NEW HERE, AND NEED TO KNOW HOW THIS WORKS

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HI FORUM

 

I AM NEW TO THIS SITE AND NEED ADVICE. I HAVE HIRED ESCORTS ON OCCASION WHEN I AM IN BETWEEN BOYFRIENDS OR BEING FRISKY.

I AM ABOUT TO HIRE AN ESCORT FOR AN OVERNIGHT AND NEED TO KNOW WHAT THAT EXACTLY ENTIALS? CAN YOU HELP ME OUT? IS WANTING THE ESCORT TO CUM A FEW TIMES ALRIGHT TO INSIST ON? I AM A BIT TIMID ABOUT THIS AND WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS

THANKS

[+ Lucky]

Hi

So nice to have you on board. We are always happy to have new posters to join the mix. I will let someone else tell you about the capital letters. You will find this site full of the information you are looking for, especially if you try the archived posts.

Now that I know you really mean it, I will look forward to your next post!

[Guest Bitchboy]

I meant it TOO, Lucky.:-(

[Guest bottomboykk]

OK, I'll be the one to mention the ALL CAPS. That's a major no-no on the web. It's the equivalent of shouting at someone. Please turn off the caps lock key when you post here or anyplace on the web!

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hi

 

can i please get some answers now that i am lower cased?

 

xo

[+ Lucky]

Your next post made me laugh. Thanks!

Sorry, but I have never hired for an overnight. The biggest thing I remember from these posts though is to make sure you are compatible. So it is a good idea to have had a prior experience with the person you select.

Does that help?

 

Confidential to Bitchboy: I knew you did!

[Guest jeffOH]

Cameron

 

It would be best to discuss with the escort you'd like to hire exactly what you'd like to happen. DON'T insist on anything, otherwise you may come across as high-maintenance and scare the potential hire off.

 

Also, don't over-plan your encounter with an escort. You're most likely to be disappointed if you have too many expectations. Take some time to thoroughly read an escort's reviews you'd like to hire.

I think that's one of the best ways to determine if he'll fit into your fantasy.

 

Have Fun!}(

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[Rick Munroe]

>IS WANTING THE ESCORT TO CUM A FEW TIMES ALRIGHT TO INSIST ON?

 

JeffOH is absolutely right that you shouldn't insist on anything. We're human beings, not robots or machines. Definitely let the escort know what you like & what you're into but don't present a laundry-list of demands or you'll probably turn him off. At all times, both the escort and the client must treat each other with respect.

[Chuck50]

I can only tell you from my experience of almost 2 yrs what has happened with me. I am not the norm as I almost only obtain escorts for overnight. I can tell you that I do my homework on here and start some type of relationship with them. Phone, emails or combo of both works. When we meet there is not much left to talk about. We just have fun, go to dinner, talk and get to know each other and then yes we do eventually turn to sex of some kind depending on what we talked about. I am not hard to please. I guess you could say somewhat easy. But I love my guys to be fun, educated and full of conversation. We like to do most things in additon to the obvious sex. Once again. I am mostly Vanilla by nature but every once in awhile I like a little sometthing new. To get fucked or something like that. But the key to the answer is "Ask and you shall receive" if you don't then they won't know what you want and you won't know what to expect. BUT talking about it will make it be fun for both. HUGS CHUCK:9

[Huey]

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[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Home Work

 

>I can only tell you from my experience of almost 2 yrs what

>has happened with me. I am not the norm as I almost only

>obtain escorts for overnight. I can tell you that I do my

>homework on here and start some type of relationship with

>them. Phone, emails or combo of both works. When we meet there

>is not much left to talk about. We just have fun, go to

>dinner, talk and get to know each other and then yes we do

>eventually turn to sex of some kind depending on what we

>talked about.

 

Generally, this is ALWAYS excellent advice. However, unless Chuck spends a great deal of time talking with his escorts, I cannot imagine not finding much to talk about - at least, not with this escort.

 

The process of getting to know one another is good, and it is possible to have a good overnight experience with someone you have not met, but IMHO, the clients I have met before probably had a better experience and more of a quality experience than the two clients who had not ever met me before and had only engaged in long distance communication.

 

 

But the key to the answer is

>"Ask and you shall receive" if you don't then they won't know

>what you want and you won't know what to expect. BUT talking

>about it will make it be fun for both.

 

I am [b[TOTALLT[/b] in agreement with Chuck on this, for overnights AND all other encountes with an escort or a client.

 

Good luck with your experience.

[Guest RetrdEscrt]

Ok Overnights aren't the nightmare some guys make them out.

 

Firstly i would imagine you have a selection of guys in mind,believe me most guys love an overnighter,there is no rush to get everything done and both of you can take your time and the experience should be great.

