Question for providers — client body language?

[newportbeachdude77]

I’m curious — this is for the providers. When you are providing a therapeutic massage and haven’t discussed extras ahead of time….Aside from an erection, what body language “signs” tell you the client wants more?

[+ Jamie21]

There’s a lot: Legs apart, hand brushing my shorts, pelvis tipped forward (arch in back), lifting head when I’m standing that end, adjusting groin area, groaning or sighing when touched in certain areas, changes in breathing, toes curling, fingers moving, skin tone changing, tightening of bulbospongiosus muscle (perineum area)….many signs people give, some of them intentional some they aren’t even aware it’s happening. 

Then there’s pulling my shorts down and sucking me which is a fairly subtle one that gets me thinking that maybe this client is looking for a little more…🤪

But I only do sensual massage so I know that clients are looking for that kind of service. But still, the signals you get are the same because what you’re doing is pressing all the buttons that turn people on. I know what the buttons are, although they vary between individuals, so one simply tries them all until you find the buttons that work for this person. Then you get the body language feedback. 

[CuriousByNature]

4 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Then there’s pulling my shorts down and sucking me which is a fairly subtle one that gets me thinking that maybe this client is looking for a little more…🤪

[newportbeachdude77]

7 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

There’s a lot: Legs apart, hand brushing my shorts, pelvis tipped forward (arch in back), lifting head when I’m standing that end, adjusting groin area, groaning or sighing when touched in certain areas, changes in breathing, toes curling, fingers moving, skin tone changing, tightening of bulbospongiosus muscle (perineum area)….many signs people give, some of them intentional some they aren’t even aware it’s happening. 

Then there’s pulling my shorts down and sucking me which is a fairly subtle one that gets me thinking that maybe this client is looking for a little more…🤪

But I only do sensual massage so I know that clients are looking for that kind of service. But still, the signals you get are the same because what you’re doing is pressing all the buttons that turn people on. I know what the buttons are, although they vary between individuals, so one simply tries them all until you find the buttons that work for this person. Then you get the body language feedback. 

So what you’re saying is we’re all completely obvious? Ha ha. Thanks for the great answer. Will have to book you one day!

[+ Jamie21]

1 hour ago, newportbeachdude77 said:

So what you’re saying is we’re all completely obvious? Ha ha. Thanks for the great answer. Will have to book you one day!

Yep. Blatant! 
I’ve had ‘straight’ guys say ‘ohh just a little external touch on my bum’. 10 minutes later they’re ass up and I’m applying lube. 🤪

[Trick]

14 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

There’s a lot: Legs apart, hand brushing my shorts, pelvis tipped forward (arch in back), lifting head when I’m standing that end, adjusting groin area, groaning or sighing when touched in certain areas, changes in breathing, toes curling, fingers moving, skin tone changing, tightening of bulbospongiosus muscle (perineum area)….many signs people give, some of them intentional some they aren’t even aware it’s happening. 

Then there’s pulling my shorts down and sucking me which is a fairly subtle one that gets me thinking that maybe this client is looking for a little more…🤪

But I only do sensual massage so I know that clients are looking for that kind of service. But still, the signals you get are the same because what you’re doing is pressing all the buttons that turn people on. I know what the buttons are, although they vary between individuals, so one simply tries them all until you find the buttons that work for this person. Then you get the body language feedback. 

I play this game during a massage.  I avoid doing most of what you posted, nothing tipping, nothing arching, no moaning.  I win the game if I can get halfway through the session without giving away my intentions. 😂

[+ Jamie21]

8 hours ago, Trick said:

I play this game during a massage.  I avoid doing most of what you posted, nothing tipping, nothing arching, no moaning.  I win the game if I can get halfway through the session without giving away my intentions. 😂

Ah, you’re a challenge. I like the game…. My internal monologue:

Ugh, I’ve tried almost everything and he hasn’t responded…is he asleep?, is he dead?😱..no, he’s still breathing that’s good. Maybe a nibble of his ear? Nope, nothing, rim his hole perhaps, is that too unsubtle at this point? Nothing! Everyone groans at being rimmed. Very unusual, I bet he’s a total top. Oh well let’s go left field and suck a finger…..Ah!! There it is, found his button. He’s turning over…ohhh hello that’s large. I hope he is a top 😂

[BrickBuilder]

5 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Ah, you’re a challenge. I like the game…. My internal monologue:

Ugh, I’ve tried almost everything and he hasn’t responded…is he asleep?, is he dead?😱..no, he’s still breathing that’s good. Maybe a nibble of his ear? Nope, nothing, rim his hole perhaps, is that too unsubtle at this point? Nothing! Everyone groans at being rimmed. Very unusual, I bet he’s a total top. Oh well let’s go left field and suck a finger…..Ah!! There it is, found his button. He’s turning over…ohhh hello that’s large. I hope he is a top 😂

The Client's internal monologue:

"Okay, so this guy is really putting his all into getting me to react....keep it together man....you know you can......once you flip over you know its all gonna be revealed so just go with the flow.   His ad is 'toppish' but there were enough hints that he will go the other way...just hold it together."

**I flip over with a nice hard on from all his work and my eyes still demurely closed**

"oh yeah...his lips feel pretty good....ow wait....he is climbing onto the table.....and there he goes slowing sitting down on me....well he is a top...sorta".

That is a full body massage at its best.

[Trick]

5 hours ago, AtlTopGuy said:

The Client's internal monologue:

"Okay, so this guy is really putting his all into getting me to react....keep it together man....you know you can......once you flip over you know its all gonna be revealed so just go with the flow.   His ad is 'toppish' but there were enough hints that he will go the other way...just hold it together."

**I flip over with a nice hard on from all his work and my eyes still demurely closed**

"oh yeah...his lips feel pretty good....ow wait....he is climbing onto the table.....and there he goes slowing sitting down on me....well he is a top...sorta".

That is a full body massage at its best.

My internal monologue, more like external dialogue:

(As soon as @Jamie21 nibbles my ear)  Fuck me, Papi, fuck me!