Hiring an Escort

[Guest indecisive joe]

Hey guys, I have a question about hiring an escort for a specific peroid to time. I am not new to hiring men, have done so over the past 12 years, but this one is different. I am very anxious and excited about hiring a very high profile escort who is known internationally. He is also a porn star, but really his main focus is on escorting. I have been following him for a few years but this is the first chance I have taken to hire him. My question is this: How long is appropiate for a first date with a very high profile escort. I would not be satisified with only an hour, and although his rates are much higher than I have ever paid, I am almost ready to go for an overnight. But then the question comes to mind, what do you do for an overnight. I am not one to go out to dine for dinner, or to the theather, but I know that he is not going to go for being in bed for 12-15 hrs either. I have not discussed this with him yet, we are just in the early stages of arranging this date, so any suggestions would be helpful, Thanks

[Guest indecisive joe]

Hey guys, I have a question about hiring an escort for a specific peroid to time. I am not new to hiring men, have done so over the past 12 years, but this one is different. I am very anxious and excited about hiring a very high profile escort who is known internationally. He is also a porn star, but really his main focus is on escorting. I have been following him for a few years but this is the first chance I have taken to hire him. My question is this: How long is appropiate for a first date with a very high profile escort. I would not be satisified with only an hour, and although his rates are much higher than I have ever paid, I am almost ready to go for an overnight. But then the question comes to mind, what do you do for an overnight. I am not one to go out to dine for dinner, or to the theather, but I know that he is not going to go for being in bed for 12-15 hrs either. I have not discussed this with him yet, we are just in the early stages of arranging this date, so any suggestions would be helpful, Thanks

[TightBodyTouch]

It's wonderful that you're taking the opportunity to hire some who you obviously feel excited to meet. I'm sure that it will be incredibly fun for you to meet this famous guy and I hope he lives up to your fantsay since you've been watching his career for years. I'm not entirely sure why you don't have a game plan already since you aren't a novice to hiring men for their company but here are my thoughts on the matter:

 

A one hour appointment with him obviously lacks appeal for you. An hour won't be nearly enough time to absorb all you'll want to from some who I am sure must be very good looking to you and probably notorious in your own mind for his behavoir and abilities. You may want to ask him, if you haven't already, if he has an evening rate that does not include staying the entire night. I keep an evening rate for those clients who enjoy taking me out for dinner, drinks, dancing, theatre etc. This allows us the chance to share the evening doing any number of things without watching the clock completely and we both kiss goodnight at the end of the fun to sleep in our own beds. I can feel comfortable that my date is respecting my time and he can feel sure that we're keeping good company for a few hours without the obligation of paying a full overnight rate.

 

Speaking from experience, being hired for an overnight on an first encounter is not necessarily the best method to go by. You may not be as compatible with your hired mate as you think and then what will both of you do to pass the time? Unless you have specific plans and allowances for a full overnight then it could prove trying to stretch the amenities, hot sex, and shower time through to the next morning. I have been asked out for full overnight appointments on first encounters and, thankfully, I have had had my own plan for how to spend the time and it's worked out quite well. I also communicated with my clients beforehand so that I'd know just exactly what we both had in mind and if it was possible. Since I love showering, staying up all night in bed, and sex at dawn's light it hasn't been hard to fill the time but you may want to check with your future date to see if he's up for that. I have also used overnight appointments to fulfill elaborate fantasies by request, if you have any sort of role-play or specific acts in mind that would be best suited for a lengthy engagement then maybe an overnight is appropos.

 

You apparently don't see yourself comfortable with a full evening that includes dinner or going out on the town but there are other ways to spend long appointments that might be better suited to you. I've been taken out during the daytime to ball games, movies, and quite often rock concerts. Those are all awesome ways to have fun in a casual setting and still get to know each other before or after the more intimate things happen between you. You might even ask your future date if he has any ideas that he'd like to explore. He may ask you to take him to a fair or just out for a burger and fries. When I am out in San Francisco with a client I love to just go for a drive up to Napa and many times I fall asleep in the car! Good thing they don't mind waking me up with a kiss!

 

If you're really anxious and don't know how long to see him for during the first date then just hire him for his minimum if he has one. Then he will be happy to take the appointment and you will have the chance to meet him and decide on a plan for your next date. I love it when people ask me what we can do together because it makes me feel like I'm part of the plan but I also love it when clients know what they want because then I know what goods to deliver.

