In Masseurfinder and Rentmasseur....how to find out the masseur's limits....any hidden clues?

[LFABWC]

When I am browsing those two sites I often found A LOT of "masseurs" that are also in Rentmen.

And I usually find there are a lot of guys that are very attractive....the problem is that there is no way of knowing if they are strictly

masseurs or maybe "something more"....???

I assume you just have to specifically ask them......I was wondering if there where any "clues"???

I hate when I get the "this is a massage site!!!" ....shit!!!.....Lol

Edited March 10, 2022 by gaothanear

[Guest]

I think you already discovered one of the biggest clues: A masseur with a Rent.Men ad. 

I also think the likelihood of "something more" happening increases if they have a Rentmassuer ad and a MasseurFinder ad. If they just have MassuerFinder, I would expect them to probably mostly offer therapeutic massages only. Because Rent.Masseur is connected to Rent.Men though I think the guys that advertise on there are often willing to do "erotic" massages, though in many cases not full-on escort experiences. 

[LFABWC]

you are right!!!

Another clue may be when you see a massage table in the first pic.....the "masseurs" that are also in Rentmen usually do not have those pics.

In Rentmasseur they can at least uncheck the "erotic" massage box, but in Masseurfinder they took away that box some time ago.

Probably everything depends on chemistry......I have gone to get a massage with legit masseurs and we ended up having sex!!!

Edited March 10, 2022 by gaothanear

[spider]

Probably the best clue is the price. 

[maninsoma]

I know I'm repeating myself, but I suggest not looking for "clues."  In my experience, some guys charge high rates and give other "clues" about their service being highly erotic and then don't deliver anything remotely erotic.  Instead you pay a premium price for a mediocre therapeutic only massage. 

Instead of looking for clues and making assumptions or guesses based on those clues, just ask some direct questions.  Unless you are asking questions of someone who clearly states "therapeutic only," I doubt he'll be shocked.

[+ newatthis]

11 hours ago, maninsoma said:

some guys charge high rates and give other "clues" about their service being highly erotic and then don't deliver anything remotely erotic. 

Not to mention implying much in a phone conversation and delivering little.

[maninsoma]

7 minutes ago, newatthis said:

Not to mention implying much in a phone conversation and delivering little.

That's even worse and, frankly, far less common in my experience than guys who run suggestive ads who don't deliver on what they imply.  It's why I started being more explicit about what I wanted when I was hiring erotic masseurs frequently.

[Rudynate]

On 3/10/2022 at 12:27 PM, gaothanear said:

When I am browsing those two sites I often found A LOT of "masseurs" that are also in Rentmen.

And I usually find there are a lot of guys that are very attractive....the problem is that there is no way of knowing if they are strictly

masseurs or maybe "something more"....???

I assume you just have to specifically ask them......I was wondering if there where any "clues"???

I hate when I get the "this is a massage site!!!" ....shit!!!.....Lol

They tell you on Rentmasseur:  therapeutic, sensual and erotic.  If you want a massage with lots of extras, stick with guys who say they do erotic and ask them what their limits are.  "Therapeutic" and "sensual" are very fluid and don't mean much - therapeutic can turn into full-on sex on the table and sensual can just mean a little provocative touching.  I only hire for therapeutic - it's the lowest price point and it's surprising how often therapeutic can morph to erotic.

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Rudynate said:

They tell you on Rentmasseur:  therapeutic, sensual and erotic.  If you want a massage with lots of extras, stick with guys who say they do erotic and ask them what their limits are.  "Therapeutic" and "sensual" are very fluid and don't mean much - therapeutic can turn into full-on sex on the table and sensual can just mean a little provocative touching.  I only hire for therapeutic - it's the lowest price point and it's surprising how often therapeutic can morph to erotic.

I imagine that happens only when there is a mutual attraction, so I guess it is important to emphasize YMMV. 

[Rudynate]

34 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said:

I imagine that happens only when there is a mutual attraction, so I guess it is important to emphasize YMMV. 

Of course that is true - but the question of who is attracted to who and for what reason is such a wild card that it is difficult to know how important it really is.

[David1024]

A good indicator is the private pics on Rentmasseur. If they show a close up of their butt hole or erect dick, that often implies that they are open to engaging in more activities. You do need a premium account to be able to unlock those pictures though. I asked a masseur once if he’d considered doing escorting. His take was that as an escort he’d be expected to have sex with the client, but as a masseur, he could decide how far he wanted to take it and set limits if he didn’t want to do more than a “happy ending” usually a hand job.