Your favorite escort is in love with you...

[foxy]

so you decide to live together as a couple. There's only one catch (there always is). He doesn't want to give up escorting. The thing is, he likes it, and besides, he makes more money than you. So with your combined incomes you can afford to live in a nicer place and buy that Porsche Boxster you've had your eye on. Now you can have your honey for free, that is, when he isn't working. Could you live with that arrangement?

[+ deej]

It's an interesting question.

 

My favorite escort ISN'T in love with me but I'm in love with him a little bit. He's like a little brother. We talk on the phone every day. He asks for advice regularly, and I ask him as well.

 

We have an intensely close relationship but we've never had sex. At this point, I don't think sex would work. We'd just giggle.

 

If we ever got to a "relationship" point, I wouldn't have a problem with his escorting because I already know what it means to him.

 

I love him for what's in his head, not what's between his legs or what he does with it.

[+ Axiom2001]

When I engage the services of escorts-- I primarily prefer that they be versatile or versatile tops, be willing to do a lot of kissing, some cuddling, and if he sucks dicks well-- great, if he plows like a horse and has a huge--thick third leg, that's great, and if he has an ass to rim with delight-- super-great. They don't have to do all of these things during our involvement, but as written in line two-- they have to be versatile or versatile tops.

 

Because I've had limited experiences fucking a man-- I don't usually do this but usually enjoy if he's all of what the previous respondent said and I attached my "sense" to his.

 

this is a fine thread; i hope it gets a tremendous amount of hits

[Guest RushNY]

A very interesting question as its the one thing that most clients are told never to do i.e fall for an escort.

 

If it did happen i think the relationship would probably live or die on one issue-TRUST-would you trust your now escort BF when he's out at work or touring the country seeing his regular clientele and you're at home wondering what is going on,if you did get past that issue the relationship would probably be very sound and last but i bet the number of guys who escort and have a serious stable relationship with someone who isnt in the "bizness" is in the minority.

 

Mind you if he made more than me i think id probably end up with the Porsche and become his manager..:-)

[+ Axiom2001]

These comments should have been in another thread. I guess I was too anxious to respond that I clicked on the wrong buttons. Well, what the heck! (The comments are on my preceding hit!!!)

 

My favorite Brazilian escort and I just click, click, click; he kisses like a motor that defies ceasing. He's oh so luscious-- big cock, taut bod, stellar personality, sweet, sweet, sweet! I have yet to fuck him although he wanted to do this on our first encounter; I also have yet to rim his ass! Right now he's back home; I miss him and yearn for his return. I wouldn't say that he and I "love" each other; I'd rather put it that our chemistry has messed, and I do think it's genuine; I decided not to become emotional, for I know it would not work or last... He's a "hottie" though!

[Traveller]

A2001

 

This response was great. No connection whatsoever. A man after my own heart.

 

Later.

 

PS. DickHo, I've got a new one for you. Not reviewed yet. A dick up there with Cory or Tony #2. Sexy and a huge load. And he sent me the nicest email this morning about the fun last night (which had better not happen again - ladyman-ike that it is).

[Bilbo]

Jealousy, that green eyed monster, ruins every relationship it turns up in, not just ones involving escorts. That is one reason why I have always personally opted for committed but open relationships. (No, I don't plan to let the monogamous people co-opt the word "committed.") You always know that when your man is with you, he has chosen to be with you.

[Guest endoman31]

I use a very nice guy as an escort. I visit at his home. I know that his partner is there some, if not all, of the time. A special room is set aside, and I understand why. The economic reason for this status is not of my knowledge, but the two of them have been an item for years.

 

I appreciate that I am allowed to share this marvelous guy, He is not the housewife who goes out to make a secret buck. This is in the open. :9

[Will]

>Could you live with that arrangement?

 

Almost certainly. But I've worked hard to be able to say that. Insecurity and jealousy are very real issues in situations like this.

[Jeff]

I couldn't. I could fall in love with an escort/friend I suppose, and if it were mutual, I think it's totally fine if we both have to make sacrifices of sorts--as in any relationship--and as a result have a monogamous relationship. I could trust him if I felt strongly about him; I wouldn't doubt him unless there were a specfic reason to based on something that were to happen after we decided to start a committed, monagomous relationship.

 

But the relationship would fall apart were he still to escort. It's a choice we'd both have to make independently, and I'd have to respect his choice, of course, but I couldn't commit to a solid relationship if he were still to escort. Money isn't the point. I make enough, but even if I didn't, love is still so much more than what car we drive (call me a romantic). I'd gladly trade in my cars for a loving solid relationship for the long run if that's what it were to take.

[Guest DCeBOY]

all i have to say is...

 

HA!

i haven't had a laugh like that for quite some time.

[Guest dervorguilla]

What about the other way round? you're in love with your favourite client - he is in love with you but couldn't handle the fact that you escort in the context of a relationship. You can't afford to give up escorting without having to make big lifestyle sacrifices. Do you?

[Guest DCeBOY]

love doesn't exist

[+ Cash4Trash]

Considering the energizer fuck bunny tops I see on a regular basis

their continuing to escort would be a requirement of the relationship.

It would take a pit stop or two for them on the way home to make my

responsibilities bearable. For me, the most terrifying thing one of

my long term escort friends could say is "Honey, I'm taking a week

off so we can get to know each other better".

[mmk]

I do not think tha tI would have problem dating an escort at all, or even getting involved in a relationship with one. I do not know about living with one however (for that matter, I do not know if I could live with anyone-I have lived on my own for over ten years and giving up that independence would be very hard). If I did live with one, I know that I could not handle if he was bringing clients back to our place. I would draw the line there.

[+ honcho]

I've been on the receiving end of something *close* ... I was boyfriends with a masseur for a year and a half (and am now fuckbuds with him still, although I have another primary boyfriend), and although he never accepted money for sex per se, he was enough of a horndog that he wound up having sex with half his clients on his time, after the massage.

 

Him having sex with other guys didn't bother me at all, the problem was his *availability*; we could hardly ever plan dinner out or going to a concert together - cause he had to work, and I had a regular day gig, and so did most of his clients ... so they mostly took massages when I wasn't at work ..

 

This dynamic also occurs when you have a relationship with a professional musician, bartender, waiter, and lots of other jobs catering to recreation.

[Eric]

Poor DCeBOY, I hope some day you'll find the love that you deserve. I'm with Jeff, if it's real love, then all the cars in the world won't matter. Committment is all that counts; to each pair, their own, but for me it would have to be monagamous.