 

I bet you'll have a great time whatever you decide, just try to let things happen naturally. I am guessing that since he is a recognized personality many people have held him up to his screen persona and expected the earth to move as his lips parted to kiss them. He's a normal guy and he can only fulfill you if you tell him how.

 

Have fun!

[TightBodyTouch]

It's wonderful that you're taking the opportunity to hire some who you obviously feel excited to meet. I'm sure that it will be incredibly fun for you to meet this famous guy and I hope he lives up to your fantsay since you've been watching his career for years. I'm not entirely sure why you don't have a game plan already since you aren't a novice to hiring men for their company but here are my thoughts on the matter:

 

A one hour appointment with him obviously lacks appeal for you. An hour won't be nearly enough time to absorb all you'll want to from some who I am sure must be very good looking to you and probably notorious in your own mind for his behavoir and abilities. You may want to ask him, if you haven't already, if he has an evening rate that does not include staying the entire night. I keep an evening rate for those clients who enjoy taking me out for dinner, drinks, dancing, theatre etc. This allows us the chance to share the evening doing any number of things without watching the clock completely and we both kiss goodnight at the end of the fun to sleep in our own beds. I can feel comfortable that my date is respecting my time and he can feel sure that we're keeping good company for a few hours without the obligation of paying a full overnight rate.

 

Speaking from experience, being hired for an overnight on an first encounter is not necessarily the best method to go by. You may not be as compatible with your hired mate as you think and then what will both of you do to pass the time? Unless you have specific plans and allowances for a full overnight then it could prove trying to stretch the amenities, hot sex, and shower time through to the next morning. I have been asked out for full overnight appointments on first encounters and, thankfully, I have had had my own plan for how to spend the time and it's worked out quite well. I also communicated with my clients beforehand so that I'd know just exactly what we both had in mind and if it was possible. Since I love showering, staying up all night in bed, and sex at dawn's light it hasn't been hard to fill the time but you may want to check with your future date to see if he's up for that. I have also used overnight appointments to fulfill elaborate fantasies by request, if you have any sort of role-play or specific acts in mind that would be best suited for a lengthy engagement then maybe an overnight is appropos.

 

You apparently don't see yourself comfortable with a full evening that includes dinner or going out on the town but there are other ways to spend long appointments that might be better suited to you. I've been taken out during the daytime to ball games, movies, and quite often rock concerts. Those are all awesome ways to have fun in a casual setting and still get to know each other before or after the more intimate things happen between you. You might even ask your future date if he has any ideas that he'd like to explore. He may ask you to take him to a fair or just out for a burger and fries. When I am out in San Francisco with a client I love to just go for a drive up to Napa and many times I fall asleep in the car! Good thing they don't mind waking me up with a kiss!

 

If you're really anxious and don't know how long to see him for during the first date then just hire him for his minimum if he has one. Then he will be happy to take the appointment and you will have the chance to meet him and decide on a plan for your next date. I love it when people ask me what we can do together because it makes me feel like I'm part of the plan but I also love it when clients know what they want because then I know what goods to deliver.

 

I bet you'll have a great time whatever you decide, just try to let things happen naturally. I am guessing that since he is a recognized personality many people have held him up to his screen persona and expected the earth to move as his lips parted to kiss them. He's a normal guy and he can only fulfill you if you tell him how.

 

Have fun!

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Answers You May Have

 

>My question is this: How long is

>appropiate for a first date with a very high profile escort.

>I would not be satisified with only an hour,

 

I think you have answered your question; if an hour would not suffice, you need to decide what you want to determine the duration of this meeting.

 

 

>But then the question comes to

>mind, what do you do for an overnight. I am not one to go

>out to dine for dinner, or to the theather, but I know that

>he is not going to go for being in bed for 12-15 hrs either.

 

 

There has to be some activities you like; you have to eat, you require entertainment or recreation. No one says dinner need be at an expensive four star restaurant but if, for example, one of your desires is to discuss this performer and his career, a good way to do so would be over a relaxing and comfortable meal.

 

>I have not discussed this with him yet, we are just in the

>early stages of arranging this date, so any suggestions would

>be helpful, Thanks

 

You need to first ask yourself what you want, expect and need from this experience, so that you can consider any suggestions and so your fellow clients can offer you helpful ones.

 

Finally, while some escorts do have pre-set requirements (two or three hour minimums), this is essentially up to you. This is not a case of the client is always right, but once you know what you want, the two of you can sit down (literally or figuratively) and plan how to best accomplish what you would like to realize from this meeting, time-wise, activity-wise and expense-wise.

