Travelling with an escort

[Guest londonfog]

Hi,

 

I am thinking of taking an escort with me on a week-long trip in the late summer. I have never done it. How can I make sure this is a success ?

 

The obvious are discussing financials and expectations, but what are the other golden rules ? How do I select this guy ? I have hired escort several times but never for longer than an overnight. This is a special trip to celebrate my financial comeback. The way I see it is a trip to a place I like (I haven't decided where yet), with a companion that is there to indulge me.

 

On one hand I have no intention of sounding bossy or worse... but on the other hand I am thinking of hiring an escort to have a companion centered towards me, otherwise I could go with a friend. Sex is only part of the picture. What I expect is somebody that may take ma out of the shell I had to put myself into for the past two years.

 

Alternatively, how can I make sure that things will go right ?

 

Advice from both sides (clients and escorts) will be extremely appreciated. Bear in mind that I have no idea of the destination and that can be worked out with the escor from a list of options.

 

Thanks for your help

 

londonfog

[+ Hoover42]

Though it does not precisely address your question, here is a discussion of weekend visits that you might find interesting if you haven't already seen it.

 

http://babydb.male4malescorts.com/dc/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=3385&mesg_id=3385&listing_type=search

 

...Hoover

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

First & foremost, be upfront with your expectations~

 

Opening that line of communication is a huge issue, thus cutting down on any problems that might occur once the two of you have met. Make sure you're comfortable with the escort, can talk candidly about what you enjoy (sexually and otherwise) & what you don't enjoy while generally building some basic trust in someone you'll be spending an extended amount of time with.

 

As Chuck50 says around here, 'Do your homework.' I cannot stress this enough, as a majority of the problems i've seen between escorts & the guys they meet with usually fall into the ' bad assumption' category... Either party makes assumptions about a situation without asking directly and suddenly the glitch happens. Any good escort will always leave the line of communication wide open and be willing to ebb & flow depending on the circumstance. At no time should you ever feel embarassed or uncomfortable with what's happening between you and the escort you're seeing.

 

I wish you the best on this extended trip and hope you'll let us know how things went here on the MC when all is said & done. Enjoy yourself

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[AaronScottDC]

>Hi,

>

>I am thinking of taking an escort with me on a week-long trip

>in the late summer. I have never done it. How can I make sure

>this is a success ?

>

>The obvious are discussing financials and expectations, but

>what are the other golden rules ? How do I select this guy ? I

>have hired escort several times but never for longer than an

>overnight. This is a special trip to celebrate my financial

>comeback. The way I see it is a trip to a place I like (I

>haven't decided where yet), with a companion that is there to

>indulge me.

>

>On one hand I have no intention of sounding bossy or worse...

>but on the other hand I am thinking of hiring an escort to

>have a companion centered towards me, otherwise I could go

>with a friend. Sex is only part of the picture. What I expect

>is somebody that may take ma out of the shell I had to put

>myself into for the past two years.

>

>Alternatively, how can I make sure that things will go right

>?

>

>Advice from both sides (clients and escorts) will be extremely

>appreciated. Bear in mind that I have no idea of the

>destination and that can be worked out with the escor from a

>list of options.

>

>Thanks for your help

>

>londonfog

 

Hey Londonfog, congrats on deciding to treat yourself to a trip with an escort! I am sure you will have a great time, as long as you follow some of the suggestions given to you so far in this thread.

 

Benjamin pointed out the most crucial, and obvious thing that needs to take place between you and your chosen companion: communication. You will need to be as specific as you can as to what you expect from your companion.

 

Such as, will you require him to be with you 24 hours a day, seven days a week while you are on this trip? Will you already have your schedule for each day planned out in advance with a list of specific activities, or would you like him to make suggestions as to what you do each day? Are you taking this trip as more of a relaxing, laid back type of trip, or is it more of a sightseeing adventure? What types of food do each of you enjoy? What type of atmosphere are each of you most comfortable hanging out in, casual, dressy, etc.?

 

Also, you might want to talk a little bit about sleeping habits, too.

