Once........ Twice ........... Three Times a......

[Godiva]

About two months ago I hired an escort based on the the advice of another well known escort. I simply asked him who he would hire and without hesitation he mentioned (?). Well I hired him and it was the best decision I have made in regards to selecting escorts in about 2yrs. Of course I haven't been with Monroe oops... Munroe yet.

 

He had it all...Personality..Body(ASS)..Looks. We had sooo much fun that I almost forgot why he was there. He didn't look at the clock not once and in fact after 1 1/2 hrs it was me who said that I didn't want to take all of his time. We truly hit it off..Of course he was handsomely paid and he even said that he expected we'd see more of each other soon..Wow

 

The problem..Normally some clients would hire him exclusively or the next 4 or 5 times in a row.

 

I have simply chosen to wait..(2mnths) I don't want to over abuse what we had. I don't want him to think I am getting too attached or even worse stalkin him.. so I have since hired a few others within the last 2 mnths. I am curious..I plan to hire him in the next few days and I am almost certain he will ask why it took so long..

 

Escorts and Clients.. Do you limit the amount of encounters with a client or escort for some of the same reasons? or do you just keep getting together till the thrill is gone or the money runs out...

 

I hope I am not the only one...

[guyinsf]

RE: Once........Twice ........... Three Times a......

 

I would hope that an escort you had previously hired only once would not question you as to why it took you so long to hire him again. That would be quite tacky. I could understand someone you had been hiring regularly asking, but even then I think they could more tactfully say something like, "I hadn't heard from you for a while and was wondering if there was anything wrong."

 

I don't think there is a right or wrong answer as to how frequently to hire a particular escort. There is one guy I hire almost every month. I occasionally hire someone else, but not very often. He knows this. I am definitely "attached" to him, but I'm not delusional about my relationship with him either. I just hire him regularly because I enjoy being with him very much and, when hiring someone new, I know that I may very well be left feeling disappointed.

 

I certainly would hope that an escort wouldn't feel like he's being "stalked" just because you hire him often. He should feel flattered and grateful about the repeat business (unless, of course, you ARE stalking him).

 

I would say that if a client is concerned that he will become emotionally involved in a damaging way if he hires the same guy regularly, then he would be smart to not do so.

[Guest jeffOH]

Call up that escort !

 

Godiva,

 

I wouldn't ask a client why it took so long for them to hire me again.

It's a nice thought about not wanting to "over abuse what you had", but I believe you are giving this more thought than necessary.

 

I have clients that I have been seeing for years. Some of those are weekly clients. If this escort is all that, it's not likely you or he will ever grow tired of your time together. And, if he's a true pro,

you'll never know if he is getting burnt out on you.

 

Call him up again, enjoy yourself and quit thinking so much.;-)

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Call ME!

 

-- read this entire thread while playing Blondie's CALL ME from American Gigolo --

 

When I believe the client and I have made a good connection, I do wonder why there is no call back. I often assume, because for some reason I tend to attract many first time users, that it is a financial issue. However, when someone does call me frequently and then stops and then called me again, I would discretely ask something along the lines suggested above, primarly because I would be interested in my client's welfare and well being and also because I would like to know if it was due to something I had done.

 

Love is no substitute for sex.

 

http://photos.yahoo.com/franco4hire

[Guest elwood]

RE: Once..Twice etc.

 

Interesting thread.......I agree with what guyinsf said and appreciate the escort comments. I have met a few escorts that I really liked as people but also realize that there is no real possibility of any other relationship. I have had repeat meetings with some escorts but have never tried to keep up any real correspondence or anything. Most are busy and so am I and its best not to delude yourself in any way. You are paying for some fun and some brief companionship and sexual pleasure. I think that its self delusion to expect anything more.Godiva, your attitude seems to be honest and realistic.

[Godiva]

The Longest Time..

 

Thanxs for the reponses..

 

What was the longest consecutive time you have spent with and escort/client? How was it? Would you do it again?

[guyinsf]

RE: The Longest Time..

 

Friday afternoon-Sunday morning, but only because I am not wealthy enough to afford more and not feel like I'm being reckless with my financial situation. I would certainly repeat this and more. Generally I do overnighters, with a leisurely dinner in the evening, then possibly a film, then sex, then cuddling and talking, then sleep, then more sex in the morning, followed by breakfast and chatting.

[marc anthony]

RE: The Longest Time..

