Where Do You Prefer to Meet Clients?

[+ Hoover42]

I have a question in anticipation of hiring my first escort (and yes, it IS taking me some time to work up to it. )

 

As an escort meeting a first-time client, would you feel more comfortable meeting with the client at their home, or at a hotel somewhere?

 

I can think of advantages and disadvantages in either case, and I would be interested to see if there is a consensus here.

 

Thanks

[Guest WestLA]

As a first-timer myself slowly researching the reviews, I've been debating the question too.

 

The first issue is safety. Do I want a stranger in my home that might rip me off or bring in some bashers?

 

The smaller issue is cost and comfort. I sort of feel sleazy if I get a cheap motel. And since the rates vary, do I want to spent another $100 for a nicer hotel?

 

I'm anxious to see other opinions!

[Rick Munroe]

>The first issue is safety. Do I want a stranger in my home

>that might rip me off or bring in some bashers?

 

If you hire a well-reviewed professional, that won't happen. That's why you need to do your homework here before you hire.

 

I have no preference as far as in or out (for in-calls, I don't have to leave my house; for out-calls, that's one less trip to the laundromat with sheets & towels) but for overnights, I generally prefer a hotel, whenever possible.

[+ Lucky]

I didn't know you offered a towel service.

[Guest jon guy]

>As an escort meeting a first-time client, would you feel

>more comfortable meeting with the client at their home, or

>at a hotel somewhere?

 

 

As rod says, if you select an escort carefully, you shouldn't be putting yourself at risk. the main risk taker is the escort as they are likely to know less about you than you about them. From this point of view, a hotel might be better - but i like going to clients' homes, and unless you are overflowing with largesse, i wouldn't think it worth forking out for a room in your own city!

 

My only issue, is that i prefer not to meet clients on street corners or in bars. i've been fucked around far too much by 'no show'- ers, and then there are those who are happy to buy you a drink but then back out from going home with you and so paying you! I'm not suggesting for one minute that you would do either of these things, but they are concerns which escorts might have which you might not have considered.

 

good luck.

 

x jon. http://www.jonguy.com

[Rick Munroe]

quicker picker upper

 

>I didn't know you offered a towel service.

 

You must have come over on one of my Bounty days.

[+ Lucky]

RE: quicker picker upper

 

I prefer Brawny.;-) The bigger size, too.

[Guest Hole_4_Hire]

I usually prefer to meet clients at a hotel (their room). I do not do "in calls" so meeting at my place is not an option.

 

I have a couple of long-time clients (both over 60 years old) that I see at their house. But, this is generally not the "norm" for most of my clients. Some are in long-term relationships and prefer that I not go to their home (which is fine with me). Others see an evening with me as treat or a mini-vacation. I've also found that most clients are less inhibited outside of their own environment.

 

It is my general preference NOT to go to someone else's home. But, with clients living on a fixed income, I'll make an exception when they're trusted customers and have a clean home.

 

I never meet first-time clients at their home.

[Guest jeffOH]

Since I'm a lazy hooker, I prefer to meet clients at my place. I don't have to get dressed and save on gas for the car. Plus, I have all the supplies/toys we may need right here.

 

I won't meet a 1st time client in a bar or on a street corner. If they're at a hotel,I'll meet them in their room. I don't mind going to a client's home, unless they live way out in bumfuck in some scary house miles from their nearest neighbor.

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[Bilbo]

I totally agree about not meeting in a bar or on a street corner, and I won't wait to meet you in the lobby of your hotel either. One bad apple rejected me that way without bothering to tell me so until I called his hotel room several times. I "didn't look enough like a Master to him." What did he want, full leathers in a hotel lobby?

 

Personally, I am at present a bit shy about meeting in your hotel/especially motel room as I was entrapped and arrested once at a La Quinta. I am trying to get myself to start doing that again, but never again at a LaQ, for heaven's sakes.

 

Also, another point is that many of the men hiring me are hiring me for an erotic massage. Which involves a massage table or it hurts my back. Which involves carrying a very large thing around if we are talking out call. And I live on the second floor without an elevator, whether or not your home/hotel has an elevator or not.

[Guest maturescort]

:-) I have met clients at their homes and motels. As the client is paying, whatever he finds more comfortable is fine with me.

[+ Hoover42]

>The first issue is safety. Do I want a stranger in my home

>that might rip me off or bring in some bashers?

 

I can see where safety would be an issue, as well as confidentiality. Do you really want the escort to know where you live?

 

Of course, as many people here have commented, if you get a reliable escort neither issue should be a major concern.

 

My fear is that the escort will see what a modest apartment I live in and storm out in disgust!

[Rick Munroe]

>As rod says, if you select an escort carefully, you

>shouldn't be putting yourself at risk.

 

LOL This is the first time I've ever been mistaken for Mr. Hagen.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

As usual, I am still with Jeff

 

and for myself agree with ALL of his points. I also do incalls, and conversely, I may take a risk having a stranger in my home, but it has never been a problem because I also do my research.

 

As noted above, Rick/Rod does make a valid point about doing your homework, which Will also got into great detail on the Newbie thread elsewhere. Most of all, you need a good "bullshit" detector and you need to speak with your escort on the telephone. If the escort was reluctant to do so, that might be a sign that this person is not the escort for you. Ask all the questions YOU need to feel comfortable, above all, and make sure you are not too shy to explain what you want and need for your first experience.

 

Good luck!!!

[Rick Munroe]

RE: As usual, I am still with Jeff

 

>As noted above, Rick/Rod does make a valid point

 

DiSantis, you are hysterical. I only hope this new name doesn't catch on. If it does, you're a dead man. :*

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Dead Meat

 

And my ex always said I was a dead fuck....