Dirty talk and verbal inspiration needed

[Guest]

Help! 
 

I’m entering my “daddy” phase and all the young Latin and white guys on Grindr always ask if I’m verbal. I need ideas.  When I’m hooking up or getting oral, I bounce between “fuck yeah”, “you’re so hot” and “fuck that feels good”. But I know they want more cause even I think I’m boring.  Anyone really good at this, or know a soundtrack, or a particularly inspiring porn you could share? Thanks! 

[+ ApexNomad]

2 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

Help! 
 

I’m entering my “daddy” phase and all the young Latin and white guys on Grindr always ask if I’m verbal. I need ideas.  When I’m hooking up or getting oral, I bounce between “fuck yeah”, “you’re so hot” and “fuck that feels good”. But I know they want more cause even I think I’m boring.  Anyone really good at this, or know a soundtrack, or a particularly inspiring porn you could share? Thanks! 

First of all, confidence is everything. And that’s hard if you’ve just met the person. Being in the moment and authentic makes your words hit harder. Let it feel natural—if it sounds forced or out of character, then in my opinion, don’t do it; it could kill the mood.

Start by focusing on the carnal—what you’re feeling, seeing, and wanting in the moment. Talk about HIM and what he’s doing: “I love the way your tongue feels on my cock.” “You look so fucking good down there.” “I’ve been wanting this all day.” 

Be direct about what you want to see and feel: “Look at me when you suck my dick.” And the moment he takes his eyes off you…“Keep looking at me—I want to see those beautiful eyes.”

“I want your lips all over me—don’t stop.”

Narrate the moment to amplify the heat: “You’re driving me insane.” “Fuck, I love how hungry you are for me.” “That mouth is so perfect. YOU are so perfect.”

Pay attention to how he reacts. If he’s into it, double down. If he seems shy, keep it encouraging but firm—confidence is contagious. 

Your tone of voice matters just as much as the words—use a low, firm whisper to command his attention, or let your voice grow rougher and more urgent to match the intensity of the moment.

Above all, match your tone to the energy: primal, dominant, or playful. Make him feel desired and seen. When you’re fully present, every word lands harder.

I hope this helps. Good luck, Daddy!

[Guest]

You are remarkable!!!!!    I love all of this and think I can pull off quite a bit. I’ll keep you posted thank you.  

Edited January 22 by Coolwave35

[CuriousByNature]

7 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

 Anyone really good at this, or know a soundtrack, or a particularly inspiring porn you could share? Thanks! 

I was going to suggest 'Blow High, Blow Low' from Carousel.

[Guest]

Just now, CuriousByNature said:

I was going to suggest 'Blow High, Blow Low' from Carousel.

Oh lord. @BenjaminNicholas can you help with this reference?  I know you always get them all and that makes forum members happy. Thank you! 

[CuriousByNature]

2 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

Oh lord. @BenjaminNicholas can you help with this reference?  I know you always get them all and that makes forum members happy. Thank you! 

Rodgers and Hammerstein, my friend - neither was a provider that I'm aware of... LOL

Edited January 22 by CuriousByNature

[samhexum]

9 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

Dirty talk

 

enjoy your golden years!

[+ Jamie21]

I find the boys like you to verbally acknowledge your daddy status. “Does boy want daddy’s cock in his holes?” “Suck daddy’s big cock like a good boy” that kind of thing. At first I found it jarring but it certainly gets them going and that helps.