 

Usually I just do ovenighters... but two of my favorite boys, whom I had gotten to know very well and knew that both of us would enjoy our prolonged companionship, I hired a few times for "in Friday, out Mondays". The only exception to this rule is that I am hiring Leon from London in a couple of months to meet me in NYC for a short week without ever having met him. That is because I really want to meet him, and since he has to come from out of country, I want him to be able to enjoy his visit to this country a little as well. I hope that we have enough in common NOT to run out of things to talk about, but if we do, we can occupy our mouths with other things!}>

[Godiva]

RE: The Longest Time..

 

I asked that because I once had flown an escort to me after having had a two day with him last year. I was going to be for 5 days. After the 3 day I don't know what it was but I wanted him out of here. I think the fantasy worn off. I saw his true colors and he saw mine. We could only fuck for so long and after that I had talk to him. I mean I got my moneys worth as far as sex..but I flew him back..it was too painful. I have had a few others were it was more successful.

[marc anthony]

RE: The Longest Time..

 

5 days is a long time to be with anybody. heck, I couldn't be that long with my ex-wife (when we were married!)

[+ Charlie]

RE: Once......Twice ........... Three Times a......

 

I have occasionally had fabulous sex with an escort and hired him again as soon as possible--and the second time is almost always a let-down, because expectations are too high. Last year I had one of the most satisfying escort experiences in a quarter century of hiring (Rex Brant), but I purposely waited a year before doing it again, for fear that I would be disappointed. I wasn't, but I think it was partly because I had allowed myself to cool down, and because after a year he seemed like a slightly different person than I remembered, and newness and the unexpected are part of the thrill for me.

[Godiva]

RE: Once......Twice ........... Three Times a......

 

Charlie..thats what I was thinking..I guess I didn't want to ruin a good thing. I will be hooking up with him after a few months tommorrow night.

[Godiva]

RE: Once......Twice ........... Three Times a......

 

Well I had my date with the escort that prompted this thread. When I called him he asked me why I hadn't called sooner. That he was gonna call me but couldn't find my number..Wow. well he came over and we pretty much picked up where we left off over 2 months. It was intense to say the least. He said he wondered if he had done something wrong since I hadn't called him. I told him why and he thought it was silly but understood. As he was about to leave I handed him his fee. He told me just cab fare and to keep the rest..I told him to take the money and maybe next time I will accept his generosity. I am pretty

lucky with this escort. I don't know what will happen but I will have fun on the way. A great time had by all...

[chrismac]

RE: Once......Twice ........... Three Times a......

 

Wow - that sounds like a great experience. You've found yourself a great guy - but like you and others have said, be careful about your feelings for him and his for you. I think it was both kind and smart of you to pay his fee anyway, and agree you should take him up on his generosity if he offers it again (he might not, but who knows).

 

I usually handle repeat business this way:

 

- If the escort and I had a great time, and it seems both parties felt great about the experience, I'll send a brief note saying as much to the escort in a few days if he doesn't beat me to it. Either way, I'll respond with something like, "thanks for your note. Look forward to getting together when I'm next in ABC City" (I don't hire in my own town - and only hire escorts about once a quarter on average, if that). And I'll most likely call him again when I travel to that city.

 

- If I had a great time, the guy was hot and passionate, etc, but I'm not entirely sure the escort had a great time, I'll wait to see if he sends me a note. If not, I figure that's either not his style, or he would rather not repeat the experience (hey, I'm hot, but I can't be everyone's type ;-)). So I won't contact him again, even if he's the only hot guy in that city (the freeby hook-ups through men4sexnow.com and gaydar etc can usually fill the void).

 

- Obviously if I was a little disappointed with the meeting, I don't call him again.

 

I've been with one masseur/escort about 5 or 6 times now over the past two years (the most repeats with one escort for me) and although we pretty much do EXACTLY the same thing EVERY SINGLE TIME I come over to visit him, I still do because he gives a genuine and great massage, with great conversation, and the sex, although predictable - is always fantastic. We always send a note to each other after a meeting, then about 3 months later, he'll "ring my bell" again with a little note saying he misses seeing me, etc. I take this as good marketing more than friendship, but he also enjoys talking to me and remembers our stories from previous meetings, so we pick up where we left off.

 

He's busy, but always makes room for me when I am in his town; he tells me I get first priority over most of his clients. Again, I think this is sales talk, but it is funny that he's always available for the time I want. Anyway, I'm sure I wouldn't come back to him again and again (especially since I'm always wishing we could have SOME VARIETY in the sex department) if he didn't at least act like he really wanted to work with me. Plus, making a true massage a big part of our time allows me to feel better about paying for the whole thing.

 

Anyway - good luck with this treasure you've found Godiva - and let us know how it goes. At the very least, he knows some very good marketing techniques. :-)