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I am 64 years old, and will be 65 this year. I am in really good shape and most people think I am in my early fifties. I have just started to hire escorts, but I feel that maybe it must be an unpleasant experience for them. Then I read reviews where men are overweight and out of shape and I feel a little better about myself.

Also, is it safe to be a bottom when you are older? I was in a very long term relationship which ended and so finding sex at this point in my life is strange. I cannot relax and enjoy the sex yet. First I am self conscious about my age, then I wonder about all the new diseases, and Jesus Christ, maybe it's better to jerk off alone.

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Age is mental

 

As well as your physical age may differ from your chronological age based on your health, genes and how much you exercise and otherwise take care of yourself. If you feel up for it and you find escorts you like, speak with them and feel that you can enjoy yourself with them, go ahead and experience this aspect of your sexuality.

 

As for your concern about being a bottom, you need to explore the safer sex issues and any other concerns you may have fully, either on line or with a friendly doctor or gay male friend with more sexual experience. It is important you get your information from trusted sources. Make sure you escort is on the "same page" as you are and you will enjoy your experience that much more.

 

By the way, my oldest client is 72 and I believe other escorts on here have seen even older clients with an even great age difference.

 

Best of luck to you!

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RE: .... GREATER age difference

 

One of my older clients, who is just about your age, introduced me to a sexual practice which I thought was a bit wierd at the time - restraining his wrists and ankles while I gave him an erotic massage. Just yesterday, I found a web site from a Body Electric certified Sacred Intimate offering that exact service and explaining why it is a good idea. (My client thinks that I invented it, but I know that, around here, he did.) So, yes, you can be an incredibly sexy, inventive person at your age and shouldn't miser yourself away from those who would appreciate you. As a bodyworker, I don't want to encourage Type A behavior, but I can't help quoting that old joke, "Death is just Nature's way of saying, Slow down." ;-)

 

(I think that credit for that one should go to George Carlin, darlin'.)

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When I was in my 20s, I knew a gentleman who was 84 and still hiring escorts. Amazingly, he still sometimes found young men who were attracted to him for free. I think it all depends on your attitude: he was warm, witty, and interested in more than sex. (He was also a "clean old man".)

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Heyyy, whazup

 

Like our friend said, you are never too old to hire escorts.

 

You see, most escorts, like myself, are in the business to meet people and just have a good time. We can always find something very attractice about our clients that make us feel comfortable.

 

It seems you do need to keep hiring escorts so that you can get more comfortable. After a little while, you will see that there was never a reason to worry.

 

Hope all is well

 

 

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There was a recent question on another website about youngest and oldest clients, and I thought what I posted there would be interesting in the context of this discussion.

 

The youngest was a 21 year old guy who was just coming out and had also just broken up with his first boyfriend. It was interesting because he was really embarrassed about hiring an escort and also really sweet and shy. He didn't want me to take off his clothes - he just wanted to grope. Of course, the temptation of his rock hard cock under his shorts which I was NOT supposed to see was too much, so I spent most of the hour convincing him to undress so I could at least jack him off, which I did. It was poignant because he reminded me a lot of myself at that age. Very shy! So there is something to be said for getting older, isn't there?

 

My most vivid experience with an older client was with a 65 year old guy that I hooked up with last year. During the first half hour of a 2 hour call, he tells me about practically every scar on his body from this or that operation. Then he explains he can't get an erection because of his heart medication, but he can cum. He ends the verbal "foreplay" by saying something like, "I've worked damn hard to get to be 65 and I just love being here." The man was very warm and charismatic and open-hearted. As promised, without the benefit of a hard-on, he was a passionate kisser and lover and he shot a load over me at the end of the call. It was clear that he felt comfortable with himself, and had a great time. And so did I!

 

What is that saying - why is youth wasted on the young?

 

Steven

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You're only too old to hire when you don't want it any more. I'm the same age you are and a bottom. One of the many good things about being a bottom is that you don't need to get and keep it up to have GREAT sex.

 

And getting older has been great for me. Attractive men who wouldn't have looked at me decades ago are now hot for my fat old ass. Turning 50 brought a fanstastic change in my sex life and passing 60 has been even better.

 

Also I find that escorts are more aware of safety issues than guys you meet for casual sex.

 

So long as you can take a good pounding, you're never too old to bottom.

 

buzz :9

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You seem to imply that an older man is no longer attractive. While youth does seem to sell (escort biz and porno biz)... there are some things that older men possess that is much more beautiful then youth.

 

The gay world, at least in the USA, seems to focus too much on being in the early 20's.

 

Flaunt your good points... surely they outweigh your youth gone by.

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Mikki, I'm just one year behind you and I'm working on overcoming the same insecurities about my age. But Buzz is right that its easier being an older bottom - that takes away a closet-full of performance anxieties.

 

My first anal experience was a dry rape in a cheap Chicago flophouse, which I now recognize kept me in the closet and kept me as a top for far too long. And now that I'm newly-enjoying being a total bottom, I am able to find escorts that are quite happy to play for pay.

 

A couple of things I've learned: Tell your age right up front. And dont take offense if the guy isn't into age play. I've found that (with notable exceptions) escorts 25-40 yo are more age-friendly than younger guys, as well as more experienced in creative scenes with a bottom. But thats partly a personal preference of course. Also be clear in saying what you want and judge the escort's willingness in his responses.

 

When you do get together, take a real deep breath and exhale slowly, then just work on relaxing and making sure both of you have fun. Be a good trick for the escort and he will often return that favor. And instead of worrying about what he thinks of the way you look, start by admiring the hot present you just bought yourself. Enjoy yourself with your new toy, deep-six your inferiorities for an hour, and concentrate on showing this stud what a hot old bottom you can be for him!

 

Best of luck to you, you hot old man!

 

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