First time advice

[DonVan]

That would be great. Pleas do.

[Wings246]

On 1/1/2026 at 1:15 PM, DonVan said:

That would be great. Pleas do.

You may also consider posting your interests and what you're looking for here (or on "The Deli" section) as a new topic to seek suggestions.  The collaborative power on CoM is quite impressive.

[Hands4You]

I would definitely be up front about your fantasy. Make sure whoever you go with has excellent reviews. Not a bad idea to pay for a conversation or email/text:

 

I always appreciate when clients tell me exactly what they want and I can tell them if it’s a match or not. Saves everybody time. 

[TxDaddyBear]

I love a newbie and appreciate a discussion beforehand. As mentioned here, lots of guys are just fishing for whack off material only! So don't ask persistent questions about what will explicitly happen, their member size, or ask for extra photos. Those are all red flags for me. 

But you should feel confident and comfortable with the lucky gent you choose.