arranging a three-some?

[Guest curious1]

Hi,

 

I'm curious (hence the handle name I use). I would like to try a three-some, but was wondering the following:

 

a) Should I contact an escort and ask if he can arrange it (if he likes doing three-somes, or knows somebody to do that with,that is)?

 

b)Should I try to arrange it myself, contacting two separate escorts?

 

I guess that's about it? Any "pointers" from anyone?

 

curious! :9

[hiJinX]

When investigating hiring 2 escorts for fun I found a couple escorts that I liked separately. I wasn't sure if they knew one another so I emailed each about what I had in mind. As it turns out, they HAD worked together in the past and had a great time. One offered to set everything up and the other offered to discount his rate because he looked forward to working with the other escort again.

I guess things to look out for are incompatible roles each person involved. Like 3 exclusive tops together will likely not be as much fun as a total top, a pig bottom and a versatile friend. 2 total tops and a pig bottom could be fun too. Depends on what you are looking for.

The bar for threesomes I've read about here has been set by the Gino Mancuso/Renn/Rex Brant in NYC combo from 12/14/01.

review #22 here:

http://207.14.53.20/reviews/ginonyc.html

again depends on what you are looking for. I'd say figure that out then find a couple of guys who you are intersted in, then contact them separately and see where things go....I doubt you will offend anyone.

good luck,

[Chuck50]

I have had a few threesomes on here and they were most coupled already which was nice cause they were into it. Adrian and Blake in Orlando were hot. Also Kristian and Athan in Houston although don't know there status. Ans then there always is and its on my to-do list. Our own RIck Mumroe and Derek Ross. HUgs CHuck:9

[Guest Smoothee]

>I have had a few threesomes on here and they were most

>coupled already which was nice cause they were into it.

 

Me too. I think when they don't know each other, there's a possibility they could be more into each other than into you. With a couple, you kind of feel like your the special guest of honor. To me, it's better to be with a couple and get to see how they interact with each other and also know that there won't be any surprises. By the way Chuck, I have been with Rick and Derek and I keep going back for more! They really make you feel special.

[Chuck50]

Thanks Smoothie. As that great old song goes "One day we will be together" I have talked to Rick on here and we will set something up almost did but wasnt enough time to make it right. I know he Rick is special if only by his posts nut sure there are other reasons. LOL. HUGS Chuck

 

Thanks again:P

[Rick Munroe]

>not sure there are other reasons. LOL.

 

<---Here's one reason and Derek's got a few more of his own. }( (couldn't resist)

[OneFinger]

You might want to check the Saturday (11/30) review of Jon B in Salt Lake City. He participated in a 3-way set up by an escort in the Northwest.

 

Whenever possible, I believe it would be easier and more practical to have the arrangements made by another escort. It's been my experience that they know who else is out there and could probably make a better choice than you trying to do it on your own.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Schedules

 

The most frustrating thing about having the escort make the arrangements is trying to coordinate all the schedules. This is particularly true when the client wants say three or more tops.

 

I recently had two back to back requests, from two different men, for a very specific thing: 2 or 3 tops who were bisexual or gay for pay. Since I am neither, I was wondering why I was lucky enough to get the request and, (surprisingly) long story short, both request did not end up on a hire for me (or anyone else), only occassioned a number of telephone calls, emails, conversations and about 2-3 hours each day over a weekend.

 

When clients ask why are an escorts fees high, these are the kinds of stories I tell them about.

 

On the other hand, if I am going to be in a threeway, I do like to organize it, if the client requesting it came to me first or is my regular. I like to make sure my client's needs are met and taken into account. One of the worst experiences I had was when my client hired me and another escort and the second escort was only interested in having me and my client fuck him. He even refused to go down on my client after my client refused to fuck him. I politely took him to the bathroom and asked him to leave.

 

Threeways can be great experiences, for the escorts and the clients, but my concern always is the satisfaction of my clients and sometimes that is hard to achieve when you do not know the other escort. I therefore do prefer to work with guys I know and I know from the post here that this is also true of others. I do agree that a couple such as Athan and Kristian or Derick and Rick would be ideal, assuming they were the client's type.

[AaronScottDC]

Hey Curious,

 

If you already have a couple of escorts in mind, either because you have already met them separately (or you really want to meet them) then go ahead and contact them yourself and ask if they would be into a threeway with you. Some escorts really enjoy threeways, some aren't into it as much. Just be up front with them and let them decide. The thing that can be a bit disconcerting (at least to me) is when you show up at a client's place and there is already an escort there and the client says, "I thought I would surprise you!" While this method certainly may cause a surprise, if everyone isn't on the same page, it may not work out as well as you would like.

 

If you don't have a couple of escorts in mind, then either contact one escort you have already met and ask if they could set up the threeway for you, or go for one of the "dynamic duo's" already reviewed here on this site. If a client contacts me for a third, I always go with my good friend, Luke. We have had a few meetings together and feel very comfortable with each other. Therefore, we can focus all of our efforts into pleasing our "third party" while thoroughly enjoying the moment ourselves! :9

 

I hope you have fun in your threeway! :-)

 

Aaron Scott DC

[CT Dick]

>a) Should I contact an escort and ask if he can arrange it

>(if he likes doing three-somes, or knows somebody to do that

>with,that is)?

 

Yes. My experience is that escorts who have been around awhile usually have someone they work with. Let him make the arrangements after you tell him what you want.

 

Dick

[Chuck50]

RE: Schedules

 

Yes They were my type there Franco Had a hot time With Kristian and Athan and Yes Adrian and Blake. Still want to see Rick and Derck HUGs Chuck

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Schedules

 

>Still want to see Rick and Derek

 

Looking forward to it, Chuck. }(

[Tommygunzz]

I'm the happy bottom who was with Jon B. and Alex in Salt Lake a couple of weeks ago. In arranging this 3 way, I let Alex take care of the details. He knew me from previous encounters, so he had a good idea of what I liked.

 

I think letting him take care of the details was the way to go for several reasons: 1) The element of surprise and not knowing who he would select was a big turn on for me. 2) I think an escort-to-escort negotiation is a bonus. Since I hired Alex, and Alex hired Jon, it was up to Alex to make sure that Jon did what ALEX expected of him, and simply put, Alex wanted Jon to make sure that I was taken care of. (BTW--I couldn't have been more satisfied with both of these guys.) 3) Financially, I gave Alex the funds to hire Jon. It was enough to cover what I thought would be the normal expense. Alex was left to his own negotiating, and I wanted him to keep any extra after he paid Jon his agreed upon fee. Bonus for Alex to do a good job. 4) Alex was the the orchestrator of the 3 way. He made sure that I had fun; in turn he had fun to know that he did something nice for me; and Jon had fun since he got to be with 2 other really nice guys for a couple hours of fun.

 

All in all, it was an excellent situation for all of us. I was TOTALLY satisfied with both men. It was the second time that Alex has done this for me--he's a true professional.

 

One last note---Alex is reviewed as Alex in Portland, OR, HardJock8@yahoo.com. Jon is reviewed as JonB in Salt Lake City, UT. Both are highly recommended by me if you are looking for incredible tops.