Married to a Woman?

[Muscleking]

Is anyone else on here married to a woman? If so does she know about you getting massages or hiring male escorts? 
 

In my case my wife knows but it’s not something we really go into detail about, before we had kids we used to do some Bi stuff with another couple but has changed since we became parents. We still have a great relationship and I have considered booking appts with her as a couple thing but apart of me doesn’t want to share the time as i feel it’s my time to just let go a bit, but I know she’d enjoy it. Anyone else have invited their partner to attend appts before?

[MikePDNA51]

I have done couples appointments for mm, it is totally fine and kinda exciting. When guys married to women ask me for appointment I almost always do not know. I am assuming if wife knows and is fine with you having appointments with guys alone then all is good. In any relationship it’s good for the other partner to know if you’re gay or bi. Sounds like things have worked out this far 

[Cbilly17]

I am married to a woman and she does not know that I hire men (I also hire women too). She would not be fine with it at all. However, we have a non-existent sex life (prior to me hiring) and I have been bi for years.

[Muscleking]

43 minutes ago, Cbilly17 said:

I am married to a woman and she does not know that I hire men (I also hire women too). She would not be fine with it at all. However, we have a non-existent sex life (prior to me hiring) and I have been bi for years.

My wife and I used to get into hooking up with other couples a lot and we have even hired girls and guys together, I loved watching her get done by a guy with a bigger cock than mine, but after the kids we don’t do much of that anymore, but she knows I enjoyed that part of our life however now she doesn’t know how much I hire escorts or masseurs but she knows it happens from time to time, I also never have actual sex though It’s mostly just massages and touching and stroking etc.

[musclestuduws]

17 minutes ago, Muscleking said:

My wife and I used to get into hooking up with other couples a lot and we have even hired girls and guys together, I loved watching her get done by a guy with a bigger cock than mine, but after the kids we don’t do much of that anymore, but she knows I enjoyed that part of our life however now she doesn’t know how much I hire escorts or masseurs but she knows it happens from time to time, I also never have actual sex though It’s mostly just massages and touching and stroking etc.

It’s great that you and your wife were so open minded sexually. I’m gay and I never had sex with women but I especially enjoy watching porn where a married hetero couple have sex with a hot muscular escort. For some strange reason, it’s one of my hottest fantasies: being fucked by an escort while my imaginary wife watches me and participates. Mind me asking if you’ve ever done that with your wife? 

[Muscleking]

We have definitely done scenarios similar only i didn’t get fucked.. but I have had guys give me oral and I’ve given oral while my wife watched.. she knows I like seeing a big cock and I loved seeing her get fucked by a hot hung escort. 

[+ Jamie21]

It’s a thing. I’ve had clients who like to watch while I massage their wife. It’s usually a cuckold scenario especially if the husband is not well endowed. However it can be challenging to schedule because often it’s the husband’s idea and he wants to surprise his wife. I can’t do surprises so unless he’s prepared to get his wife to speak to me and sign consent forms it can’t happen. Both partners have to definitively be in agreement to the arrangements. 

[pubic_assistance]

On 4/30/2024 at 4:34 PM, Muscleking said:

before we had kids we used to do some Bi stuff with another couple but has changed since we became parents. We still have a great relationship and I have considered booking appts with her as a couple thing but apart of me doesn’t want to share the time as i feel it’s my time to just let go a bit, but I know she’d enjoy it. Anyone else have invited their partner to attend appts before?

Same here. My wife and I were pretty wild and adventurous before the kids.

We don't really get the time to be out together much without the kids...but I think I do now prefer my time with a masseur to be private. The days of watching each other in sexual situations seems to have lost its luster.

I'm going to guess my wife feels the same. It's all too much information now. 

( Are you going to kiss the kids goodnight with that mouth ..after sucking that guy's dick ?) 😂🍆💦😋

 

[Muscleking]

37 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Same here. My wife and I were pretty wild and adventurous before the kids.

We don't really get the time to be out together much without the kids...but I think I do now prefer my time with a masseur to be private. The days of watching each other in sexual situations seems to have lost its luster.

I'm going to guess my wife feels the same. It's all too much information now. 

( Are you going to kiss the kids goodnight with that mouth ..after sucking that guy's dick ?) 😂🍆💦😋

 

Yeah same here our relationship has changed a lot since those days and I do love my “me time” with my masseurs or escorts. It’s away for me to escape from the real life for a bit. But I only see my guys during the day inbetween work meetings etc to make sure I’m home with the fam as usual. 

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Muscleking said:

Yeah same here our relationship has changed a lot since those days and I do love my “me time” with my masseurs or escorts. It’s away for me to escape from the real life for a bit. But I only see my guys during the day inbetween work meetings etc to make sure I’m home with the fam as usual. 

Same + same.

"ME time" is important when you've got so many responsibilities as a parent.

I also take time away from work rather than take time away from the family.

 

Edited May 31, 2024 by pubic_assistance
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[Muscleking]

34 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Same + same.

"ME time" is important when you've got so many responsibilities as a parent.

I also take time away from work rather than take time away from the family.

 

100% agreed.. side note are we the same person 😂

[rockstrongo]

Im divorced now but have a 10yo daughter. My ex knew I was bi and didnt care. That said, I never pursued anything outside the marriage while we were together (divorce had nothing to do with that issue). Whoever I date now, I always tell them that I am bi. I attended bi week at hedonism past couple years which was a blast. I enjoy my single bi life too much to settle down. 😂

[spidir]

Yes and no. I enjoy my bisexuality and am fortunate to love and be loved.