 

Good luck.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Answers You May Have

 

>My question is this: How long is

>appropiate for a first date with a very high profile escort.

>I would not be satisified with only an hour,

 

I think you have answered your question; if an hour would not suffice, you need to decide what you want to determine the duration of this meeting.

 

 

>But then the question comes to

>mind, what do you do for an overnight. I am not one to go

>out to dine for dinner, or to the theather, but I know that

>he is not going to go for being in bed for 12-15 hrs either.

 

 

There has to be some activities you like; you have to eat, you require entertainment or recreation. No one says dinner need be at an expensive four star restaurant but if, for example, one of your desires is to discuss this performer and his career, a good way to do so would be over a relaxing and comfortable meal.

 

>I have not discussed this with him yet, we are just in the

>early stages of arranging this date, so any suggestions would

>be helpful, Thanks

 

You need to first ask yourself what you want, expect and need from this experience, so that you can consider any suggestions and so your fellow clients can offer you helpful ones.

 

Finally, while some escorts do have pre-set requirements (two or three hour minimums), this is essentially up to you. This is not a case of the client is always right, but once you know what you want, the two of you can sit down (literally or figuratively) and plan how to best accomplish what you would like to realize from this meeting, time-wise, activity-wise and expense-wise.

 

Good luck.

[CT Dick]

I have never hired for overnight. I don't enjoy morning sex and don't sleep well when sharing a bed.

 

I agree that one hour is pretty short, especially with someone you are obviously excited about.

 

Two hours has been a good choice. Much more than that is asking both the client and escort to keep it up too long. I have yet to feel that the time was not long enough.

 

Another option is to let him know that you might want to extend to a third hour if things are going well. After about 90 minutes you should know what you want.

 

Dick

[CT Dick]

I have never hired for overnight. I don't enjoy morning sex and don't sleep well when sharing a bed.

 

I agree that one hour is pretty short, especially with someone you are obviously excited about.

 

Two hours has been a good choice. Much more than that is asking both the client and escort to keep it up too long. I have yet to feel that the time was not long enough.

 

Another option is to let him know that you might want to extend to a third hour if things are going well. After about 90 minutes you should know what you want.

 

Dick

[Guest Merlin]

If you both work out, a trip to the gym can be fun. Work out together, watch his muscle etc, then relax in the spa or pool. You might consider meeting him at a hotel which has these facilities and a dining room.

[Guest Merlin]

If you both work out, a trip to the gym can be fun. Work out together, watch his muscle etc, then relax in the spa or pool. You might consider meeting him at a hotel which has these facilities and a dining room.

[jackhammer91406]

I can speak to the questions raised in this thread based on my experiences on my recent trip to NYC. There are however, a few facts which are not present in your post that might help define what activities would be interesting to pursue in an overnight situation, so I will try to reply in a generic way.

First, in my limited experience, most high profile escorts (especially internationally known) will have a web site which often gives some insight into activities of interest to them. This can be a helpful resource in mapping out an evening.

Second, you don't say whether this is a travel related hire (are you in his city, or is he in yours, or are you both in the same city) Whichever is the case, the most exciting aspect of my recent first time overnight as a "first date" with an escort was made much more interesting as I saw his city through his eyes. We had spent the few months leading up to my trip exchanging emails and yes, even phone calls as I got to know him better. When our "date" finally came the first night I was in NYC, he took me to places that he enjoyed, for dinner, then walking around Chelsea area, even a few bars. By the time the fantasy part of the evening came (read SEX) I was so comfortable in his company that any misgivings I had about sleeping with a man for the first time in 18 years, had been erased by the few hours we had already spent together.

The suggestion in an earlier post about working out is a good one. If he is in great shape, working out is one of his interests. Even if you don't work out, going to his gym, and acting as a spotter for him, could be great fun and add to the comfort level of getting to know him better and the overall purpose of an overnight, IMHO, is to spend time with a person, not just to have fantasy sex for 12 hours (who is able to do that anyway?)

I truly enjoyed the time I spent with Jim, and seeing the city through his eyes. So much so, that we did it a second night during my trip.

Just my suggestions from my meager experience. Hope the night turns out to be a great one for you.

[jackhammer91406]

I can speak to the questions raised in this thread based on my experiences on my recent trip to NYC. There are however, a few facts which are not present in your post that might help define what activities would be interesting to pursue in an overnight situation, so I will try to reply in a generic way.

