All alone in the night?

[Vincent_Michael]

I dont know about any of you guys however there are times when I have no clients and all my close friends are working a 9-5...about 12pm-1pm I am starving and I feel more alone than anyone in the world.

 

Maybe because I havent had a bf in 3 years and maybe because I just love to talk to someone and maybe I have issues....I am sure its all of the above however that is not the point..

 

Who honestly feels like me at times?

 

I know its a odd rant from the greek in me.

 

By the way I am getting a awsome T-Shirt it says " Hello my name is William Farking Shatner"

 

What do you think?

[Vincent_Michael]

Guys I wanted to make this post because I thought this is a form that asks escorts about things....

 

I have wanted to ask other escorts deep questions for a long time.

 

As you can see I am a very deep thinker but I spell worth shit lol.

[Boston Guy]

Vincent -

 

First, I'm glad you posted. Not enough escorts post here, primarily because most of the ones who have done so in the past have ended up getting burned by one or more of our fellow Hoovillians. (And, yes, that's Hoovillians, not Hoovillains.)

 

I don't think that feeling lonely late at night is something unusual, especially for gay men without partners. Many (most?) of us live alone and there are certain times that just scream for company. Late at night can be one of those times, just like some holidays or sometimes on a Sunday afternoon. I remember that the protagonist in Dancer from the Dance -- a great read, by the way, if you haven't read it -- used to find Sunday afternoons especially difficult.

 

As a night owl, sometimes I'm a bit bored, a bit lonely late at night and sometimes I'll turn to the Internet for amusement and "company." I visit other boards as well as this one (some not gay-oriented), so there's usually something going on somewhere at most any time of the day. But, of course, it's not the same as being with someone.

 

Thanks again for posting and starting an interesting thread.

 

BG

[Vincent_Michael]

First off thanks for welcoming my thoughts....I wanted to express how I felt and maybe the way I feel is diffrent from most but I try to be Honest and Real.

 

I wish I could date but doing what I do makes it very hard and not to mention.....Allot of gay men Hate what I do as a professon.

 

I hope to talk more on here with you guys..scathing or no scathing.

 

I dont know if anyone is intrested but I am reading "Just A Geek" it is a awsome book and I would recomend it to anyone....If your a Geek like me.

[Boston Guy]

>First off thanks for welcoming my thoughts....I wanted to

>express how I felt and maybe the way I feel is diffrent from

>most but I try to be Honest and Real.

 

That's a great place to start.

 

>

>I wish I could date but doing what I do makes it very hard and

>not to mention.....Allot of gay men Hate what I do as a

>professon.

>

 

Yes, I've seen that in action sometimes when guys talk about escorts and escorting and guys who hire escorts. Yet the same people think nothing of going out, doing a bunch of drugs, going to the baths and getting fucked by a whole bunch of guys they don't know and won't see again. Their sense of moral superiority somehow rings a little false to me.

 

>I hope to talk more on here with you guys..scathing or no

>scathing.

 

I'm glad to hear that. Just know ahead of time that you'll need a tough hide from time to time. But there are a lot of good guys here who collectively know quite a lot about a lot of different things. When the conversation turns away from criticizing each other, it can be fun and interesting. But there are those who seem to me to be so bored in their own lives that they find it amusing to come here and insult people. Whatever gets you off, I guess.

 

>

>I dont know if anyone is intrested but I am reading "Just A

>Geek" it is a awsome book and I would recomend it to

>anyone....If your a Geek like me.

 

I wasn't familiar with this book, so I looked it up on Amazon. I was surprised to see that it was by Wil Wheaton. I was even more surprised to learn that he was married, had stepkids, etc... I always think of him as being 16 years old. I ordered the book and look forward to reading it.

 

Regards,

BG

[Spida]

There is no reason someone as cute as you should feel alone! I wish I lived in the same city, I could keep you warm an fuzzy at lunch time! :-)

 

I have had this feeling many times when I was working "odd" hours and home alone during the day!

 

Spida

[Spida]

There is no reason someone as cute as you should feel alone! I wish I lived in the same city, I could keep you warm an fuzzy at lunch time! :-)

 

I have had this feeling many times when I was working "odd" hours and home alone during the day!

