A 1st time client gives you

[queeries]

crabs. You don't notice until a few days later. In the days between you meet some clients. How does an escort handle this tricky situation. Should the escort inform (however discreetly) the clients and what should the escort say to the 1st timer who gave him crabs?

 

Do appreciate all answers and tips..

thanx

[guptasa1]

Ouchies - that's a tough situation. Well, if it helps, if you as an escort told me as a client I'd been exposed to crabs and explained what had happened, even if I developed crabs myself, I don't think I'd hold it against you personally (though of course I'd be uncomfortable that I got them), and I might even trust you more afterwards that you had the balls to tell me. I think I'd be more irritated if I contracted it and you didn't say anything, and though I wouldn't be extremely angry, I likely wouldn't rehire you or at least would think twice about it and maybe even question your honestly/safety. If you DID tell me, however, and I had had an otherwise positive experience, I'd probably joke about it with you next time, make sure the problem was resolved on both our ends, and be fine with setting something up again with you.

 

As to the client who gave you the crabs in the first place, that's tricker. I think I'd contact him and try to discuss it with him, not accusatorily, but honestly, and see what he says. Who knows - maybe he ran into a bad experience accidentally as well (though doubtful), but if not and he seemed unapologetic about it and hadn't seeked a remedy, I don't think I'd let him see you again.

[VaHawk]

How are you positive that it was this one client that gave you crabs when, as you state, he wasn't the only client you saw before you noticed that you had crab infestation? Couldn't it have been one of your regulars as I assume you didn't notice until after your encounters with them.

 

You also don't state where the encounter with the first time client, or for that matter the other clients occurred. If in a hotel, then it could have been infested bed linens and the first time client is also wondering if he should call you and tell you that you gave him crabs.

 

Anyways, by now all parties involved know that they have the crabbies and all of them may be blaming you, which is not going to make them feel too highly about you.

 

As such,I think you should call all parties to inform/ask without accusations just so there is no wondering or finger pointing. It's not like anyone got VD!

[Guest Merlin]

If you do not inform them, your reputation will suffer, although most clients probably do not compare notes with others. If you do they will realize that you are a clean and healthy person who had an unfortunate incident. Also it is easier to solve the problem if caught early.

[N.N.]

Be real happy that it was crabs and not scabies.

[+ Charlie]

What do you mean, "most clients do not compare notes with others"?! Isn't that the whole point of this website? I'd contact all the clients immediately, before a review appears here!

 

And I agree that there should be no accusations, even if your sexual encounters have been spaced so far apart that you can be absolutely positive that only one person could have been responsible, since he may also have just acquired the crabs and not have realized it before he had sex with you. (For the record, when I was a young slut, I got crabs without knowing what they were, and passed them on out of ignorance, not carelessness or malice.)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Nailed On The First Attempt

 

The prior answer is about as complete and accurate as I could give, except for one final thought:

 

Escorts or non-escorts, everyone would have a responsibility to tell all of his sexual partners about an STD.

 

 

because we still have that capacity, in the flesh, of the unrealized - the possible . . .

 

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francodisantis

[Guest Merlin]

Comparing notes is indeed the purpose of this forum, but I think it is safe to assume that only a very small portion of clients use this forum.