I once took a week long trip to London with a client who had a severe case of sleep apnea (where the person literally stops breathing for a little while, then snorts/gasps/wheezes for a while to regain a regular breathing rhythm again - not fun). Unfortunately, he failed to mention this little detail to me before I made the red-eye flight across the big pond to meet up with him. Needless to say, that after not getting much sleep on the plane, and after hearing his incredibly loud gasps for air the entire first night in London, I was not in the best of spirits for the rest of the trip.

 

So, as long as you give your potential travelers as much information about your plans and habits as you can, you will be much more likely to find someone who is compatible with you and who will have a great time together with you. And, during your trip, no matter how much planning you may have put into it, try your best to go with the flow and take any minor glitches which may occur in stride.

 

I hope you have a great time!

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Vacations With Escorts

 

This topic was discussed in depth in a post on "vacationing with an escort" and you can review that thread here:

 

http://babydb.male4malescorts.com/dc/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=7&topic_id=41410&mesg_id=41410&listing_type=search

 

It has similar and overlapping advise to what you have received here, although you will unfortunately have to wade through some of the argumentative and unnecessary tangents that certain parties engage in the Message Center.

 

As I have long pointed out, the most important thing you can do is know what you want and what your expectations are and to verbalize them; as well, you need to be respectfully of the escorts you contact and make sure they are explicit with their needs and desires.

 

The consensus opinion, particularly from clients, is that it is always best to travel and/or do long term hire situations with an escort you have met before. As Marc Anthony once pointed out in a thread on rates for week long hires (which you can also search for, if you think it pertinent), when you have an existing relationship with your escorts, they are also more likely to consider what you are offering and take it into account when they discuss the financial and other circumstances of your situation.

 

In any event, since you are going to spend a certain amoung of money and this is a unique and special situation for you, you want to do everything possible to make sure it remains special and memorable once it actually is going on and afterwards. This involves, as Aaron commented, as much communication as it takes.

 

I hope you explore a truly great vacation site and that your trip is the special celebration you seek.

[HooBoy]

RE: Vacations With Escorts

 

Totally Oz, who often travels with escorts, taught me a lesson when he said he pays his traveling companion on a daily basis and thinks many men get confused about the business relationship.

 

A great friend of mine who escorts calls me from time to time on his long trips with clients to vent that the client "crossed the line." (He and I never have sex with each other nor have we had a business relationship of any kind. But I love him like a brother and for some reason we clicked as friends. I think sex, although I am sure he is great at it, would probably ruin our relationship as it does most, gay or straight.)

 

I think finding anyone who is a compatible traveling companion is extremely difficult. And when they're young, dumb and full of cum, its even more taxing on the patience of a curmudgeon as myself. So I'm happy to throw $180 for a good 30 mintues with certain Flirt For Free guys on my computer and not have to wake up in the morning, trying to remember his name, smell his breath or watch him change clothes 15 times before finally leaving my room, only to return because he forgot something.

 

Mark has traveling with twinks down to a knack, but he is such a laid back guy, I would love to be his traveling companion. Unfortunately, I am a few years past twinkdom. I like doing what I want when want without having to consider what the other person wants. Yes, it's a very selfish existence, but it floats my boat. When I travel with someone, I usually flip to the opposite and generally just go with the flow, letting someone else make the decisions. When I take control, I worry that someone in the group is unhappy over my decision so when I give in to someone else's choice of what to do, unless I'm being dragged to a drag show, I typically shut up.

 

Thanks to Oz, I'll now pay on a daily basis for the time and effort it must take to be around me because I can be no day at the beach, although when the person I am with catches on to my humor, like tasting the wine at a fine restaurant and then falling out of my chair gagging and choking, we typically get along. The waiters always love it, except in France.

 

:+

[Guest londonfog]

RE: Vacations With Escorts

 

Thanks to everybody for their answers. My main reason to travel with an escort is to have a travelling companion with some 'fooling around' thrown in.