 

Spida

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Alone Again, Naturally

 

This thread points up a significant issue among homosexual men: differentiating between loneliness, being alone, and sex. I think enough individuals, gay or straight, confuses sex with intimacy, but we seem to take it to a higher level in this community. I have had a number of friends with whom I had little if any sexual attraction, and vice versa. I will admit that with a few, sometimes purely as recreational sex, we engaged in that level of intimacy, but with many and most of them, we simply had a relationship. In my case, it was very convenient schedule wise because some of them were "in the biz" - either in adult films or escorting, or both. So we had similar schedules.

 

We could be up late watching movies, talking, having a late meal, or just having breakfast when most people were eating lunch. We sometimes slept together - but that is all it was - a nap, or an entire night, where we might actually be naked or nearly naked, but it was totally innocent.

 

Personally, as I mentioned in the thread about traveling along, I think it is a good opportunity to put yourself out and meet new people. They all do not have to become friends, merely casual acquaitences, if that.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Alone Again, Naturally

 

This thread points up a significant issue among homosexual men: differentiating between loneliness, being alone, and sex. I think enough individuals, gay or straight, confuses sex with intimacy, but we seem to take it to a higher level in this community. I have had a number of friends with whom I had little if any sexual attraction, and vice versa. I will admit that with a few, sometimes purely as recreational sex, we engaged in that level of intimacy, but with many and most of them, we simply had a relationship. In my case, it was very convenient schedule wise because some of them were "in the biz" - either in adult films or escorting, or both. So we had similar schedules.

 

We could be up late watching movies, talking, having a late meal, or just having breakfast when most people were eating lunch. We sometimes slept together - but that is all it was - a nap, or an entire night, where we might actually be naked or nearly naked, but it was totally innocent.

 

Personally, as I mentioned in the thread about traveling along, I think it is a good opportunity to put yourself out and meet new people. They all do not have to become friends, merely casual acquaitences, if that.

[+ glutes]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

There is nothing wrong with being alone, although we are social beings.

In talking to gay & straight friends that are in a relationships, they all feel lonely at times. You're feeling no different than anyone else!

[+ glutes]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

There is nothing wrong with being alone, although we are social beings.

In talking to gay & straight friends that are in a relationships, they all feel lonely at times. You're feeling no different than anyone else!

[Vincent_Michael]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

I agree....I however sit and just want to talk, I want to spend my nights alone...Odd right but I like being alone at times but I suppose if I was going to date I cant have my cake and eat it too.

 

I want to see how my friends are doing...When I cant have my freinds company I find that I buy stange people lunch just to sit and see what there all about.

 

Thanks for all the awsome comments!

[Vincent_Michael]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

I agree....I however sit and just want to talk, I want to spend my nights alone...Odd right but I like being alone at times but I suppose if I was going to date I cant have my cake and eat it too.

 

I want to see how my friends are doing...When I cant have my freinds company I find that I buy stange people lunch just to sit and see what there all about.

 

Thanks for all the awsome comments!

[Vincent_Michael]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

When I say Alone I dont mean as a person I have freinds and what not to call on...

 

I mean in this Job of escorting you sit and sit and it dawns on you that you are not normal and alone...I suppose thats why allot of escorts are addicts of drugs and what not, I am just addicted to reading and using computers...

 

I do talk allot about my emotions and that helps me being alone at times.

[Vincent_Michael]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

When I say Alone I dont mean as a person I have freinds and what not to call on...

 

I mean in this Job of escorting you sit and sit and it dawns on you that you are not normal and alone...I suppose thats why allot of escorts are addicts of drugs and what not, I am just addicted to reading and using computers...

 

I do talk allot about my emotions and that helps me being alone at times.

[jacobno]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

Hmmm, on being alone and loneliness.

 

I've decided that I like the company of myself much better than that of others and am usually happiest doing things on my own. Reading, exploring new towns (ask some of the guys I've accompanied ;-), or going out.

Not to say I'm antisocial. :-)

 

 

I've also realized that I never feel lonelier than when surrounded by or immersed within a large group of friends. While in groups of 3 or 4 I'm happy to rule the circle, with loads of periphery acquaintances in tow, I slip back to the edge.

[jacobno]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

Hmmm, on being alone and loneliness.

 

I've decided that I like the company of myself much better than that of others and am usually happiest doing things on my own. Reading, exploring new towns (ask some of the guys I've accompanied ;-), or going out.

