Are you a Hardon Checker?

[btmstudnyc]

Tell me are you a hardon checker?

 

And I have to say...there is nothing worse...then a Hardon checker.

If you touch my dick just to see if Im hard...that pisses me off. If you want to get it hard..then start playing with it. Damn, I'm not a machine...Or maybe I am....just push the right fucking buttons, and in the right order...should I send out the instruction booklet first?

 

I'm not talking about just looking...I'm talking about the guys that will just touch it for a sec to make sure.

 

So, it's a two-fold question (no pun intended.)

 

Escorts, does this bother you too...or is it just me? AND, Are you a checker too? Because you want to know if your doing a good job.

Clients and members of the board, Do you hate this too? And do you do it?

 

Hell, I was bored this morning. I'm sure someone will say this was a dump post.....oh did I say dump....I meant dumb.

 

Jim

[+ Lucky]

>Hell, I was bored this morning. I'm sure someone will say this was a >dump post.....oh did I say dump....I meant dumb.<

I couldn't say that because I am not a post checker. But it hardly seems an escort's worst problem!

[+ deej]

When I'm touching a dick, it's NEVER just to find out if it's hard. After all, once we're at that point it soon will be. }> I may be fondling, rubbing, caressing, licking, sucking, or wanking, but never just checking.

 

Of course, half the time once your legs go in the air I don't even care if you HAVE a penis, except as a handle for hauling you around the bed. :+

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

A Guest Twink Responds

 

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>Of course, half the time once your legs go in the air I

>don't even care if you HAVE a penis, except as a handle for

>hauling you around the bed. :+

 

You go, girl!

[Rick Munroe]

Funny question. I never go to feel anyone's dick through their pants unless I see it's hard (or feel it against me). I'd hate to make anyone feel self-conscious. As for me, I don't care if someone "checks" mine...if it's not hard yet, it will be very soon.

[Guest ncm2169]

Is this the time to do a reality check on those clients (escorts?) whose Reviews frequently say, "his cock was hard from the moment he walked in the door." Or, "he was instantly hard when we got into bed." :9 OK: same question, both to escorts and clients: how REAL is that?

[+ Hoover42]

It doesn't happen often, but when it does, I become so self-concious about it that it's enough to stop any hardon of mine in it's tracks. x(

 

I'm hoping that I won't have that problem once they come out with the 24-hour timed-released Viagra patches.

[+ Cash4Trash]

I've had an escort put on a condom and then remove it when he thought I wouldn't see him. I'm not checking to see if you're hard, I'm checking to see if that gorgeous dick is still wrapped.

[Gigiloz4me]

I use to run into hardon checkers every once in a while and yes it use to p!ss me off.

 

I noticed other trends too, such as: did YOU cum? did WE cum together? Equal time crap 'I do you, you do me' ... top? ... bottom? ... on and on.

 

Gay men have engineered spontaneity out of the bedroom. If someone asks me "Are you a top or a bottom?" I cut my loses and walk away then. No roles or rules between my sheets. I prefer to let passion lead the way. If the guy doesn't understand this concept he's sexually too narrow for my tastes. I'd rather jerk off.

 

When I meet someone and things are heating up... I insure to slip in a casual comment like... "the bedroom is a fun place man... there are 1000 ways to make love and a 1000 ways to f#@k... let's not focus on who's hard and who's not...just have fun." etc.

 

I find taking away all roles and rules from sex has resulted in making the experience much more intense and satisfying. It's been my experience that 99% of tops are really versatile. Bottoms on the other hand are usually committed and/or unskilled as a top (so why bother). I prefer to focus on their other talents.

 

When I come to NY I hire the same escort. Well, I experimented with 2 others and those were mediocre compared to this guy. He knows how I feel about roles, rules and the alike. He is the master of taunt, tease and delivery. Now, he's a total top and doesn't entertain rolling over. To me absolutes aren't 'roles.' I go to him for something very specific (and he gives it to me).

[btmstudnyc]

>I find taking away all roles and rules from sex has resulted

>in making the experience much more intense and satisfying.

 

 

You got me so fucking hot...when is your next visit to NY?

 

Versatile is where its at...just ask RUSHNY...he's another Top gone under...hehe...

 

Jim

[Guest luv2luv]

Seeing the result of stimulation either physically or psychologically induced is nice but not so much essential for me. For my scene my own hard on is enough. However I find when I concentrate too much on that too it's not as enduring as I'd like it to be. Ever notice when your doing something non sexually oriented and a hard on erupts? Tells me that too much thought given to the idea of getting and keeping a good stiff one can ruin the moment. always, Joey

[Gigiloz4me]

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>You got me so fucking hot...when is your next visit to NY?

>

 

...aaah, shucks Jim... thanks. Now if that got you all worked up I'm not sure you'd survive a entire an evening with me! <eg>

[Guest Derek Ross]

Here's my advice: Don't check it, just suck it. }>

[btmstudnyc]

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>>You got me so fucking hot...when is your next visit to NY?

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>...aaah, shucks Jim... thanks. Now if that got you all

>worked up I'm not sure you'd survive a entire an evening

>with me! <eg>

 

Well I guess that's why I always use my quote...IF IT DON'T FIT...FORCE IT!!!

 

AN ENTIRE EVENING with you....hmmm..you dont remember that cheerleading movie Im so fond of.....BRING IT ON!!!! And for that matter....we can always invite Derek Ross....you can read his advice below. Don't check...JUST DO IT!!!HEHE

 

JIM

[Guest Not2Kinky4me]

Dont misunderstand me, I love em hard but I also like quality time with them soft which I rarely get for long. I wont get into everything I love about a hung guy laying back soft for me to enjoy. I'll just say its fantastic (and heavenly if uncut) especially after he shot his load and the residual cum oozes out when returning to the soft stage.

 

Dinner time!:9

[Guest Derek Ross]

Great attitude. Gotta love a cock-pig. }>

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

LMAO I needed that deej thank you for the laugh this afternoon

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

He must have been wanking something fierce in the car

[DaninWA]

I love a hardon checker:-) I want a guy to go for my package to show him just how turned-on I am. Usually get a big smile and a good squeeze from the guy. And then things get really interesting}>

 

Dan

[btmstudnyc]

Check Mine, CHECK MINE TOO......

 

OH my gosh Dan, I have a bf that is exactly like that.

 

This thread has been interesting to me. I realized that one of the guys I go out with...ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS, makes me check his hard on. He has to always put my hand on it...at the store, in the gym, in the car, walking down the street....you name it. He is so fucking peacock proud of it. He makes me laugh. One day, I made him check mine...and his eyes lit up....I checked his and he didn't have one...so then he said....no..no...no...don't stop...make it hard, make mine hard too......

 

So I turned to him and said..."Do I looked bewitched."

 

He said...."NO...Samantha...but if you bend over..that's all the magic I'll need to get my dick up."

 

I guess my problem is...if you check..and it's not hard...damn...do whatever you can to make it hard. DON't JUST FUCKING LAY THERE and expect me to get hard over you.

 

Jim

 

PS. This doesn't necessarily have to do with escort/client relationships....I'm really just talking in general.