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15 minutes ago, newdad said:

Though, I would say, venting out and talking it out also helps mental health. If that's OP's only goal, it was just as good.

I sort of felt he was teasing us…he wants to tell us who it is but wants to be coaxed. Telling us it’s a celebrated porn star and the like. Quite a bit of drama over this. Just get it over with otherwise what’s the big deal?

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3 hours ago, Enronnja said:

Intimacy is very psychological. Thankfully for me, I am a top, so I don't necessarily need you to be hard. But I need:

  • Kissing
  • Cuddling
  • Body contact
  • Eye contact
  • Nipple play
  • Body contact
  • If you have a really nice butt, some munching

Same here. I've ran into many who are not into kissing sadly.

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With limited info, one being ED and the other being the verbal abuse, it may be related to steroid use/abuse.  That can cause ED and wide mood swings...hence appearing to be a nice guy at one point and then suddenly aggressive at another point.

Another post here alluded to that as a reason.  Pure speculation but certainly one possible explanation.  Not knowing or seeing what the escort looks like could help support that possibility.  If the OP is into the body builder type, he may be at higher risk in his hiring and should develop a heightened awareness of possible signs of steroid use/abuse.  Not my thing so I can't really say anything specific about that.

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1 hour ago, jgoo said:

With limited info, one being ED and the other being the verbal abuse, it may be related to steroid use/abuse.  That can cause ED and wide mood swings...hence appearing to be a nice guy at one point and then suddenly aggressive at another point.

Another post here alluded to that as a reason.  Pure speculation but certainly one possible explanation.  Not knowing or seeing what the escort looks like could help support that possibility.  If the OP is into the body builder type, he may be at higher risk in his hiring and should develop a heightened awareness of possible signs of steroid use/abuse.  Not my thing so I can't really say anything specific about that.

Possibly but in this kind of circumstances Occam's razor points to PNP.

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On 12/14/2023 at 4:38 PM, SouthOfTheBorder said:

the insults would hurt for sure.  very doubtful this was about you tho - he clearly has other things going on & you were convenient. 

Agreed. A sex worker who can’t do his job may easily feel humiliated, then look for a scapegoat. (Pretty common, unfortunately, in any job category.) Kindness in offering partial compensation is easily regarded, under those insecure circumstances, as salt in the wound. And, yes: He might do well to look into another profession. 

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On 12/15/2023 at 3:26 PM, PileDriver said:

update on my thoughts...not to long ago had another very young and hung porn star play inside me...total last second spur of the moment...literally within less than two hours we had first exchange...i think we were both satisfied...he was better than expected...by miles...holding on to that and reminding myself that exchanges can go well and be life affirming even on the spur of the moment...but my heart still goes out to the young troubled men...

Care to name the young and hung porn star who was so satisfying?

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