 

I have had overnight with escorts and I had two successful weekend with escorts (a third was a bit of a flop when the guy met a man and fell in love, and stayed over. To this escort's credit he refunded me of expenses and his fees and he even insisted on giving me a freebie as an apology)

 

I appreciate that chemistry is important. i used to love my own company and i used to feel fine travelling alone.

Now i do not, that trip should mark the end of a tough time. So I want to make it special. I had a few interesting tips. Now... the fun part... selection!

 

Thanks again

 

londonfog

[+ Cash4Trash]

RE: Vacations With Escorts

 

I recently spent a week with Dino from New York in Costa Rica.

It couldn't have gone better or been more fun. We've known each

other for 3 years and get together frequently.

 

Communication is essential, we spent some time apart but not much

and stayed busy doing tourist things we both enjoyed. We're both

pretty low maintenance and now have nothing but great memories.

He gave me a photo album filled with pictures he took...a wonderful

end to my first trip with an escort.

 

So pick the right guy and enjoy the trip.

[HooBoy]

RE: Vacations With Escorts

 

No matter what you are paying the escort and no matter how much fun YOU are having, give him space and a few hours a day to

 

1 Check his emai

 

2. Check his cellphone

 

3. Go to the gym

 

4. Get away from you.

 

IMHO

[woodlawn]

How can you be sure you've made the right choice? The correct answer is, you can't be sure. There's no way to know what an escort will be like as a traveling companion unless you've actually traveled with him.

 

Talking to an escort in great detail about your expectations is a fine idea, but it only works if he is articulate enough to explain what he is and is not comfortable doing, and if he is not the sort of person who will conceal whatever reservations he has about traveling with you because he wants to earn a big fee or get a free trip.

 

There are plenty of escorts who can pretend they enjoy your company for an hour. There are comparatively few who are capable of doing it 24 hours a day for days at a time. Finding one who can takes time and effort. If you're prepared to do that, you will eventually succeed. Good luck.

[Chuck50]

i would not take someon untried with me. I have taken two guys on trips of up to a week. SanDiego Dave and Adrian from Orlando. With Dave it was a cruise that was harder as there are not as many get away places and was hard to keep in contact bu phone or email with others. With Adrian we did some things together and some apart at Vegas/ Yes you need your own space no matter how nice they are. Bottom line I had been with both for overnights or several days before the big trip. HUGS Chuck and remember to do your homework at least that will help some.

[LovesYng]

>i would not take someon untried with me. I have taken two

>guys on trips of up to a week. SanDiego Dave and Adrian from

>Orlando. With Dave it was a cruise that was harder as there

>are not as many get away places and was hard to keep in

>contact bu phone or email with others. With Adrian we did some

>things together and some apart at Vegas/ Yes you need your own

>space no matter how nice they are. Bottom line I had been with

>both for overnights or several days before the big trip. HUGS

> Chuck and remember to do your homework at least that will

>help some.

 

Thanks Chuck, I can always count on you doing the homework first, you always gave me good choices. Tell Dave HELLO

[Epigonos]

As a client who has traveled with an escort on several occasions I strongly agree with garbo the hoo's comment. Give both yourself and the escort some separate time. Just because he is spending a number of days with you doesn't mean that he can or should be expected to neglect his continuing business obligations.

My main suggestion regarding who to select is to start out slowly. You have stated that you have done overnights and weekends with some escorts. These guys are your best bets. Stick with proven success. I use escorts on a regular basis for dinner and an evening together and have never really had a bad experience. However, I travel only with Steven San Francisco/Portland. This has worked for me (us I hope because we started out with an overnight, progressed to an extended weekend, continued to several days and am now planning to spend a week together in Acapulco at the Las Brisas Hotel.

As far as site selection is concerned I would recommend that you select a place with multiple activities available. A beach resort tends to work well if it is near some interesting places you can visit and provides a variety of places to eat and shop.

Good Luck and Have Fun

 

Epigonos

[+ cougar]

expect even the unexpected

 

I think traveling with an esort could be nice, however, anything can happen. I planned a trip with an escort and he stood me up at the airport in a different city. Expect the unexpected, I will try to post the link here to the MC post regarding that failed trip that occured back in November.

