Ads Disappeared-red flag?

[JockJam]

Recently corresponded with a provider to plan for an upcoming visit (about 3 weeks in advance). I went to check his ads out again a week before the trip and it looks like he suspended his RM account and he no longer appears on MF. have his contact info so will text to confirm but does this look like a red flag?

[Shawn Monroe]

Not necessarily - check with to confirm. I pulled my ads for about a year when I was diagnosing and going through being diagnosed with MS and it all got to be too much. I still have my regulars despite not advertising as much. 

[jmichaeliii]

One of the guys I hire regularly told me he was deactivating his rent masseur account and only continuing with regulars he has.  He contacted me so I knew that and didn't think just what you are right now.  I agree, just reach out to him.

[Enzo Falcone]

I know some providers who regularly use the “Not Available” function, bounce from Basic to Gold member on RM, and sometimes take breaks where they don’t advertise for a month or two. All for different reasons. For some, they tend to advertise during higher seasons as it’s more of an occasional side gig. Others sometimes run into financial difficulties making payments on time. 

Has the conversation moved off RM and by text? I agree with the others here and think that a nice “Hey! One week away! What’s your schedule like to make firmer plans?” could help you see if he’s on top of his stuff. 
 

If he seems unfamiliar with details that were previous discussed, extremely slow to respond compared to previous response times, and unable to make you feel confident in meeting, I’d say look for another provider. At the end of the day, you want to make sure you don’t have to spend your time travelling scoping new providers and trying to find one you connect with. 

[JockJam]

Thanks, all. Very helpful. Texted but no response. Different time zones so will be a bit patient but may have to look into alternatives. 
 

any good recs for LA 😂 ?

[jmichaeliii]

1 hour ago, JockJam said:

Thanks, all. Very helpful. Texted but no response. Different time zones so will be a bit patient but may have to look into alternatives. 
 

any good recs for LA 😂 ?

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[+ DrownedBoy]

Yes, it's very common for providers to forget to renew their ads right away. Especially among the flakes.

[DGHou]

On 6/10/2024 at 9:13 AM, JockJam said:

Recently corresponded with a provider to plan for an upcoming visit (about 3 weeks in advance). I went to check his ads out again a week before the trip and it looks like he suspended his RM account and he no longer appears on MF. have his contact info so will text to confirm but does this look like a red flag?

I know RM.  What is MF? 

[DGHou]

I had been seeing a provider regularly for about 3 years.  Sometimes he would disappear when battling depression but he always showed back up.  His account is suspended now because he is spending time several months with a long-term couple.  It may become permanent because they want him in their life. At least for now.

So I think the text just to check in is a good idea.  This provider and I text about once a week or so.  He sends pics of what he's doing and lets me know things are going well.  TBH I miss him very much.  I battle being happy to see he is so happy and hoping it won't last so I might be able to see him again.

[MikeBiDude]

16 minutes ago, DGHou said:

I know RM.  What is MF? 

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[JockJam]

Thanks for all the recs. For those interested he got back to me late last night with a simple three-word response saying it still works.
 

debating what to do.