What do you do when you’re all booked up?

[bigdipper]

When you’re traveling to a city for just a weekend and become booked solid with appointments, do you politely decline new requests for appointments or just not respond to the person?

[+ nycman]

One should always politely decline. 

It takes less than 2 seconds.

Cut and paste a canned response, if you’re truly deluged with requests.

You never know when you’ll be in that part of the world again, or he in yours.

I would never reach out to someone a second time at any point in the future who didn’t even bother with a polite and simple "I’m sorry I’m all booked up. Hope to see you another time."  I refuse to give my business to those who can’t run theirs. 

[HornyLatinBi]

11 minutes ago, nycman said:

One should always politely decline. 

It takes less than 2 seconds.

Cut and paste a canned response, if you’re truly deluged with requests.

You never know when you’ll be in that part of the world again, or he in yours.

I would never reach out to someone a second time at any point in the future who didn’t even bother with a polite and simple "I’m sorry I’m all booked up. Hope to see you another time."  I refuse to give my business to those who can’t run theirs. 

Totally agree.... the biggest complaint I hear is when someone reaches out and gets crickets in response!

[marylander1940]

6 hours ago, nycman said:

One should always politely decline. 

It takes less than 2 seconds.

Cut and paste a canned response, if you’re truly deluged with requests.

You never know when you’ll be in that part of the world again, or he in yours.

I would never reach out to someone a second time at any point in the future who didn’t even bother with a polite and simple "I’m sorry I’m all booked up. Hope to see you another time."  I refuse to give my business to those who can’t run theirs. 

Do you keep records of those who didn't reply to you? Is hard to remember someone who didn't reply and think "oh, I remember him, I texted him and he didn't reply".

Maybe the escort is with a client for an overnight and simply can't reach his phone at the moment, he's flying somewhere else next morning. No excuse for me for someone NOT to say "sorry, yesterday I was busy" but the way you phrase it (in your own particular way) sounds like a thread, like you (and I guess others) would take a no response as personal insult impossible to be forgotten. 

 

Edited May 30, 2022 by marylander1940

[marylander1940]

7 hours ago, bigdipper said:

When you’re traveling to a city for just a weekend and become booked solid with appointments, do you politely decline new requests for appointments or just not respond to the person?

There was an escort in this site who bragged about "on average having 5 guys per day" EVERYTIME he travels...

I'm sure 5 guys a day do happen but not every day on average meaning some days he has 7 and others he has 3 guys a day.

Back to your question a person can't be in two places at the same time, if someone wants to see him at 9 and he has someone 8-10 PM... unless the client is more flexible it might be impossible. 

 

[HornyLatinBi]

1 minute ago, marylander1940 said:

There was an escort in this site who bragged about "on average having 5 guys per day" EVERYTIME he travels...

I'm sure 5 guys a day do happen but not every day on average meaning some days he has 7 and others he has 3 guys a day.

Back to your question a person can't be in two places at the same time, if someone wants to see him at 9 and he has someone 8-10 PM... unless the client is more flexible it might be impossible. 

 

5 times a day? 7? 3?

Sounds like a great reason to pass him by, but of course no companion is going to ever say to a prospective client that he could only slot him in between guest #5 and guest #6, of course, so one has to follow one's hunches and make smart choices.

Back to the question....

[+ Lucky]

8 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

...a person can't be in two places at the same time...

 

The wisdom I gain from the message board has no bounds! 🙂

[marylander1940]

8 minutes ago, Lucky said:

The wisdom I gain from the message board has no bounds! 🙂

because of you I remove the cover and let the bedsheets freshen up, unlike you I don't wait till going to bed to place the cover back n its place. That's something I've learned from you in this forum! 

 

15 minutes ago, HornyLatinBi said:

5 times a day? 7? 3?

Sounds like a great reason to pass him by, but of course no companion is going to ever say to a prospective client that he could only slot him in between guest #5 and guest #6, of course, so one has to follow one's hunches and make smart choices.

Back to the question....

Yes... somehow he assumed that was a way get more clients.

Unfortunately, his escorting career in the USA ended when his phone was checked by Homeland Security and the real reasons of his visit emerged. He no longer posts on here. 

Edited May 30, 2022 by marylander1940

[+ Lucky]

1 minute ago, marylander1940 said:

Unfortunately, his escorting career in the USA ended when his phone was checked by Homeland Security and the real reasons of his visit emerged. He no longer posts on here. 

And how would you know this? Inside line at HS?

[marylander1940]

2 minutes ago, Lucky said:

And how would you know this? Inside line at HS?

 I'll reply to you by PM. no need to help you drag his out of subject.

[italianboyph]

I always make sure to try to fit them in no matter what, but sometimes that doesn't work, because some are looking for right now. I always prefer to schedule ahead just so I have a better idea of the time flow. Usually I can't meet this time but I can meet this time or this day.

[HornyLatinBi]

For me the answer is easy...

Due to my particular "niche" I will not ever do more than one a day, unless one of the requests is specifically for a therapeutic/sensual massage, and expectations are made clear.

Trying to do more than one a day is not good for my health and is unfair to my guest.

[+ nycman]

4 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Do you keep records of those who didn't reply to you?

No, I just don’t delete my text history. 
It’s not exactly advanced accounting.

4 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

…like you (and I guess others) would take a no response as personal insult impossible to be forgotten. 

Huh?
No, I just don’t like rude people and choose not to associate with them.
C'est la vie.

You know, life isn’t nearly as overly dramatic as you’re keep straining to make it sound.

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, nycman said:

No, I just don’t delete my text history. 
It’s not exactly advanced accounting.

Huh?
No, I just don’t like rude people and choose not to associate with them.
C'est la vie.

You know, life isn’t nearly as overly dramatic as you’re keep straining to make it sound.

Some folks go in and out of business and sometimes get new numbers. Burner numbers? I guess you keep the same number for hiring. 

Sometimes I read your posts and they sound angry, demanding almost like a threat.

 

12 hours ago, nycman said:

I would never reach out to someone a second time at any point in the future who didn’t even bother with a polite and simple "I’m sorry I’m all booked up. Hope to see you another time."  I refuse to give my business to those who can’t run theirs. 

In this case sounded like a dramatic oath!

I hope you read before clicking send, being nice/polite should go both ways. 

[+ nycman]

3 hours ago, nycman said:

You know, life isn’t nearly as overly dramatic as you’re keep straining to make it sound.

 

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

In this case sounded like a dramatic oath!

 

Thank you for proving my point. 

[marylander1940]

18 minutes ago, nycman said:

 

Thank you for proving my point. 

Quote me fully or don't quote me at all.

Please don't be that offended if someone didn't reply to you right away, maybe he had other things to do and later he forgot to apologize for not being available right away to take your money. 

Edited May 31, 2022 by marylander1940

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

On 5/30/2022 at 8:23 AM, nycman said:

One should always politely decline. 

It takes less than 2 seconds.

Cut and paste a canned response, if you’re truly deluged with requests.

You never know when you’ll be in that part of the world again, or he in yours.

I would never reach out to someone a second time at any point in the future who didn’t even bother with a polite and simple "I’m sorry I’m all booked up. Hope to see you another time."  I refuse to give my business to those who can’t run theirs. 

All of this right here.

This should be the standard.

It takes a minute to send a message and shows mutual respect.