 

http://babydb.male4malescorts.com/dc/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=7&topic_id=39841&mesg_id=39841&listing_type=search

[+ nycman]

RE: expect even the unexpected

 

Just curious Cougar....do you still see this escort?

[+ cougar]

still see him?

 

It has been four months since he stood me up for the trip, we are communicating again and I would like to see if we can arrange appointments together. However, he is in the drivers seat on this one and I just have to let him make the call.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

First time: shame on him, second time: shame on me.

 

>It has been four months since he stood me up for the trip, we

>are communicating again and I would like to see if we can

>arrange appointments together. However, he is in the drivers

>seat on this one and I just have to let him make the call.

 

 

In your boots on this one, I would take the wheel and drive on by. There are two no-no's I cannot abide and both seem to apply here. If he has the capacity to do it once he has the capacity to repeat.

[woodlawn]

Aiden in Tampa

 

>It has been four months since he stood me up for the trip, we

>are communicating again and I would like to see if we can

>arrange appointments together. However, he is in the drivers

>seat on this one and I just have to let him make the call.

 

I seem to recall that you posted a review on this site reporting three no-shows in a row by this escort, who is Aiden in Tampa, including the trip that you refer to above and two other appointments. I recall that he then posted a response in which he denied everything, calling your review "bogus." In fact, while writing this post I checked his reviews and I see that that is correct.

 

Would you really consider hiring someone who not only stood you up on several different occasions but who called you a liar when you complained about it? What exactly would he have to do before you came to the conclusion that you should stay away from him?

[+ cougar]

RE: traveling

 

Woodlawn & Tampa Yankee,

Yes you both are correct - thanks for the reality check

[Juan Vancouver]

First of all, congratulations, Londonfog!

To begin this new stage in your life, celebrating and pampering yourself with such a nice gift is wise and very generous towards your needs. And to make it even better you are doing your homework! All this, in itself is a very good indication that you WILL have a great time. All the advise that you have gotten before sounds great and very wise, communication, spending some time before your trip, making sure you are compatible, making sure you do well in bed, but I want to add something.

My best travelling experience with a client was with a regular that I had for more than a year, so we knew each other really good. When we got to our destination, He told me that he wanted me to spend sometime by myself. I insisted that I was there to be with him, but time proved him right. In escorting as well as in relationships, a little time appart makes you miss the other person, and will make the whole experience a lot more pleasurable. And I am talking here about one hour a day, or so. An escort is not a company machine, and if you treat him as a nice human being that you respect and honour, you might be shocked with the results! Make sure that he does massage if you like it, that he listens to the same kind of music, that he dances or not, that he does the same sports, has the same hobbies.... make sure that you will genuinely enjoy the same things... And of course, you both should be focusing on you, but to make it genuine fun, fully honest and pleasurable, he has to be enjoying too.

Hope that you choose the right guy, and that your coming back to business is fully successful! Congratulations and happy traveling!

[Alex Berlanti]

>Hi,

>

>I am thinking of taking an escort with me on a week-long trip

>in the late summer. I have never done it. How can I make sure

>this is a success ?

>

>The obvious are discussing financials and expectations, but

>what are the other golden rules ? How do I select this guy ? I

>have hired escort several times but never for longer than an

>overnight. This is a special trip to celebrate my financial

>comeback. The way I see it is a trip to a place I like (I

>haven't decided where yet), with a companion that is there to

>indulge me.

>

 

Hi,

 

I think if I were in your shoes, you mentioned that you have hired escorts for overnight visists in the past. If I may make a suggestion and do the same thing again with some that you may have your eye on, and then narrow it down and have a couple of them back for a weekend visit before your trip to help in your final decision making process, at least that way whoever you choose to take with you you'll have spent 72 hours with that person all together, and if that all goes well hey you should have built up enough confidence in your decision and the two of you should have a wonderful trip together.

 

 

Best Wishes.

 

Alex Berlanti

 

alexberlantixxx@cox.net

 

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/alexberlantiwichita.html