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This may sound like a stupid, naive question and maybe it doesn't belong in this forum, but I'm serious in my inquiry. In a recent review (1/1/05) the reviewer mention that in preparation to receive two very well-endowed escorts he wore a butt plug the day prior to the meeting. Is this possible? Dangerous? Common practice? Are there people walking around with these things buried in their ass?

 

I am a novice and a very tight bottom who has recently met a spectacular, super-endowed, insatiable top and am planning an overnight session with him. I want to be able to take him long and hard and satisfy him in every way. I need to be prepared and don't want to be too tight or up-tight. I would much appreciate knowing more about butt plugs and hearing from people who use them.

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Not an escort, but I hope it's okay to respond as I quite like toys. lol. ;o)

 

I don't personally wear one for extended periods, but I do think it's perfectly safe (adequately lubed), and I believe many people do just that. I've considered trying it at some point - I just haven't up to now. I think the extended wear butt plugs tend to be on the smaller to medium side...not sure how a really large one would work.

 

If that doesn't appeal to you, and you want to learn to stretch to take a large cock, I suggest just getting a couple nice butt plugs/dildos and practicing. Go slow, and you can probably actually learn to adapt to a bigger cock in a short amount of time.

 

Hope this is helpful - I know it doesn't exactly answer your question.

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>ROFL! I almost posted that picture.

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>Even that thing, in large size, is small compared to some I've

>seen. :o

 

I've seen some of those "whopper size" plugs myself. I can't imagine anyone could actually use one for anything other than a door stop or some form of birth control for an elephant.

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Thank you for the reply and advice guptasa1. I guess I need to do some research on dildos and plugs, definitely no traffic cones. As I said before, I have found the ideal, five-star top and have recently spent three fantastic hours with him and now want an overnight. The last time I was with him I was so tight and uptight and wanted him so badly and he is so big that we had a long period of pain and frustration. Finally I took a dildo and stretched myself for a while and we made it work for three extended fuck sessions. He was very patient and kind during my intitial frustration but I was embarrassed. This time I want to be prepared to take him like a man.

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In some of the Belami videos, you can see how they prepare the boys for filming. For all their actors, even Dano, the boys wear a butt plug inside for a half hour or so before having sex on screen. They also mention that new boys practice with butt plugs at home to gradually loosen up back there. As others have mentioned, butt plugs are easier to take in and hold onto than dildoes. I don't think it is at all unusual to use them. For a full day seems unnecessary. But in getting ready for a big cock, they are an excellent method/tool. And Gupta's advice to gradually work up from a small or medium to a larger seems good advice.

 

Probably wear one for short periods during the day for several days prior to your date so you can begin to loosen up and feel relaxed back there, then wear one for 45 minutes just prior to getting together. That should make the full experience enjoyable and not painful. Good luck. Let us know how it works.

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The butt plug thing may work, but if you are interested in being forever prepared, without planning days ahead of time, to bottom I would sugest learning to relax consciously. I personally use deep breathing to relax my body. I imagine that with each exhale my whole body relaxes and loosens up just a little more. This is the same technique used in Yoga to further a stretch, which is what you are basically doing as a bottom. It also helps to let go of any pain you feel during the proccess. You feel the pain, breath, let go of the pain, breath and move on.

The idea is that your thoughts have a chemical reaction to your body, if you think you are not ready to bottom then your body will not open up, if you focus on your desire to have something up there and then focus the rest of your thoughts on controlling your breathing and relaxing you will not have any of those random, doubtful thoughts and your body will reflect your state of mind.

I believe that is what sex is all about, a state of mind. Sexual preference (hetero/homo, top/bottom, etc...) is a reflection of Who You Are and Who You Want to Be. So, conciously choose who you want to be, then Be that, and your thoughts will stem from that state of being, your actions will stem from your thoughts and you will then have what you desired. It is the Be, Do, Have formula. Being creates Doing which results in Having. ;) (btw, this formula doesn't work in reverse, which is how most people attempt to live their lives. They think, if I HAVE something I will DO something which will make me BE something. If I HAVE a butt plug up my ass then my body wil DO what is called "open up" and I will BE a bottom. This may work temporarily but it will not change who you are. You will not BE a bottom, because true bottoms do not need such preparation. And you will use the butt plug as a crutch to attain what you want. Change Who You Are BEING and you will forever DO and HAVE what that state of being produces.)

 

But, in short, breathing is the key to relaxation. People tend to hold their breath when they are in pain. This just creates more pain and discomfort. If you deep breath when you are in pain the pain will disipate faster because you will relax yourself and your mind will not linger on the memory of the pain. You are distracted by your thoughts of breathing in a controled manner. ;)

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Regina Enthusiast

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OH MY GOD!!! Joel, that is the funniest thing I've ever read! I will be laughing all the way home, which means that people on the subway will think I'm crazy...just like everyone else!

 

In the Village Voice, Dan Savage was asked about the difference between a dildo and a butt plug. He waxed on for five paragraphs about the designs, the styles, the colors, the integrity of the dildo. The last paragraph was one sentence "A butt plug looks like a lava lamp and goes up your butt."

 

Priceless!!!

 

p.s. Oh, and I forgot, lube. Lots and lots of lube...and PATIENCE...lots and lots and LOTS of patience. After all, Rome wasn't stretched in a day!

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First of ALL Learn to relax.You certainly don't have to walk around "ALOT" with something other than your "Object of Desire" in your Butt, when the Hot Times are NOT..... being had! Find a Great Top. Not just a Pumper! A guy who knows what he is doing. OR you might as well start a REAL NICE Dildo Collection and save alot of money on the REAL THING! The Old saying was, "His Hole is as Big as a $5 Coffee Ring" Alot of the guys that was said about Landed in THE Hospital! "Stretching" can go to Far, like alot of other things, if Fixated on..Not everyone has a "Butt" that agrees with what THEY, would like to use it for! :+ :+ :+

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This is Bob, the original poster, and the escort to whom I'm referring is Mark of Central Illinois. And yes, he is incredible, and since I'm an inexperienced bottom and very tight, preparation is necessary.

 

I was first with Mark last October and wrote a review for him. A couple of weeks ago I had the good fortune of being with him again and he fucked me four times and delivered four tasty loads. I did not used a butt plug to prepare but did try to loosen up with a dildo prior to our meeting. The first penetration was a bit labored but after that I after that I opened up nicely and his big cock slid in so smoothly and he was able to pound me relentlessly. I experienced such unbelievable pleasure and I hope he did too.

 

I thank all of you for your help. I was especially interested by Anthan's post suggesting that bottoming is a state of mind. I am trying to adapt that mentality and it helps.

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