I’m getting addicted b/c I keep getting free upgrades

[Tito]

I’ve only started hiring in the beginning of this year because I used to harbor preconceived judgements about providers on rent men dot com. But then I came across this super hot 11/10 guy on masseurfinder and just couldn’t resist contacting him. I’m already paying his basic rates at parlors in midtown so I thought why not give him a try. Boy did he give me an experience. Ever since then, I just kept hiring guys off of those sites, fueled by the notion that something more will happen and they do!! Everytime! I’d say my body is almost as built as the guys I hire because I’m a college gym rat and somewhat in the closet. Idk I feel like this is starting to become a problem because I’m literally so young and I do this shit as if I’m a millionaire with a hillside mansion. 

Edited November 6, 2024 by Tito

[+ FrankR]

15 minutes ago, Tito said:

I’ve only started hiring in the beginning of this year because I used to harbor preconceived judgements about providers on rent men dot com. But then I came across this super hot 11/10 guy on masseurfinder and just couldn’t resist contacting him. I’m already paying his basic rates at parlors in midtown so I thought why not give him a try. Boy did he give me an experience. Ever since then, I just kept hiring guys off of those sites, fueled by the notion that something more will happen and they do!! Everytime! I’d say my body is almost as built as the guys I hire because I’m a college gym rat and somewhat in the closet. Idk I feel like this is starting to become a problem because I’m literally so young and I do this shit as if I’m a millionaire with a hillside mansion. 

You are allowed to be young and foolish.  Since you mentioned midtown, I assume you are in NYC. My advice: get a massage table, join MMXNYC and get free massage exchanges going. Finish your studies and wait to spend money until you have money. 😉

[Tito]

Like tell me if this is normal or do I just think too highly of myself. You ask for therapeutic only rates but when you get there, they get butt naked after you come back from using the restroom.  They’re also rock hard throughout the entire session and inviting you to touch it. And before you know it they’ll on top of you grinding their piece on your ass. It’s sooooooooo hot. 

[Tito]

5 minutes ago, FrankR said:

You are allowed to be young and foolish.  Since you mentioned midtown, I assume you are in NYC. My advice: get a massage table, join MMXNYC and get free massage exchanges going. Finish your studies and wait to spend money until you have money. 😉

No im in California and only traded once. And I think im just addicted to the idea of extra things happening without me asking for it. 

Edited November 6, 2024 by Tito

[GTMike]

20 hours ago, Tito said:

No im in California and only traded once. And I think im just addicted to the idea of extra things happening without me asking for it. 

Ooh! Where in California?? SF, LA, SD, Sac? 

[Guest]

This reads like a letter to penthouse back in the day.  "I never thought I would do something like this but then..."

[DunwoodyGuy]

Well, aren't you special.

[maninsoma]

Assuming the OP is serious, I would suggest this:  Spend your money instead on some therapy to help you figure out why you're not just getting sex with hot guys for free, given that you claim to be as hot as the guys you are hiring.

Fortunately I never went overboard on my hiring, but I'm aware that some people do that.  I think it's like any other luxury expense in life: it's fun to indulge on occasion, but it's important to set and maintain a budget you can afford.  Going into debt to hire masseurs who give you extra attention just doesn't make sense to me.

 

Edited November 7, 2024 by maninsoma

[WAANFI]

I understand where you’re coming from. I don’t like going to the same guy twice because I enjoy the thrill of not knowing if it’s going to go there and the anticipation.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 11/5/2024 at 7:43 PM, Tito said:

You ask for therapeutic only rates but when you get there, they get butt naked after you come back from using the restroom.  They’re also rock hard throughout the entire session and inviting you to touch it. And before you know it they’ll on top of you grinding their piece on your ass.

This happens to me at most of my massages.  I usually hire well reviewed providers who are known to please.

On 11/5/2024 at 7:20 PM, Tito said:

I’d say my body is almost as built as the guys I hire because I’m a college gym rat...

My body is obese and middle aged.  I've had more erotic sessions with providers as I age; not because I think I'm better looking, but because I'm doing my research and hiring better providers.

On 11/5/2024 at 7:20 PM, Tito said:

...and somewhat in the closet.

I'm out and proud.  I have fantastic sex with great looking men outside of this hobby as well as in this hobby.  Since you asked for advice, I'll say that you can't even imagine how much better you'll feel about yourself, your sex, and life in general once you stop hiding your sexuality.  We don't realize how huge a burden it is until we come out and it's gone.

On 11/5/2024 at 7:43 PM, Tito said:

Like tell me if this is normal or do I just think too highly of myself.

The latter.  And yet, not highly enough of yourself to come out of the closet yet. 

On 11/5/2024 at 7:20 PM, Tito said:

...I feel like this is starting to become a problem because I’m literally so young...

Hopefully you aren't "literally" so young, because you have to be an adult to hire or have consensual sex.  You may be "relatively" young for this hobby; but, if you're past the age of 25 then you're already "Daddy" status at gay bars in West Hollywood.

I've met many men here and in my personal life who didn't come out of the closet until their 50s, 60s, or 70s.  Whatever age you are, you're older than you were yesterday and you're missing out on great opportunities and less stress that you could be having at your relatively young age.  Best of luck... Cheers!