First, in my limited experience, most high profile escorts (especially internationally known) will have a web site which often gives some insight into activities of interest to them. This can be a helpful resource in mapping out an evening.

Second, you don't say whether this is a travel related hire (are you in his city, or is he in yours, or are you both in the same city) Whichever is the case, the most exciting aspect of my recent first time overnight as a "first date" with an escort was made much more interesting as I saw his city through his eyes. We had spent the few months leading up to my trip exchanging emails and yes, even phone calls as I got to know him better. When our "date" finally came the first night I was in NYC, he took me to places that he enjoyed, for dinner, then walking around Chelsea area, even a few bars. By the time the fantasy part of the evening came (read SEX) I was so comfortable in his company that any misgivings I had about sleeping with a man for the first time in 18 years, had been erased by the few hours we had already spent together.

The suggestion in an earlier post about working out is a good one. If he is in great shape, working out is one of his interests. Even if you don't work out, going to his gym, and acting as a spotter for him, could be great fun and add to the comfort level of getting to know him better and the overall purpose of an overnight, IMHO, is to spend time with a person, not just to have fantasy sex for 12 hours (who is able to do that anyway?)

I truly enjoyed the time I spent with Jim, and seeing the city through his eyes. So much so, that we did it a second night during my trip.

Just my suggestions from my meager experience. Hope the night turns out to be a great one for you.

[Guest indecisive joe]

A response to your reply....

 

TJ, thank you so much for such a very well thought out response to my questions. I cannot imagine someone taking so much time out of their day to write such a well put together answer which is very helpful. I read it twice just to make sure I got the full effect. I am going to follow your suggestions to the limit, and, again thank you. I really appreciate it!!! (p.s.--if you are ever planning to be in Atlanta, please let me know, I would love to meet you!)

[Guest indecisive joe]

A response to your reply....

 

TJ, thank you so much for such a very well thought out response to my questions. I cannot imagine someone taking so much time out of their day to write such a well put together answer which is very helpful. I read it twice just to make sure I got the full effect. I am going to follow your suggestions to the limit, and, again thank you. I really appreciate it!!! (p.s.--if you are ever planning to be in Atlanta, please let me know, I would love to meet you!)

[Guest Hijnx]

I'd start out with a couple hours, stating the possibility for a third hour. If it goes well, suggest an overnight right then and there. If that isn't possible, arrange for the next night as an overnight.

Can't believe guys can't figure out what to do all night. Geeez. Suckrimfuckshootsmoochlickcum then start all over again. Get together and set a goal: One dozen used condoms on the floor in the morning means a bonus tip! Take a tub bath together, give a foot massage with your tongue, explore the folds of his ear, inventory his body's veins, hair patterns, freckles; smell his eyebrows, take a whiff of the backs of his knees, touch his nipples with your cheeks and throat, measure the depth of his navel, see how many different ways you can entwine your legs, attempt to put your ass puckers together to kiss. Play, play, play. This is your chance, he's there for you. Respect him, laugh, giggle, get serious, thank him, thank yourself, enjoy it all. The morning always comes too soon.

[Guest Hijnx]

I'd start out with a couple hours, stating the possibility for a third hour. If it goes well, suggest an overnight right then and there. If that isn't possible, arrange for the next night as an overnight.

Can't believe guys can't figure out what to do all night. Geeez. Suckrimfuckshootsmoochlickcum then start all over again. Get together and set a goal: One dozen used condoms on the floor in the morning means a bonus tip! Take a tub bath together, give a foot massage with your tongue, explore the folds of his ear, inventory his body's veins, hair patterns, freckles; smell his eyebrows, take a whiff of the backs of his knees, touch his nipples with your cheeks and throat, measure the depth of his navel, see how many different ways you can entwine your legs, attempt to put your ass puckers together to kiss. Play, play, play. This is your chance, he's there for you. Respect him, laugh, giggle, get serious, thank him, thank yourself, enjoy it all. The morning always comes too soon.

