Overnighters

[Jay Ganymede]

My intention was never to imply you were hideous or are the owner of an ugly mug. For some reason you took my comment, "have you tried sleeping with yourself" as an attack on your appearance. It was not an attack on your appearance however an attempt to help you realize the task an escort has when he meets every client. If you think this is an easy task than you are mistaken. EVEN with someone who he regularly they may have fallen in love with the job of making sure the client has the most enjoyable time can be quite tedious and takes a lot of experience more than one would need in a casual encounter.

 

You asked how hard is it to entertain a gentlemen for $1000??? I responded with "have you tried sleeping with yourself?" Forget about all the flakes and the weridos, that is definitely not the most complex part of this profession;, if you actually tried sleeping with yourself you would know that it is quite hard if it wasn't there would be more than about 20 guys top of their game.

[Okliehomo]

_jay,

 

Dammit, I said that it wasn't an easy job. I get it, ok??? It's not easy. It's not easy. It's hard. Ok? Not easy. Is that enough?

 

Your clients, both past and future, must be thrilled to read how difficult you find it to sleep with them.

 

Okie

[Jay Ganymede]

They are, dammit that's why I am gladly paid what I ask. They get it dammit.

 

There is a thing about logic. It goes from point A to B to conclude C. You're not following it buddy.

[Okliehomo]

Juan,

 

I thought that that bulge in your pocket was a DICtionary....

 

And the joke is, " And you know, we don't get flowers from down there ".....told with an accent, of course.

 

Okie

[Okliehomo]

Well, "damnit".....ok, I will live with being denied your obvious contempt for your clients.

 

I will try and get along with just the top 20 hard working guys....not quite sure why you would presume to include yourself in their company anyway?

 

Never gave you a thought before and I certainly won't in the future. Good luck in your strenuous and oh, so, low paying job.

 

Okie

[Jay Ganymede]

still not following the logic.

[Okliehomo]

You are right, buddy. I do not see the great and powerful "LOGIC", as you think that you have presented it, but that AIN'T because I'm dumb.....it's because there AIN'T no logic to begin with.

 

Sorry to end in a preposition, but it is ended. No matter what you post, I'm done with this thread, and you.

 

Okie

[Jay Ganymede]

Nope, didnt get it that time either. so easily baitable.

[twinklover]

For me, weekends or similar extended stays are the way to go if you're serious about the escort and your time together. I don't dispute Scott's point about companionship, eating, sleeping, etc., except to say that most clients would hire few, if any, of you escorts simply to be a "companion." PULEEZE. GET OVER YOURSELVES AND GET REAL. Yes, companionship, eating, and sleeping are, or course, part of an overnight and any other extended stay. But what the client is paying for is the "quality" time. In some ways, seanlong's idea of 4 hours of serious (sexual) play for an "overnight" is a good one. At least the client knows he's getting that. What is even hotter is an escort like Bobby Thompson, whom according to a review I read, got going again, unrequited, in the middle of the night. Now that's hot. My only hope is that the escort is at least as horny as the client. It's only those kind of escorts, the kind of escort I have sleeping in my bed right now, that are worth paying the fees for extended dates. The "quality" (i.e., sexual, love-making, cumming) time is ample, more than expected and sensational, leaving plenty of other time for companionship, eating and sleeping.

[Guest Jesse Dane]

Hmmm, very interesting seeing all the different views in here. I was hoping this would bring on some conversation.

[Guest zipperzone]

>Seanlong, an escort out of SoCal, has interesting limitations

>on an overnight. 4 hours of serious play time are included and

>he sleeps in his own bed.

 

Pardon??? If I'm paying upwards of a $1000 (after taxes) for an overnight, there is no way in hell the escort gets to sleep in his own bed. If cuddling and spooning while sleeping isn't part of the deal - then there is no deal.

[Guest zipperzone]

>Nope, didnt get it that time either. so easily baitable.

 

Jay - why don't you drop it before you guarantee nobody from this board will ever hire you for an overnight again?

 

You should take a page from Rick Munroe's book and only show a friendly disposition here. You are a public relations disaster.

[Jay Ganymede]

You're correct anyone who does not see pass a difference in opinions between two adults probably would not be interested in hiring me. I am fully aware of my actions and their consequences.

 

You are a stud though for your concern and interest in my career well being. Thanks, it is truly appreciated.

[SAdler]

>If cuddling and spooning while sleeping isn't

>part of the deal - then there is no deal.

 

I agree that sleeping in different beds is a little off but some clients do need to learn respectable boundaries for overnights.

 

They need to be reminded the rate is severely discounted in terms of hours because they're not "paying" for the eight hours you're sleeping with them. I politely tell clients that I dont even let my personal lovers touch me while I sleep because it makes me uncomfortable in terms of body heat and texture.

 

Conscious cuddling etc before bed is fine but there is nothing more tasteless and annoying that having finally gotten to sleep but then woken up by a client rolling on top of you and playing with an obviously soft penis.

[SAdler]

>Conscious cuddling etc before bed is fine but there is nothing

>more tasteless and annoying that having finally gotten to

>sleep but then woken up by a client rolling on top of you and

>playing with an obviously soft penis.