Not to say I'm antisocial. :-)

 

 

I've also realized that I never feel lonelier than when surrounded by or immersed within a large group of friends. While in groups of 3 or 4 I'm happy to rule the circle, with loads of periphery acquaintances in tow, I slip back to the edge.

[Vincent_Michael]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

Here I am walking with my friend tonight and his lover calls upseat because of what I would consider a joke...He rushes home in a hurry to calm him down.

 

If this is what relationships about I have to agree with you I am happy being alone...I love my freind but I hate seing something so stupid make his day go bad.

 

Please God let there be a mature man for ME! LoL

[Vincent_Michael]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

Here I am walking with my friend tonight and his lover calls upseat because of what I would consider a joke...He rushes home in a hurry to calm him down.

 

If this is what relationships about I have to agree with you I am happy being alone...I love my freind but I hate seing something so stupid make his day go bad.

 

Please God let there be a mature man for ME! LoL

[Rick Munroe]

>I don't think that feeling lonely late at night is something

>unusual...

 

BG, Vincent said that he feels most alone around 12pm-1pm, not late at night. Is that late night to you? And I thought I was the vampire around here!

 

>...especially for gay men without partners.

 

I disagree. It's not a straight or gay issue; it's a human issue. Why would a straight single person feel less alone than a gay single person?

 

>Many

>(most?) of us live alone

 

How can you possibly know or assume that? That is such a dated stereotype of the lonely homosexual.

[Rick Munroe]

>I don't think that feeling lonely late at night is something

>unusual...

 

BG, Vincent said that he feels most alone around 12pm-1pm, not late at night. Is that late night to you? And I thought I was the vampire around here!

 

>...especially for gay men without partners.

 

I disagree. It's not a straight or gay issue; it's a human issue. Why would a straight single person feel less alone than a gay single person?

 

>Many

>(most?) of us live alone

 

How can you possibly know or assume that? That is such a dated stereotype of the lonely homosexual.

[Rick Munroe]

>I dont know if anyone is intrested but I am reading "Just A

>Geek" it is a awsome book and I would recomend it to

>anyone....If your a Geek like me.

 

Wait a minute; in your first post, you said you were Greek, but now you say you're a geek. Was it a typo or are you a Greek geek? As for me, I'm a hebe w-h-o-r-e. :+

[Rick Munroe]

>I dont know if anyone is intrested but I am reading "Just A

>Geek" it is a awsome book and I would recomend it to

>anyone....If your a Geek like me.

 

Wait a minute; in your first post, you said you were Greek, but now you say you're a geek. Was it a typo or are you a Greek geek? As for me, I'm a hebe w-h-o-r-e. :+

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

>I mean in this Job of escorting you sit and sit and it dawns

>on you that you are not normal and alone...

 

Maybe it's all that sitting. Try some calisthenics.

 

>I suppose thats why

>allot of escorts are addicts of drugs and what not

 

Vincent, all kinds of people in all kinds of professions are drug addicts, for many reasons. And is it really true that "a lot" of escorts are drug users or is that just another stereotype? Most of the ones I've met don't party at all, and yet every now and then someone will post on here that lots of escorts are drug addicts, but no one ever gives any hard facts to back it up. I wonder (seriously) how much is truth and how much is myth.

 

Anyway, I'm sorry you've been feeling lonely. I don't mean to give you a hard time but sometimes that's my job around here. By the way, you're fuckin' cute. ;-)

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Alone Again, Naturally

 

>I mean in this Job of escorting you sit and sit and it dawns

>on you that you are not normal and alone...

 

Maybe it's all that sitting. Try some calisthenics.

 

>I suppose thats why

>allot of escorts are addicts of drugs and what not

 

Vincent, all kinds of people in all kinds of professions are drug addicts, for many reasons. And is it really true that "a lot" of escorts are drug users or is that just another stereotype? Most of the ones I've met don't party at all, and yet every now and then someone will post on here that lots of escorts are drug addicts, but no one ever gives any hard facts to back it up. I wonder (seriously) how much is truth and how much is myth.

 

Anyway, I'm sorry you've been feeling lonely. I don't mean to give you a hard time but sometimes that's my job around here. By the way, you're fuckin' cute. ;-)