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3 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

Haven't hired this guy but I've seen him at various events. He's hot but to cocky for my taste. 

Sometimes a person can be cocky in public, but very nice in private. I have found this can be the case with some gays who like to maintain an image & public persona. 

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1 hour ago, BonVivant said:

Sometimes a person can be cocky in public, but very nice in private. I have found this can be the case with some gays who like to maintain an image & public persona. 

Cockiness can also be a coping mechanism for anxiety and/or self-consciousness. Standoffishness, too.

Speaking from personal experience.

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On 7/31/2024 at 9:44 PM, rvwnsd said:

Speaking from personal experience.

Speaking from my personal experience cockiness often accompanies men who think crossing boundaries is foreplay. I am very communicative in asserting my expectations. Many of these cocky guys think that just because they are hot they can do whatever they want. Twice I arranged to top really hot guys but when I get there they say they aren't ready. The last cocky guy I gave a chance ended up asking to fuck me then refused to bottom after he came inside me. 😳🫥 

I prefer honest and forthright guys.

Disclaimer: the experiences I have stated here have nothing to do with this provider. For all I know he's a great person. However, always keep your bullshit detectors on! Regardless of how hot, manly, cocky, dominant, and sexy he is. 🤪

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darn, I was hoping this was the earlier "JLA" many here will remember from several years ago.....he'd done still-earlier adult work as "Nicholas Clay" and was a forum member as 'Jaker27'.........note that my walk down memory lane here has nothing to do with the topic of this thread!!! .....I won't post a picture so as to avoid even further confusion!

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Is he a good kisser? That's the question that carries the most weight in a hire for me. A good kiss isn't just about doing it, there's the connectedness, passion, etc. People said he's cocky but does he deliver? Does he take his time with a guy, or is he too hurried? A good kiss goes a long way as a good start 😄 

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On 8/1/2024 at 12:44 AM, rvwnsd said:

Cockiness can also be a coping mechanism for anxiety and/or self-consciousness. Standoffishness, too.

Speaking from personal experience.

Some guys in the companionship profession start to really have to protect themselves, it isn’t for everyone

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On 9/21/2024 at 3:43 PM, azdr0710 said:

darn, I was hoping this was the earlier "JLA" many here will remember from several years ago.....he'd done still-earlier adult work as "Nicholas Clay" and was a forum member as 'Jaker27'.........note that my walk down memory lane here has nothing to do with the topic of this thread!!! .....I won't post a picture so as to avoid even further confusion!

I thought the same thing when I saw J LA.  I have remained in touch with him over the years since he retired.  He's enjoying life and has a BF that he's been with for a while now.  One of the nicer guys that was in the business and managed to find happieness.

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