Has anyone seen New York Tantric?

[Forplzrnow]

I’ve seen his ad for some time on both Rentmen and Rentmasseur.  There’s an appointment site with some pics.  There are several nice reviews on Rentmassue.  I’m just curious before I dive in.  He goes by Steven.  

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Thanks, Forplzrnow 

[+ EVdude]

I know he’s been discussed.  His “All Guys & Asians Welcome” statement is rather memorable! Maybe a name change?

[+ bencleve29]

Avoid at all costs.  

[NipLuvr212]

On 3/24/2025 at 2:51 PM, bencleve29 said:

Avoid at all costs.  

mind giving me/us an idea why? was on the verge of hiring - but holding off (for sure!)

[Bokomaru]

He is on Rent Men also as TantricMassages. His name there was something about “blowme” previously. There was definitely discussion of him here under that name, mainly centering on his personality. As I recall he can be difficult to develop a rapport with, and it was speculated that perhaps he was on the spectrum. 

[+ EVdude]

On further research.. a dozen or so name changes between RMass, RMen and MF. Had gone by Will, Steven and Jay. And numerous odd comments to the effect… nice time but would not repeat.

Lots to read:

https://www.companyofmen.org/search/?&q=Newyorktantric&type=forums_topic&quick=1&nodes=86&search_and_or=or&sortby=relevancy

His website here:

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[pubic_assistance]

3 hours ago, Bokomaru said:

He is on Rent Men also as TantricMassages. His name there was something about “blowme” previously. There was definitely discussion of him here under that name, mainly centering on his personality. As I recall he can be difficult to develop a rapport with, and it was speculated that perhaps he was on the spectrum. 

Yes. There are several discussion on his various profile names. Also lots of disagreement about the quality of the service. So I would suggest YMMV is a good way of classifying him.

Multiple people have suggested he suffers from Aspergers Syndrome. I reached out once and my experience of the ensuing conversation felt more like bipolarism. Tread carefully.

[+ glutes]

My interactions with him were only via text.

Hard to get tone in text, but definitely picked up that he was not worth making an appointment with.

[Ali Gator]

This struck me as odd on his website:

To decrease the amount of cash entering this business, there is a $5 fee for cash.

Now I've heard of businesses charging extra for accepting Credit Cards and other forms of electronic payments - but charging extra to pay for services with cash ? Seriously ? 

[pubic_assistance]

On 3/30/2025 at 7:42 PM, Ali Gator said:

charging extra to pay for services with cash ? Seriously ? 

Exactly.

Everything about this guy says "weirdo".

[Ali Gator]

For the record, I always respect every provider for what they do, and believe each guy should be treated as a business owner who is running a business - despite their age, or years of experience (or lack of experience). They're offering service, they have put a value on that service, they attract customers, build up a clientele, and are compensated for that service. It is no different than when I was 23, and took a gamble by opening a retail store in 1987. 

Difference between me as a business man and these guys as businessmen : I didn't make it difficult nor 'challenging' for my customers to do business with me. I wanted to attract as many as I could, not alienate as many as possible by setting up ridiculous rules and 'fees'. I would never think of charging them a fee for using cash (or writing checks, or using a credit card).                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I had a VM set up on my 'landline' phone back then, and would let the calls go to VM during peak busy times. I would give the attention to the customer in front of me (in person), but I would definitely get back to the callers who left messages since they were expressing an interest to do business with me - I wouldn't leave them 'dangling', like these guys tend to do with callers.                                                                                                                                                                                      Now I realize times have changed since then, but good business practices are still good business practices. Some of these guys can't be taken too seriously as 'business men' if they don't treat their services as 'business'. 

[PittGuy]

14 hours ago, Ali Gator said:

For the record, I always respect every provider for what they do, and believe each guy should be treated as a business owner who is running a business - despite their age, or years of experience (or lack of experience). They're offering service, they have put a value on that service, they attract customers, build up a clientele, and are compensated for that service. It is no different than when I was 23, and took a gamble by opening a retail store in 1987. 

Difference between me as a business man and these guys as businessmen : I didn't make it difficult nor 'challenging' for my customers to do business with me. I wanted to attract as many as I could, not alienate as many as possible by setting up ridiculous rules and 'fees'. I would never think of charging them a fee for using cash (or writing checks, or using a credit card).                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I had a VM set up on my 'landline' phone back then, and would let the calls go to VM during peak busy times. I would give the attention to the customer in front of me (in person), but I would definitely get back to the callers who left messages since they were expressing an interest to do business with me - I wouldn't leave them 'dangling', like these guys tend to do with callers.                                                                                                                                                                                      Now I realize times have changed since then, but good business practices are still good business practices. Some of these guys can't be taken too seriously as 'business men' if they don't treat their services as 'business'. 

Very eloquently said sir, I could not agree more!

[streetfan14]

I saw him in New York a few years ago, the massage was ok. I thought he was cute and wanted a tantric massage. Couple things I remember was 1. His ad was showing he was in Manhattan but he was actually in DC, he made it NYC by Fri for our session but switched hotels after I walked to the 1st one and was waiting outside for like 10 mins. 2. All I remember from the massage was his dick laying on the back of my head for the first 15 mins or so. My head was on the edge of the bed. And lastly I'm now blocked from seeing his ad

[allyouknow]

14 hours ago, streetfan14 said:

I saw him in New York a few years ago, the massage was ok. I thought he was cute and wanted a tantric massage. Couple things I remember was 1. His ad was showing he was in Manhattan but he was actually in DC, he made it NYC by Fri for our session but switched hotels after I walked to the 1st one and was waiting outside for like 10 mins. 2. All I remember from the massage was his dick laying on the back of my head for the first 15 mins or so. My head was on the edge of the bed. And lastly I'm now blocked from seeing his ad

He does have a nice looking dick ( from pictures) .

[Heart It Deep]

Booked today.  Would not repeat.  

The massage was not good, and his rates are higher than a lot of similar massage therapists. 

Booking was a tad funny.  Booked through his booking link and then he wasn't available at that time and rescheduled for next day.  (I assumed because it was last minute.)

No table.  Uses bed, in a hotel room that barely fit the bed. I should have taken that as a red flag as left.  He asks you to pay before, so in all honestly, I should have just left.  

For me the kicker was that he did not look like his photos.  Significantly heavier, and not in a positive way.  If the massage was AMAZING I would have not cared because I appreciate a great massage, and Tantra when done correctly is great.  

Guess I took one for the team.  Forgot to crosscheck here before posting.  

 

Edit: He has updated photos on RentMass....  They do reflect current body but not very revealing.  His LinkTree has a link to "Nudes" that are very outdated, so I was expecting what I saw in those photos.  

 

 

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Edited April 16 by Heart It Deep