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On 12/27/2023 at 7:07 PM, Lazarus said:

I was with someone who told me he had “magic hands”.  He ended up lifting a credit card out of my pocket. He admitted it to me about a year later. (RIP Larry)

I guess, in a manner of speaking, he was correct when describing his hands. 

But seriously...

Unless a provider's entire ad is centered around activities I am not into, there are not many words or phrases thar put me off. For example, when an ad mentions "findom," I don't stop reading and move onto the next ad. I recognize that 1) some clients are looking for findom and 2) not everyone knows what it means and say "findom" when they mean something else. I'd probably ask if the escort can provide a session that doesn't involve findom. On the other hand, when an ad is about findom and only findom, I move on. I'm not put off, I'm simply not into findom and know we are not a match. The same principal applies to guys who are bottoms, BDSM, humiliation, PNP, tossing strawberries at me, taking an escort shopping, and other activities that I don't like.

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6 hours ago, rvwnsd said:

 

Unless a provider's entire ad is centered around activities I am not into, there are not many words or phrases thar put me off. For example, when an ad mentions "findom," I don't stop reading and move onto the next ad. I recognize that 1) some clients are looking for findom and 2) not everyone knows what it means and say "findom" when they mean something else. I'd probably ask if the escort can provide a session that doesn't involve findom. On the other hand, when an ad is about findom and only findom, I move on. I'm not put off, I'm simply not into findom and know we are not a match. The same principal applies to guys who are bottoms, BDSM, humiliation, PNP, tossing strawberries at me, taking an escort shopping, and other activities that I don't like.

To me, this is called exhibiting intelligence and reading between the lines of human socio-sexual nature.

Many gents on this board throw the baby out with the bathwater and then wonder aloud why they never have great experiences.

May your brain continue to serve you well in the future ;) 

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