 

I wanted to add a little more context to this statement since of all places I was reflecting on it in spin class. I love cuddling and spooning or backing up into someone's warm body no matter who it is -- I have fun. The underlying point is that cuddling is one thing, not knowing when to stop is too much. There are subtle hints that one is ready to sleep and for this to end. Rolling over or scooting away is definitely one of them, NOT an invitation to scoot over till theres an edge to which you cant scoot past.

 

All fuctional human relationships, especially escort/client are about respect between the two parties. Be on the lookout for subtlety and if something is confusing -- like why the boy keeps scooting every time you brush a hand down his back -- ask.

[Chuck50]

I just spent an overnight with a hot escort from Vegas. He came at 5PM per my reguest and left around 8AM I think it was because he had an early class that he left. But he was a class act escort. HUGS Love ya Chuck 50 HUGS Thanks Mark!!!!! HUGS

[Rick Munroe]

For Derek and me, it's usually 12 hours but sometimes quite longer if there's dinner and a show involved, or if we feel lazy in the morning and take our time getting up (after getting off) or have a leisurely breakfast. We don't really have a set rule; we just try to be flexible and adjust for each situation. As for sleep, we often take turns with the client throughout the night (depending on their stamina!) so we each get rested up for the "next round." :9

[SAdler]

We do love Aaron Mark don't we .... mmmm god he's good. If you meant a different Mark then that was just a shameless promotion for who I believe the hottest man in Vegas.

[twinklover]

I cannot believe I am posting at this late hour and agreeing wholeheartedly with Chuck (assuming he's in fact referring to AaronMark) and Scott(assuming he's being honest and there's no attempt at bitchiness or subterfuge). To each his own, but AaronMark is one of the world's finest escorts. Not just a total class act, but the real deal who delivers in any way you want. I hesitate to recommend him so highly but at least the few professional clients who remain here, if they have not already tasted his pleasures, will know of a tried-and-true and very exciting escort in one of the most exciting cities anywhere. If you think Las Vegas, think AaronMark.

 

It almost makes me want to puke to agree with certain posts here (I was all set to post a very nasty comment about Scott on another site, likening him to a hard avocado that I came home to tonight and couldn't soften--I actually thought of him when I dealt with this mean-ass avocado). But I do completely agree with Chuck and Scott and appreciate their comments and kind words. Damn, I now have respect for some of their views. They're absolutely right about this (given my assumptions above, that we are talking honestly about the same person, which I believe we are).

[swallows22]

I have always thought of myself as "odd" because I was never interested in overnights. Have been hiring lads for over five years and other than once or twice, never succumbed to the temptation. After reading this post, tomorrow I will light a candle in thanksgiving.

[Epigonos]

Generally speaking I'm a dinner and two to three hours of play time type of client. I just don't get a thrill out of SLEEPING with someone. Now with that said -- I MUST say I wouldn't ever consider anything less than an overnight with AARON MARK in Las Vegas or STEVEN KESSLAR in San Francisco. These two guys are so incredible that the more time spent with them the better -- that even goes for time spent sleeping. These are two guys that you just gotta love waking up next to.

[+ Tygerscent]

No faking here on my end! I could have my ass eaten all night long, pop a number of loads and still be hungry for more! Especially with the ass eating! I LOVE that, (Both ways getting and giving...MMmmmmmmmm). Okay... so with mutliple ass eatings it's hard... oh wait... I thought we were talking about our dicks. (Mine's hard!) The scenario is just a big ol' turn on for me.

I feel honored when a client hires me and want to do my best to provide the highest most outstanding quality time I can provide. "Rates" is a relatively flexible term... I have a general rate scedule but there are always variables I take into consideration: (are we doing other things around town at the Client's expense, are they paying for a very expensive airfare are they in town or do I have to drive to visit them). My rate schedule is the ceiling rate for me and I generally make reductions accordingly from there.

As far as the overnight thing goes. I personally feel that you are being hired by someone and that you should be available to him to the full extent of the desires and wishes of the Client... For traveling overnights where a flight is involved, my arrival time in and out is the determinant factor. But me being a Lover of Intimacy, wild or mild... an overnight means unlimited Intimacy and attention to the Client as the Client wishes and needs. I take sleep and activities into consideration. My generalized rule for an overnight is that it starts when the client says we should get together and last at least 14 hours from that point. I'm not a big clock watcher and so it can run over that. Sometimes a Client has asked my to join him for lunch or Breakfast... that is at their expense! I would not even consider charging them for more.

Repeat overnight Clients get a better rate and I cut a deal for weekend clients and week long clients. I feel that the Client is investing in our time together... It's not about the Escort's needs as much as it is about the Client's. He is hiring the Escort and not the other way around and that should be Respected by the Escort.

[JakeSamers]

Yeah, the own bed thing is a bit much. If a guy hires another for an overnighter he is looking for a bit more than a timed bang.

 

Jake Samers

Houston

 

http://home.earthlink.net/~jakesamers-m4m

[rocky]

My question that might not be popular, is your fee;

for someone that is a regular customer, from dinner

to breakfast, what should an appropriate fee be??

 

Rocky

[Guest endoman31]

I have only arranged one overnight and it was 4 years ago. My regular escort arrived early . we had 6 o'clock dinner. watched TV and he wanted to go to sleep at about 10:30. I had promised not to wake him in the middle of the night. I awake early and did disturb him and we played together until well after breakfast, when I drove him to the station.

 

As an aside: He wore bedclothes to bed, cause I guess he slept in an unheated apartment under normal conditions. I made him strip!!!!!