Stasoxxx69 Posted December 18, 2025 Posted December 18, 2025 (edited) Maxxnum asian straight men RentMasseur Had a session with Maxxnum the other night at my apartment. The massage was very good and very sensual without prompting as far as what he initiated towards me during the massage of the lower back and butt area. But he needed some prompting to take his underwear off. He claims to be straight but he was aroused and kind of had a bi/gay vibe but I suppose I shouldn't generalize. The massage, in my opinion was expensive, 75 minutes at $450, that felt very high to me based on average NYC licensed massage rates, I was like "dude, this is a quarter of my rent." I would stick with the 60 minute which based on my 75 minute massage, would suffice. The only real negative is that upon payment he asked for a tip. I went ahead and gave him $40 extra because I didn't want to create a confrontational situation after such a nice massage, but did explain to him that it's not customary to tip for in-home massage, whether it is at the client's apartment or the masseur's apartment. Anyway, am I right that tipping outside of a spa environment should be unnecessary, just set your rate for what you want and keep it simple. Also, when in home massage is taking place it's not like the masseur has to share a cut of the massage fee with a business. Edited December 18, 2025 by Stasoxxx69 + Vegas_Millennial 1
Nue2thegame Posted December 18, 2025 Posted December 18, 2025 13 minutes ago, Stasoxxx69 said: Maxxnum asian straight men RentMasseur Had a session with Maxxnum the other night at my apartment. The massage was very good and very sensual without prompting as far as what he initiated towards me during the massage of the lower back and butt area. But he needed some prompting to take his underwear off. He claims to be straight but he was aroused and kind of had a bi/gay vibe but I suppose I shouldn't generalize. The massage, in my opinion was expensive, 75 minutes at $450, that felt very high to me based on average NYC licensed massage rates, I was like "dude, this is a quarter of my rent." I would stick with the 60 minute which based on my 75 minute massage, would suffice. The only real negative is that upon payment he asked for a tip. I went ahead and gave him $40 extra because I didn't want to create a confrontational situation after such a nice massage, but did explain to him that it's not customary to tip for in-home massage, whether it is at the client's apartment or the masseur's apartment. Anyway, am I right that tipping outside of a spa environment should be unnecessary, just set your rate for what you want and keep it simple. Also, when in home massage is taking place it's not like the masseur has to share a cut of the massage fee with a business. Tipping should always be discretionary although it’s often expected in many service encounters. I don’t think there should be a difference in expectations for in-home vs. spa tipping. If anything, in home service might warrant a greater tip because of the extra effort involved. That said, if I felt that I had already overpaid for the service, I might be less inclined to tip or offer a more modest one.
Typical Posted December 18, 2025 Posted December 18, 2025 Unless he had to travel at least 2 hours to get to your home, $450 is an absurd price for a massage. Absolutely bonkers. And then he shook you down for a tip. That is one to avoid. Unonymous30xxx, thomas, Otterlybelievable and 4 others 6 1
Stasoxxx69 Posted December 18, 2025 Author Posted December 18, 2025 26 minutes ago, Nue2thegame said: Tipping should always be discretionary although it’s often expected in many service encounters. I don’t think there should be a difference in expectations for in-home vs. spa tipping. If anything, in home service might warrant a greater tip because of the extra effort involved. That said, if I felt that I had already overpaid for the service, I might be less inclined to tip or offer a more modest one. My parents owned a hair salon, so growing up I was told you don't tip the owner of a business, but you tip the service team because they are maybe renting the chair, etc. I apply that to massage. When I go to a spa, I understand that you are paying the spa for the 60 or 90 minutes, the masseur is getting paid an hourly rate, therefore you tip the masseur at the spa. But if someone is working for themselves they can just set their own rates accordingly. This is why it seemed a bit brazen for him to turn around and ask me for a tip on top of a nearly $500 massage. + Act25, Unonymous30xxx, Wanderoz and 4 others 2 5
MTKLIer Posted 5 hours ago Posted 5 hours ago On 12/18/2025 at 12:58 PM, Stasoxxx69 said: Maxxnum asian straight men RentMasseur Had a session with Maxxnum the other night at my apartment. The massage was very good and very sensual without prompting as far as what he initiated towards me during the massage of the lower back and butt area. But he needed some prompting to take his underwear off. He claims to be straight but he was aroused and kind of had a bi/gay vibe but I suppose I shouldn't generalize. The massage, in my opinion was expensive, 75 minutes at $450, that felt very high to me based on average NYC licensed massage rates, I was like "dude, this is a quarter of my rent." I would stick with the 60 minute which based on my 75 minute massage, would suffice. The only real negative is that upon payment he asked for a tip. I went ahead and gave him $40 extra because I didn't want to create a confrontational situation after such a nice massage, but did explain to him that it's not customary to tip for in-home massage, whether it is at the client's apartment or the masseur's apartment. Anyway, am I right that tipping outside of a spa environment should be unnecessary, just set your rate for what you want and keep it simple. Also, when in home massage is taking place it's not like the masseur has to share a cut of the massage fee with a business. I met him at my apartment a couple of weeks ago and couldn't agree more with everything said about prompting, cost and tipping. However, I also agree that the massage was good and very sensual. Finally, although I doubt the ad photos are him. he's fit and attractive and looks quite similar to whoever appears in the ad.
NYMassageAddict Posted 5 hours ago Posted 5 hours ago For $500, he better be doing some backflips and dancing in addition to massage. if people didn’t pay him, he would have to reduce his price. But market dictates - if he gets it, that’s what he’s worth. tsgarp 1
tsgarp Posted 3 hours ago Posted 3 hours ago On 12/18/2025 at 10:47 AM, Stasoxxx69 said: My parents owned a hair salon, so growing up I was told you don't tip the owner of a business, but you tip the service team because they are maybe renting the chair, etc. I apply that to massage. When I go to a spa, I understand that you are paying the spa for the 60 or 90 minutes, the masseur is getting paid an hourly rate, therefore you tip the masseur at the spa. But if someone is working for themselves they can just set their own rates accordingly. This is why it seemed a bit brazen for him to turn around and ask me for a tip on top of a nearly $500 massage. That's escort pricing. I hope you had a great time!
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