Opposite experience - Only you had a good time

[viewing ownly]

We read on here about providers being gushed about, and then deep in the many pages of praise comes a client who was let down and didn't have the 5-star experience that everybody else was having, which stands out. 

However, has anyone heaped praise on a provider, only to see that not a sole had a positive experience other than you? It's bizarre when someone asks if anyone has seen a provider, and one person indicates that they did and he was worth a repeat visit, but the thread ends there. 

It is VERY key and highly helpful to make note of both critical comments and glowing raves, paying attention by putting your cursor over the person's username to see how long of a time they've been on here. VERY common for people to jump on here to rave about someone (likely that person being discussed using an alias), or to be cruel and mean-spirited just to see how many people react - sometimes, too many because they likely never saw the guy to begin with. 

I think back to one session in particular that wasn't as good as I was hoping it would be, but blame myself for that because of my behavior. I could see the 100% raves making sense if I approached the session differently than I did - and I really do mean 100%, giving me a complex that I might've been the first ever turkey this guy massaged!

[DMonDude]

I can't say "not a soul" had a positive experience with him, but he has split/divided opinion on him here. I personally have a great time with him 10 times out of 10, but I've seen him on an off night once where i knew he had some stuff on his mind or had a bad day or something. That night wasn't his best work and if you don't know him/have familiarity with him i could see how it would come off badly to a new client for sure. He also has a very particular way of texting that i think also reads badly and i've noticed a lot of guys here take that very seriously/personally. They want highly cordial flowery flirty texts and anything short of that to some guys here is like the equivalent being told to fuck off lol. He's a favorite of mine personally, but if you searched his name here you'd find multiple multiple threads of people criticizing him lol.

I have a second provider i hire a lot. This one is different, he's objectively a horrible provider. I could never in good conscious recommend him to anyone. Just that typical early 20something Gen Z who overcharges a bit for his services and just is trying to make his quick buck while doing as little of the "work" as possible. He's flaky as fuck, he's straight(ish) and has a bunch of "i don't do that"'s, he unsolicited hits me up for money when he needs help, so on and so forth. You know the type. Buuuuut for a series of complicated reasons. I kinda like it.......... 😅🫣

[viewing ownly]

16 minutes ago, DMonDude said:

I can't say "not a soul" had a positive experience with him, but he has split/divided opinion on him here. I personally have a great time with him 10 times out of 10, but I've seen him on an off night once where i knew he had some stuff on his mind or had a bad day or something. That night wasn't his best work and if you don't know him/have familiarity with him i could see how it would come off badly to a new client for sure. He also has a very particular way of texting that i think also reads badly and i've noticed a lot of guys here take that very seriously/personally. They want highly cordial flowery flirty texts and anything short of that to some guys here is like the equivalent being told to fuck off lol. He's a favorite of mine personally, but if you searched his name here you'd find multiple multiple threads of people criticizing him lol.

I have a second provider i hire a lot. This one is different, he's objectively a horrible provider. I could never in good conscious recommend him to anyone. Just that typical early 20something Gen Z who overcharges a bit for his services and just is trying to make his quick buck while doing as little of the "work" as possible. He's flaky as fuck, he's straight(ish) and has a bunch of "i don't do that"'s, he unsolicited hits me up for money when he needs help, so on and so forth. You know the type. Buuuuut for a series of complicated reasons. I kinda like it.......... 😅🫣

I totally see what you mean in your first paragraph. I had a dreadful experience only one time from a guy I loved to see all the time. He really dislikes body hair, and on that day, my back and butt was a forest. He kept the sheet on me while massaging me the entire time, and didn't socialize like he usually would. I had seen him so many times, I didn't think my body hair that day was an issue - clearly it was. 

In your second paragraph, you simply like fin-doms. That simple. Power to those who are able do it, but never my thing to support that. 

[DMonDude]

15 minutes ago, viewing ownly said:

I totally see what you mean in your first paragraph. I had a dreadful experience only one time from a guy I loved to see all the time. He really dislikes body hair, and on that day, my back and butt was a forest. He kept the sheet on me while massaging me the entire time, and didn't socialize like he usually would. I had seen him so many times, I didn't think my body hair that day was an issue - clearly it was. 

In your second paragraph, you simply like fin-doms. That simple. Power to those who are able do it, but never my thing to support that. 

He kept the sheet on you? Holy shit... I get you though. You've seen the other 99% of the time he's good, but everyone's got their off days lol.

And nah it's not a fin-dom thing at all. I actually hate fin-dom and like being in control of what i spend, i tell him no plenty of times if i don't have enough or just don't want to give. Like i said, it's complicated. It's more so about (and to be fair i didn't get into all the other details/context) feeling needed because he's told me about how meeting new clients and having his phone blow up with DMs stresses him out and of course him being mostly straight he's not really super keen on doing stuff with so many different guys anyway. But he's got 3 of us he feels comfortable doing stuff with and he doesn't take new clients anymore unless he finds himself in a situation where he needs extra cash and all 3 of us are simultaneously tapped out at the time. So we're his regulars and we like that he feels safe/comfortable with us. He also just kinda scratches that straight guy fantasy itch from back when i was young. Every gay friend i knew had some closet case guy they were hooking up with secretly and i always heard the stories but never did that myself. So it's more about just living out the old fantasy for a little while.

[+ Jamie21]

5 hours ago, DMonDude said:

He also just kinda scratches that straight guy fantasy itch from back when i was young.

Yes the straight guy thing is definitely one I recognise. I love seeing my ‘straight’ clients. Often they’re extremely naive about sex, and especially about their own attributes and how to explore them. It’s like being able to show someone a whole new world that they never knew existed and be on that journey with them. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Are you talking about specific providers? Or just general experiences? 

[viewing ownly]

I can think of two specific examples which I can share. One guy I saw many, many times that others on this forum saw once and didn't see what I saw in him WAS alexxsmith from rent masseur. His ad is visible even though he's unavailable, but I'm confident that he's happily retired. Seeing him visit #19 likely wasn't as fun as visit #1, when he had a shaved chest and a shorter cock. He added about 2 inches with pumping and stretching devices over the time frame I saw him - bigger cock, bigger business. I got it. Rimming him was something he knew I loved to do, and he was a verbal alpha - so out of my realm - when I was in the process of feasting.

The other would be my opposite experience, with still active Rick Kelson. It's obviously fun to be with someone who fucks men all the damn time for a living as their occupation. I was surprised that he was such a budget-minded man, staying in an absolute ghetto dump of a hotel. I genuinely feared for my safety when I was waiting for him to retrieve me outside the locked hotel building he was in. His massage skills were quite expert, but I was under an extremely incorrect impression he was going to fuck me silly, too. That was my fault for having false hope, as he, just like former porn star Marc Dylan, may be advertising on rent men (note: they shouldn't), but they indicate clear as day that the appointment is only a massage. VERY FEW men may get more, but that's at their discretion. The better my body and ass look, the higher likelihood that I can join the less than 1% club of super lucky clients.