couldn't afford too pay..

[raulgmanzo]

... I say honored because I feel often times they are so far above me in looks and what not.

 

I've enjoyed playing and working with a couple dozen fellow escorts, a couple in this thread including Seaboy, who with his usual modesty sells his sexy self short.

Especially with regards to his excellent "what not".

Hopefully someday I'll also experience his what-cha-ma-call-it.

[Lookin]

. . . Seaboy, who with his usual modesty sells his sexy self short.

 

Couldn't agree more! I'll admit to being shallow, and was attracted first by Greg's pictures. But it turns out he's solid gold and worth holding onto, any chance I get!

[MiamiLooker]

I knew a straight guy that escorted (for guys) that used to get asked for freebies by other guys that escorted. They weren't testing their compatibilty for possible future threeway calls with him. They were just looking for sex from a hot guy. For free. If they wanted to see him, they paid the same as any other customer.

[josephga]

I knew a straight guy that escorted (for guys) that used to get asked for freebies by other guys that escorted. They weren't testing their compatibilty for possible future threeway calls with him. They were just looking for sex from a hot guy. For free. If they wanted to see him, they paid the same as any other customer.

 

 

I knew a guy like that once he was a straight masseur, Had a long term girl friend but He would go beyond the massage and have sex with the clients that were willing to pay allot more. However he had zero interest in any type of sexual contact with men unless their was payment involved. he would get hot guys asking him for freebees too and he told them they would pay like everyone else

[rickp]

I've gotten several requests from other escorts to meet for unpaid sessions. I take it as a compliment, and if I have the time and the attraction is mutual, I go for it.

 

I've made several friends this way and set up quite a few 3-ways. My clients are always asking me if I have friends that I work with- so it's good networking for me.

[JoeyBryant]

Wow, definently seems like a mixed bag of opinions here...but I still hold on to the fact that another escort calling my ad asking for an uncompensated sessions (like Jason described it) doesnt seem proper.

 

As far as learning from another escort who happens to call my ad asking for a free shag? Please. Give me a break. Let me say this again, The guy called me up asking to MEET FOR A SCREW. Not to meet, have coffee and breakfast rolls. Would I have said yes if it was for coffee and breakfast rolls? Most likely yes.

 

In addition, I have all the networking outlets I need in this business to go back to when I need them. Again, thinking about other businesses; a mechanic is not going to do free service for another mechanic who calls him up out the blue. This shouldn't be an exception.

 

By the way, I didnt tell the guy off word for word like I quoted in the OP...but thats what I was thinking, chill out!

[+ purplekow]

In theory a mechanic would not need another mechanic to work on his car unless there was something unique about the car. Doctors to give courtesy to doctors. Lawyers may be discourteous to everyone but I think they do give professional courtesy as do dentists. Hairdressers do each others hair. I agree that calling up for a freebie is classless and you were right to refuse. However, many other professions honor professional courtesy.

[JoeyBryant]

Hairdressers do each others hair. However, many other professions honor professional courtesy.

 

Yeah, when they work in same barbershop/salon or happen to know each other. My barber in Dallas is not going to go to my barber in Miami and say, "hey I run a barbershop too, can you give me a free cut?"

 

Like you said, its classless in every way imaginable. I have a business phone, its not for any reason but that. If he just wanted to network, he would have mentioned meeting to just chill instead. Even with that, I'd still be taking time out (possibly missing a client) to see this guy. So, you call business phone; you're asking for a service.

 

And how tacky is that, to screw another escort in the attempt to get networking tips off them...Some networking tactic

[KMEM]

PK-

 

I understand your point, but I think that mechanics do seek advice and service from other mechanics because some specialize; ditto physicians, attorneys and probably every group you mentioned. A carpenter or handyman CAN put up sheetrock but the guy who does it all day,every day can do it SO much faster, few others fool with it. You wouldn't want a dermatologist to do open heart surgery on you, would you? I think there is some courtesy information or even tests or services provided but if there is any amount of work performed there likely will be a charge (with perhaps a discount). Of course, professional courtesy should be to the standard in the industry or profession and personal courtesy should never be neglected.

 

"Professional" courtesy among sex workers likely may be limited to returning emails, phone calls and being polite. After that, isn't it just personal opinion and personal sensibility?

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[AdamSmith]

I've heard several working guys talk about this to me. Opinion was about equally divided, as it seems to be in this thread.

 

One nice case I heard firsthand: A working guy (total top) hired another (total bottom), several times. Paid him each time. At the end of the third session, the top (who had called and engaged the bottom) started to pull out the money. But the bottom waved him off: "No need." And since then they've continued to hook up, occasionally, for free. Including, sometimes now, at the instigation of the bottom.

 

So all kinds of arrangements can work for all kinds of folk.

[+ David-SF]

Whats the point then ?

 

" I have all the networking outlets I need in this business to go back to when I need them."

 

And there it is there. You have been escorting for what a couple/ few months at least on this site,

 

Yet you have all the answers. about what is tacky and classless right and not right.

 

what is exactly the point of the post then.

 

To complain about having another escort call you up and seek some fun?

 

To proclaim your standards of work ethic?.

 

Get over yourself dude.

 

Providers that have been in this business for years still need resources, connections and friendships with other escorts many of whom hook up all the time, from time to time, paid and free, with or without clients.

 

This can be an isolated world for many. Try to relate just a little here.

Your post sounds on the scale of a whining gig.

 

I think your message may be easily misconstrued because your attitude and ego tend to leak out in your writing. I suspect thats not your intention but its what is coming through and has been coming through over and over during your participation here. Maybe try a different approach like try using

a question format

like what do you think when another escort calls for a hook up?"

you may find your self in a better position to learn something rather than have to defend your OP.

 

sent you a private message but you may not have read it yet so I will just say it here.

hope I am not offending you just trying to be helpful