 

If you have selected the guy for you and have contacted him by whatever means then you will exchange details about each other,maybe the odd photo has been exchanged and things such as fee/time/location will have been discussed.Don't feel nervous about asking your escort anything ,thats what we are here for,don't forget we have had MUCH more experience in this than the vast majority of clients, especially if you hire an experienced escort which i would suggest for an overnight.

 

Let the escort now what sort of stuff you expect to happen,as someone else said we are human beings not robots !!! ,tell him what you like to do and what turns you off,he will then get an idea of how the date can go,if you have any special things you like having done kissing/cuddling/spanking whatever floats your boat then say so,most experienced escorts will have seen EVERYTHING and surprisingly we aren't telepathic so we have to know some stuff.It's much easier telling the guy beforehand rather than nervously getting down to it when the appt happens.

 

On the night you will be nervous-its natural and you are only human,a good escort will relax you and get you in the mood ,the great thing about an overnight which is usually 12 hours is that you can take your time as i said earlier,maybe you can grab a bite to eat have a bottle of wine between you ,or you can just drag him into the bedroom and get on down ,remember though that the escort will and should know what he is doing so if it feels good just lay back and have a good time !!!.

 

Hope everything is cool for you on the night.:o

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hi

 

thanks for all the feedback. the guy i have picked is someone i saw awhile back on a website,but has yet to be reviewed.

my appointment is for sunday..is it a mistake for me to hire someone not reviewed on this site! ugh! help!

[langster]

One word is "COMMUNICATION"! Talk to the escort, let him know what you want, expect, and he will let you know if he is willing to accommadate you for the overnight! Then go from there. I have done 1,2,3 hour appointments before but find overnights far superior to the hourly appointments. First few times I did alot of planning with lots of things to do and although that is good and all I have found that enjoying each other's company with dinner and a bar or two is all that I need. I do like to have several sexual encounters and that should be discussed before hand also as some escorts may but a limit on how many times they will do it on an overnight. I would like to hear some comments from some escorts if they do put a limit on this and if they do how many. I have truely had some great experiances with overnight escorts as they too I think enjoy not a "wam bam thank you man" hour encounter! Pick carefully and have fun, I will in Dallas next week}(

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Not Necessarily

 

>hi

>

>thanks for all the feedback. the guy i have picked is

>someone i saw awhile back on a website,but has yet to be

>reviewed.

>my appointment is for sunday..is it a mistake for me to hire

>someone not reviewed on this site! ugh! help!

 

 

Good reviews are a good indication that the person is someone you may want to spend an hour with, much less a night.

 

It is not that overnights may be nightmares, Retired Escort, but that it is a long time to spend with a stranger. It appears the client here (at least you have not indicated it otherwise), has not spent a lot of time communicating with his escort. If you have spent this time and you FEEL comfortable with your selection, it is not a mistake.

 

Friday or Saturday is somewhat late to cancel an overnight, especially if the escort has requested a deposit. However, it certainly is not late to spend some time communicating with the escort to establish a rapport.

 

That is the key to making a good session, whether it is an hour or eight. And yes, I totally agree with Langster, I prefer spending several hours with my clients. I think we both get more out of the experience that way and the overall impression of what I am providing and they are receiving is more accurate.

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hi

 

 

would it be smart to ask the escort to try the first hour as an hourly fee and then upgrade to the overnight if i am feeling the right chemistry? is that inappropriate to ask, i certainly do not want to offend him..i want to have a great time, but i dont want to be disappointed.

 

thanks

[Guest jeffOH]

Cameron

 

I prefer to have done at least a one hour appointment with a client who wants an overnight. Gives both the escort and the client an opportunity to decide if they want to spend the whole night with each

other.

 

As far as turning an hour appt. into an overnight, well, I for one like more notice than that. Plus, you can avoid an awkward situation where you've expressed an interest in a possible overnight, but decide not to after spending an hour with an escort.

 

Try an hour or two with an escort before you make a decision to spend the big bucks for an overnighter.

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

"Also, don't over-plan your encounter with an escort. You're most likely to be disappointed if you have too many expectations. Take some time to thoroughly read an escort's reviews you'd like to hire.

I think that's one of the best ways to determine if he'll fit into your fantasy."

 

Awesome advise, thank you

[Flower]

So Cammeron--Sunday has come and gone--you gonna tell us how it went?

 

As Chuck said earlier, I mostly do overnights or weekends with an escort, and I will almost ALLWAYS do a one hour session before doing an overnight, especially if not reviewed here.

 

Let us know, and if it went well, then great. If it didn't, then don't be discouraged, but use some of the advise above for next time.