[Guest indecisive joe]

thanks again to those I have already said it to, and a big thanks to everyone else who posted their thoughts here. Now a another question: In another thread I was reading here regarding reviews, the subject of tipping has come up. If you are hiring a guy, professional, and spending upwards of $2,500 to be with him, does he get a tip? He is in business for himself, he owns the business, he is providing the business, so I wonder? Thanks

[Guest indecisive joe]

thanks again to those I have already said it to, and a big thanks to everyone else who posted their thoughts here. Now a another question: In another thread I was reading here regarding reviews, the subject of tipping has come up. If you are hiring a guy, professional, and spending upwards of $2,500 to be with him, does he get a tip? He is in business for himself, he owns the business, he is providing the business, so I wonder? Thanks

[+ Charlie]

For $2500, any tip would be superfluous, if not impossible to calculate ($50 would look cheap, $250 excessive [since you could hire most escorts for a full scene for that amount]). Whatever you decide to do with him, it should be something that you will definitely enjoy, even if the sex turns out to be a disappointment, and that he at least will not find boring. I would do something fun and slightly giddy, like going to an amusement park (Six Flags?) first, to relax and work off initial nervousness on some rides.

[+ Charlie]

For $2500, any tip would be superfluous, if not impossible to calculate ($50 would look cheap, $250 excessive [since you could hire most escorts for a full scene for that amount]). Whatever you decide to do with him, it should be something that you will definitely enjoy, even if the sex turns out to be a disappointment, and that he at least will not find boring. I would do something fun and slightly giddy, like going to an amusement park (Six Flags?) first, to relax and work off initial nervousness on some rides.

[Chuck50]

I personally cannot envision a one hour romp. That is just me. I want to get to know as best as possible the guy I have decided on. I unlike the author do like a good show a dinner or something else fun. Many of my times have been in Vegas where there is all ready a lot to do. I have found the extra time with the guy is well worth it in all regards. IF you dont want that then don't do it take the 2-3 hours of WAM BAM thank you . HUGS CHUCK

[Chuck50]

I personally cannot envision a one hour romp. That is just me. I want to get to know as best as possible the guy I have decided on. I unlike the author do like a good show a dinner or something else fun. Many of my times have been in Vegas where there is all ready a lot to do. I have found the extra time with the guy is well worth it in all regards. IF you dont want that then don't do it take the 2-3 hours of WAM BAM thank you . HUGS CHUCK

[VaHawk]

RE: Answers You May Have

 

You always have a great answer man! My own personal thoughts upon reading this post was what do you want and expect to experience with this escort? I do hope that just because this escort is internationally known and a porn star, that he hasn't built up some kind of unrealistic fantasy over his years of following the escort's career as that could be setting himself up for a big disappointment.

 

As you and others have endlessly stressed and I agree with 100% COMMUNICATE and let the escort in on what you hope to be expecting as that can give you an idea on activities that you would both enjoy together. Without continuing communication, not only will you not have any idea of what to do together, but you will have no idea if the two of you are compatible. Without that assurance of compatibliltiy , then he should not book an overnighter or longer session.

 

As jackhammer said in his response you can't just engage in sex the entire time (Jesus talk about boring!) I think JH gave an excellent response from a client perspective and did the right thing in taking the time and effort via communication to realize that he and Jim would be compatible and that having Jim show him the city was a great way to spend their time together before the "fireworks so to speak".

[VaHawk]

RE: Answers You May Have

 

You always have a great answer man! My own personal thoughts upon reading this post was what do you want and expect to experience with this escort? I do hope that just because this escort is internationally known and a porn star, that he hasn't built up some kind of unrealistic fantasy over his years of following the escort's career as that could be setting himself up for a big disappointment.

 

As you and others have endlessly stressed and I agree with 100% COMMUNICATE and let the escort in on what you hope to be expecting as that can give you an idea on activities that you would both enjoy together. Without continuing communication, not only will you not have any idea of what to do together, but you will have no idea if the two of you are compatible. Without that assurance of compatibliltiy , then he should not book an overnighter or longer session.

 

As jackhammer said in his response you can't just engage in sex the entire time (Jesus talk about boring!) I think JH gave an excellent response from a client perspective and did the right thing in taking the time and effort via communication to realize that he and Jim would be compatible and that having Jim show him the city was a great way to spend their time together before the "fireworks so to speak".

[VaHawk]

>I'd start out with a couple hours, stating the possibility

>for a third hour. If it goes well, suggest an overnight right

>then and there. If that isn't possible, arrange for the next

>night as an overnight.

 

IMO, this is an excellent suggestion for a first time rendezvous.

 

>One dozen used condoms on the floor in the morning means a bonus tip!

 

This is a fantasy right or tongue in cheek remark? No, then PLEASE let me know who you've been hiring overnight! If this ever happened to me, I guess my bonus would be to make the escort the beneficiary of my life insurance policy, as that amount of action in an overnighter would certainly kill me! I love it! :7