In this day and age, would you recommend first-timers...

[newdad]

In this day and age (USA specifically), would you recommend those who are hiring a sensual/erotic masseur for the first-time to tell their sensual/erotic masseurs that it'd be their first time? Why or why not?

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EDIT: words

Edited February 10, 2023 by newdad

[jeezifonly]

Telling “first time” is a must if referring to sexual activity with another man. Disclosing first hire,  what’s the downside?

[Guest]

44 minutes ago, newdad said:

In this day and age (USA specifically), would you recommend first-timers to tell their masseurs hired from MF or RM that it'd be their first time? Why or why not?

(Couldn't fit the entire sentence in the title.)

I was brand new a couple of years ago.  I can't remember if I told my first masseur it was my first time, but I did tell the second one I went to that I was new to all of this.  - The first massage was purely therapeutic, so I don't think it mattered as much.  The second was sensual.  I think it's all up to your comfort.  If it helps you to talk through with the masseur, then absolutely.  They can help put you at ease.  If you like to keep things private, then don't. One thing to remember is that none of this is one-size-fits-all.

[misterhumphries]

2 hours ago, newdad said:

In this day and age (USA specifically), would you recommend those who are hiring a sensual/erotic masseur for the first-time to tell their sensual/erotic masseurs that it'd be their first time? Why or why not?

(Couldn't fit the entire sentence in the title.)

EDIT: words

Yes, I see no harm in telling a sensual/erotic masseur that it's  your first time. To me, it puts the masseur on alert to know how to approach your session. Massage is all about communication, verbal and non-verbal. If it's a "masseur" I'd ask if mutual touch is allowed, if there will be a "happy ending," etc. From a business standpoint, if a masseur satisfies a client, said client may become a return client and provide goodwill through referrals from clients -- just what happens on these forums. Word of mouth is the best advertising.

Edited February 10, 2023 by misterhumphries

[JackNYC]

At this point, I recommend you either shit or get off the pot. Stop with the spammy questions that are all essentially the same.

[lanyc]

10 minutes ago, JackNYC said:

At this point, I recommend you either shit or get off the pot. Stop with the spammy questions that are all essentially the same.

It's like he's gathering stories for a book or something...

[mkm556]

I’d be more inclined to respond to @newdad ‘s multiple postings if he would simply come clean about why he continues to post such questions. Where’s the transparency?  Definitely seems as if he’s compiling responses for a blog, article, paper or book of some kind. 

[allyouknow]

22 hours ago, mkm556 said:

I’d be more inclined to respond to @newdad ‘s multiple postings if he would simply come clean about why he continues to post such questions. Where’s the transparency?  Definitely seems as if he’s compiling responses for a blog, article, paper or book of some kind. 

exactly it is very creepy and uncomfortable. next post will be "what is your password any suggestions?" 

[lanyc]

Ugh. I DM'ed him my mother's maiden name...

[Marc in Calif]

What I find really suspicious is that he rarely comments again after he starts his many threads.

He doesn't even seem to thank responders or even acknowledge their posts. 😲