Requesting to massage the masseur/therapist

[56harrisond]

 

[+ 7829V]

2 minutes ago, Muscleking said:

I’ve also done it a handful of times, I quite like the idea of the Masseur and I massaging each other. 

How do you usually approach the masseur? Do you just ask him out of the blue?

And when you do, do you include that as part of the “session,” or is it more like “extra free time” afterward?

[+ Just Sayin]

I have asked masseurs if they every receive massages themselves; that opens the conversations up; I may say that I am an amateur but do have a table, and it ends up us trading places; it's great fun!

[+ Jamie21]

It’s happened with me a couple of times where my client has asked if they can swap roles for a little bit of the session. They were ok at it but it makes me anxious and I can’t relax, maybe because I think they’ll do something wrong and injure me. I much prefer to be giving the massage. 

[Muscleking]

On 9/25/2025 at 5:56 PM, 7829V said:

How do you usually approach the masseur? Do you just ask him out of the blue?

And when you do, do you include that as part of the “session,” or is it more like “extra free time” afterward?

I have only done a handful of times, and usually I’ll ask before hand if they would be into me massaging them as a part of my appointment..

Haha nothing is free mate with providers 

[luvhusky]

I’ve wanted to learn massage for a while. Unfortunately I can’t find someone to teach me. I’m in nyc and it’s odd how hard it is to find things like that here. It’s either get a degree at Swedish institute or nothing it seems. 
i don’t want to make money i just want to massage hot daddies for fun 

[+ FrankR]

3 hours ago, luvhusky said:

I’ve wanted to learn massage for a while. Unfortunately I can’t find someone to teach me. I’m in nyc and it’s odd how hard it is to find things like that here. It’s either get a degree at Swedish institute or nothing it seems. 
i don’t want to make money i just want to massage hot daddies for fun 

I took classes at MMXNYC - they are in NYC and have a good space, a selection of classes and right in NYC. 

[marylander1940]

On 3/10/2025 at 9:09 AM, Aaron 90 said:

Anyone else like to reverse roles? After establishing a good visiting relationship,  I like to ask sometimes if they would want to receive a massage and to be pleased in anyway. It usually works out well 🔥

 

[jmichaeliii]

I have done it, but I reserve it for my providers that I have known.  It's really more for the intimacy of it versus the massage.

[+ Jamie21]

4 hours ago, luvhusky said:

I’ve wanted to learn massage for a while. Unfortunately I can’t find someone to teach me. I’m in nyc and it’s odd how hard it is to find things like that here. It’s either get a degree at Swedish institute or nothing it seems. 
i don’t want to make money i just want to massage hot daddies for fun 

I do sensual massage training! I’ve worked as a sensual masseur for 7 years and seen thousands of clients. I train people in a sensual massage routine and advise on setting up professionally if they want to do that. See my website for details. The only drawback…I’m based in London. 

[luvhusky]

On 10/20/2025 at 1:45 PM, FrankR said:

I took classes at MMXNYC - they are in NYC and have a good space, a selection of classes and right in NYC. 

Yeah I sent a request and never heard back from them. I’m not pretty enough I guess 👍

[jeezifonly]

I'm very tactile, and know enough to where I can do some massage on a provider that I'm mad to get my hands on, but never when I've booked massage, only escort service.