NYC Newbie: MatuM

[Charlington]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

THIS 👆

I generally hire people for erotic massage and specify very little. Just let them do their thing, as a way of getting to know them.

IF, the vibe is good and the provider is attractive, attentive and kind, THEN I will book for a "more intimate" session.

I always find that THIS strategy gets you a FAR superior fuck, than meeting up with a total stranger and jumping in with both feet. Although I do realize for many of the gay men here, that anonymity is part of the turn-on.  For me, I prefer sex on the "second date". 

Not me. I must be a horndog then. I hire strictly for the erotic encounter. No dating, no long conversations. But to be fair, I think I might have a complicated problem with intimacy. Never been much into the dating scene or long term relationships. Just hookups and casual sexual encounters. I like the variety of having sex with different types of guys. Not necessarily the anonymity. I would like to settle down eventually with a long term partner though. You know, with someone I can introduce to the parents. 😉 

[d.anders]

On 1/9/2026 at 11:34 AM, Guest said:

this sounds more poetic

On 4/6/2026 at 11:24 AM, dutchal said:

Now here, too:  https://rentmasseur.com/MattuM

"Intuitive and quietly magnetic, like a summer in NYC."

For a summer in NYC, stinky is the only poetry I can come up with.

[pubic_assistance]

7 hours ago, Charlington said:

I think I might have a complicated problem with intimacy.

You and 75% of all the other gay men who spend their whole life going from one anonymous hook up to the other. 

Its normal for gay men to avoid relationships. This is one of the main reasons that the escort business is such an important cultural institution and why we are here