I’m looking for some advice as I prepare for my first experience with a man. I’ve spent some time on Rentmen and, while there are certainly some very attractive guys, I was hoping for a bit more communication beforehand. The overall vibe on RM feels very rushed — a lot of “I’m available right now.” That may be fine down the road, but for my first experience I’d really prefer to exchange a few emails and have a conversation first. I have questions and would feel more comfortable getting to know someone a bit before meeting. I’m a bottom, so there are things I’d like to discuss in advance, and I’m completely fine paying a premium for someone who’s patient, communicative, and understands that this is new for me. Any advice will be greatly appreciated. Thanks, DonVan

This is a standard fantasy. You should be able to find a bunch of providers willing to engage in your fantasy. I would encourage you to read through their reviews and see if anyone here has seen them. That's partly for security, but also to ensure they have a record of delivering for their clients. I can send you some guys if you're interested.