411 on WagnerNY in NYC

[dutchal]

He's upped his prices.

[dutchal]

Communications easy and friendly; warm and welcoming, soft-spoken personality; great setup in beautiful apartment; pretty much matches pics (maybe a bit less defined than in the best of them); massage A+ (agree with above comments and would add has a professional approach to your comfort, e.g., your choice of oils/lotions, fresh like-new towels for the shower); extras A.

[Terpmaniac]

On 2/12/2024 at 4:41 PM, Redwine56 said:

Based upon his explicit "About Me", I'd say he seems open to more than a massage.  

"Yes, I will call you Daddy."

[San Angelo]

Is he effeminate? Does he look older in person?

[San Angelo]

Slightly effeminate or not? 

[+ Italiano]

11 hours ago, ProudWhore said:

Is he effeminate? Does he look older in person?

What does you prompt to ask this?...Curious.

[RubMyThighs]

Wagner looks as hot as his pics and is masculine

[San Angelo]

1 hour ago, RubMyThighs said:

Wagner looks as hot as his pics and is masculine

Masculine is subjective...

I remember meeting a bunch of gay guys that tell me they were masculine and when you meet them in person is a different story mannerisms and everything. Being muscular doesn't automatically make someone masculine. 

[+ azdr0710]

16 minutes ago, ProudWhore said:

Masculine is subjective...

well, his feet are pretty much a manly width apart here, I'd say.....   /s   😉

 

Edited November 24, 2025 by azdr0710

[San Angelo]

Is he totally masculine YES or NOT? 

[Erbenle]

Hey, I’m meeting him this week.  Does he kiss?

 

thanks guys, love you all.  

[RubMyThighs]

He does

[+ KensingtonHomo]

On 11/25/2025 at 10:46 PM, LaSanta said:

Is he totally masculine YES or NOT? 

No one is TOTALLY masculine. Masculinity is subjective and culturally defined. 

On 11/24/2025 at 6:07 PM, LaSanta said:

I remember meeting a bunch of gay guys that tell me they were masculine and when you meet them in person is a different story mannerisms and everything.

It sounds like you're unfamiliar with gay culture and gay men. There are lots of guys who code switch, meaning they're presenting more masculine in their day-to-day but can "queen out" when they're engaging in gay culture. 

Policing people's mannerisms for signs of femininity is a shitty way to live. Maybe talk to someone about why you're obsessed with whether gay men act like gay men. 🤣

That said, Wagner comes across as quite conventionally masculine in his voice and mannerisms. I don't know if he queens out watching Drag Race or seeing a musical because I've only seen him for massages. 

[Leandronyc]

On 1/5/2026 at 1:17 AM, San Angelo said:

Masculinity is not subjective. 

Neither is stupidity. 

I have wanted to see Wagner for a while after reading all the great reviews on here but schedules didn’t align. I plan to meet him next week and  will report back. 

[DunwoodyGuy]

Only time for 1 massage this trip. Sent him a message.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

On 1/5/2026 at 1:17 AM, San Angelo said:

Masculinity is not subjective. 

Not only is it subjective. It varies greatly across cultures and throughout history. Look at the representations of masculinity from Don Draper to Andrew Tate to Prince William. Many would argue that only Tate is truly representative of masculinity, when he's a vile misogynist and human trafficker. Others would say Prince William, with his kindness and athleticism, is a positive example, while Tate and Draper are "toxic." And that subjectivity is just within the Western world. 

Reading is free. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

19 minutes ago, San Angelo said:

Masculinity is not subjective. 

This is an incredibly simple explanation of a much more complex topic. But, masculinity is indeed culturally constructed, reliant on a context of binary gender and subjective. The way most A List actors of today exercise, groom themselves, and get plastic surgery, would be considered extremely feminine by the standards of Marlon Brando’s generation.

I suspect you’re under the spell of some incredibly narrow and harmful construction of masculinity that unbeknownst to you was constructed in an advertising boardroom. 

[DunwoodyGuy]

San Angelo--please stop posting in this thread about WagnerNY. If you wish to have a (pointless) conversation about whether or not masculinity is objective or subjective. please do so elsewhere. It's annoying to come back here for vital information about Wagner and see your inane posts. 

[San Angelo]

On 6/21/2026 at 11:19 AM, DunwoodyGuy said:

San Angelo--please stop posting in this thread about WagnerNY. If you wish to have a (pointless) conversation about whether or not masculinity is objective or subjective. please do so elsewhere. It's annoying to come back here for vital information about Wagner and see your inane posts. 

Or maybe you are just blind?

It was YOU and another font derailing the thread. I had no interest in having any sort conversation since January, hence why I even didn't engage since. 

Edited Monday at 03:33 PM by San Angelo