+ Summerson Posted November 22, 2022 Share Posted November 22, 2022 When I was growing up on a farm in the middle of Southeast Bubblefuck, Pennsylvania, some of the thoughts that popped into my head made me feel like I must be the most twisted person on the planet. In my 20's I discovered the kink community and quickly learned that in a lot of ways, I barely made it onto the scoreboard. I also learned that everyone ranks things differently, in an order unique to them, which is why honest discussion in advance and informed consent is so very important. And yes, also sexy as Hell if you do it right. Full disclosure: my kinks include bondage, edging, and the dreaded tickling, maybe a little light spanking if I happen to find myself in the presence of a truly perfect ass. (Hi nate_sf! I promise I'd always ask first.) I'm not a slapper or a slappee (or into pain in general). The OP has mentioned several times that he feels a face slap is universal or at least common. With all due respect, I've just never found that to be true in my experience and I've been involved in kink for 40 years (if we're counting high school shenanigans). Maybe I don't watch enough porn or the right kind of porn or something. Of course there are people who enjoy it and I know some of them, but they're generally very up front and vocal about it, because they know most people won't go there unless they specifically ask. At one point, I was involved with a guy who was really into choking and breathplay. The anxiety I felt about doing that with him literally kept me up at night and I wasn't ever nearly hardcore enough to give him what he needed. If I ever slapped someone accidentally (i.e. their face and my hand were both moving and somehow connected), I'd be so embarrassed and immediately apologize and probably end the scene for everyone's comfort. Maybe we'd go out for ice cream or something for the rest of our time together. (LOL - that's actually not a hypothetical. A friend of mine really did that with a scene partner, although not because of a slap. Yes, a friend, I swear. 🤣) Anyway, I'm operating under the assumption that all parties involved in this scene were good people with the best of intentions and I'm truly sorry it didn't end well for either person. I always hope everyone has the best sex possible, whatever that means to them. But if someone had slapped me without talking to me about it in advance and without immediately apologizing pretty profusely, I would have ended the scene immediately as well. thomas, + Vegas_Millennial, + Coolwave35 and 1 other 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyBoomer Posted November 22, 2022 Share Posted November 22, 2022 19 minutes ago, nycboi said: No, no escort. It was a hookup with someone that does porn and escorts. You can DM for more. Too late. I already watched the video you linked & then deleted. ~Boomer~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted November 22, 2022 Share Posted November 22, 2022 (edited) 19 minutes ago, BabyBoomer said: 42 minutes ago, nycboi said: No, no escort. It was a hookup with someone that does porn and escorts. You can DM for more. Expand Too late. I already watched the video you linked & then deleted. ~Boomer~ I watched it too. So much for anonymity. Now we know which porn star to message to get HIS side of the story, if we thought it mattered. If there's anyone who it would make sense to message directly, it would be the "friend". No one here, including the author of the question, knows what allegedly happened except for the older hot porn actor in the video which was removed. Edited November 22, 2022 by Vegas_nw1982 To accurately describe the older hot porn actor Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted November 22, 2022 Share Posted November 22, 2022 1 minute ago, nycboi said: The lover probably forgot about it. Good advice all around socurious 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted November 22, 2022 Share Posted November 22, 2022 5 hours ago, nycboi said: Just imagine he decides to find my homie and beat him up just for making this thread about that encounter. Wait…who made this thread??? You?…or the "homie"? Talk about U=U…..lol. "Oh, the tangled web we weave……" socurious, MikeBiDude, + Vegas_Millennial and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LookingAround Posted November 22, 2022 Share Posted November 22, 2022 23 minutes ago, nycman said: Wait…who made this thread??? You?…or the "homie"? Talk about U=U…..lol. "Oh, the tangled web we weave… Rule #1 Keep your story straight, right? So much back and forth over something so simple. Don’t hit an unwilling participant. I mean how complicated is that? Geez. + Coolwave35 and + Vegas_Millennial 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted November 22, 2022 Share Posted November 22, 2022 31 minutes ago, nycman said: Wait…who made this thread??? You?…or the "homie"? Talk about U=U…..lol. "Oh, the tangled web we weave……" I think he might have meant, "Just imagine he (the one who was sapped) decides to find my homie and beat him up just for (me) making this thread about that encounter. At least that is how I was reading in, particularly given the OP's disclosure that English is not his first language. Even when English is the first language it is difficult at times to properly represent three separate individuals in one sentence by pronoun, and also keep it clear - at least for me! LOL socurious 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadioRob Posted November 22, 2022 Share Posted November 22, 2022 Thread locked per OP request. socurious 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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